k, thought seriously for a minute to get it straight so i can put on here for dru and others.
i know well what i want in a relationship and it's not all going to fit in a post, or in words, but i'll try. Compassion for each other is a must. Some one who can laugh at thier own faults and mistakes and mine and both of us feel free to join in the joke with out fear of offense. Yes, laughing... that's a must, often. Soft spoken words in times of hurt and joy, weather they comfort or excite. Stupid arguments about meaningless crap that, although we know from the start it's about nothing, we can argue and still come out the other side of it smiling and kissing and apologizing. Open and quick minded conversations or jests that will keep both of us on our mental toes. Thoughtfull gestures like slipping a note or a card under the other persons windsheild wiper at work when they don't notice, then laugh and get a kick out of it when they don't notice it until it starts raining. A relationship that can be felt, embraced and lived in, not just lived with.
a little harsh, and some people will. but others are 'happy optomists' and chose to see the good in everything before the bad. or sometimes you just nieve by choice also.
you can't look at the ups and downs and predict what tomorrow's going to bring. the heart is rather surprising like that. you can be so full of pain and misery and feel like your never going to get over it and move on, then lo and behold you walk around a corner and witness something or experience something that you never thought you would again. it's something new but just as valid and filled with love as anything else was in your life. but it's just that, NEW. and different, you just gotta be able to see that.
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Move forward boldly! But with caution.
i will. one day.
RE: WORDS YOU DON'T LIKE TO HEAR ?
don't worry about that camera... it's not on, just charging.