Come on, all of you. Cheer up! You will have me cry. Look at the bright side of life.
I am alone but not lonely. I enjoy every minute of my live. There is always something nice to look at, someone nice to talk to, some good news to read.
I send you lots of
I'd like to receive your answers with a big smile on your face.
What an awful year you've been through. No wonder you feel bad. You will need to be strong but I'm sure you are. Things will go better, slowly, slowly. Come on the forums as often as possible. There are so many funny people as well as so many nice people here. We all will love you.
It depends on the quality of your sleep. If you have regular phases of sleep and a good deep sleep, you recover quickly. I suffer from sleeping disorder (no deep sleep phase). It took 2 years before doctors found out what was the problem and it almost killed me. Even now, 6 years later, I cannot adapt my body to a normal day/night rhythm.
Honestly, no. I'm too shy to make the first step. Even on CS, I do not mail first. But on Forums, I feel like I'm with a group of old friends and can have good fun.
I do agree xmams, to be an Atheist can sometimes be hard. But not THAT hard. Don't be too negative about humanity.
I never felt the necessity to leave any community even though I lived in a Catholic country most of my life and am now in a Orthodox country. I travelled a lot around the world and went to Muslim, Jewish, Buddhist or Hindouist countries. I rarely had problems. Society is often close-minded but there are open-minded people everywhere. I do respect all believes but do clearly state that I expect the same respect to me. In most countries, extremists are a minority.
All religions are based on the fact that people have to believe what parents/teachers/religious authorities have told them. It is thus impossible and "illegal" for them to have an original thought and a personal opinion.
In some European countries, one could walk around the block from Marokko to Saudi Arabia then visit Algeria. But you better avoid it, mainly for women, if you want to stay alive. Even police does not dare to go in those ghettos completely ruled by "immigrants". Scary!
I have a completely different way to react than most of you. It is easier for me to forget than to forgive. I have a very bad memory since always, and it's not getting better with age. When somebody hurts me badly, usually I forget what happened exactly, I only remember I don't like this person any more. People I loved that have been cheating or have hurt me, become invisible to me. I don't hate them or pity them, I just don't care at all about them. Sometimes it takes quite a long time to get rid of the pain, much longer than to forget the reason of the pain.
Well, my ex-husband didn't want to wear a lady's ring, and I didn't want to wear a men's watch. So we both kept our engagement gift and continued to wear it. The wedding ring though went in a back corner of my jewellery box.
Quite easy to understand. She tries to forget her ex and thought meeting some nice guys would help her. But once in your arms, even if she liked you, she couldn't stop thinking about her ex. Or she didn't feel the "woaw" she used to feel with her ex. Nothing to do with you. It seems she needs more time to get over her ex. That's all. She was very honest by telling you immediately.
RE: sadness
I'm glad at least you, did answer me Tgirl.I began to feel completely invisible here