lovely4u7da Forum Posts (1,337)

RE: Post the funniest name of a town or place you know....

Love ladies, new jersey

RE: Cats

RE: Cats

oh my goodness this is to funny,,,,,,and probably true

hope after all

Giving time some time there is hope after all in waiting for that special one . I hope this year brings many a special love interest

I am just trying to push the old posts down

welcome 2015

I am looking forward to 2015 ,2014 was a stressful year, I learned some things about myself mostly through the last 2 relationships I had
so even when I thought it was bad it was good.

May everyone have a blessed year

RE: What do you think about Christmas?

could care less if we ever had another one of these Hell-a-day`s

RE: Merry Christmas

your photo is so so adorable may everyone have a merry day

RE: DESCRIBE YOUR EX IN ONE WORD

"sociopath"

RE: DESCRIBE YOUR EX IN ONE WORD

its to many words that would described him , oh i got it

socialpath

RE: Dating & new relationships

of course its a good ideal, if you find something about the person you don`t like than you can moved on ,if you really like this person than give him a chance to come clean or explain but only if it becomes something serious

RE: Keep 1 word add 1 word

surfer dude

RE: Proof of gods existence or non existence?

and so the question was asked when the Messiah comes back will be find faith on the earth? This life is a faith walk and in most everything you do or don't it still requires faith.

RE: real marriage

its simple, it becomes hard when you are faced with something you don't really want to do ,marriage is 100% from both partners,regardless of who is NOT doing their part, will you love them still?

RE: How do you mend a broken heart???

time ,time, time is a friend of the brokenhearted
and when you think you will never get through another day of this pain keep moving ,keep working, keep getting out ,go see family treat your self, read ,read ,read ,,,,,,forgive them ,forgive yourself,,,,,,,you will survive and one day wonder how you got through it all and realize you are a better person for having the experience ,,life is a great teacher

RE: If a young man is attracted to 10-20 years older ladies than ladies of his own age or younger

well if it is only attraction than that can come in all shapes and sizes and ages
who knows what attracts a younger man to a older woman I think it is normal
here is a man in his late 30`s to a woman in her late 60`s i see them and i try to see if something is wrong with the man (mentally) because I cant see the attraction he has for her,she looks like his mother when they are out and about ,and she has done nothing to make her self look younger than him she keeps a head full of gray hair ,they are both a nice size
LOVE IS Blind

RE: How do you mend a broken heart???

Sometimes we already know what we need to do but we need some assurance that we are doing the right thing, start making a life for your self and move on ,men that lie and cause hurt by these actions will continue to do so
it is their choice, so you should choose to do what makes you happy and bring peace

no hope for love

it is so easy to allow the bad things that other people do to us to make us change from someone that was sweet or kind or how better we were than to how we are right now (not as sweet or caring)
I don`t understand the attraction of good men to controlling selfish women ,
I was out washing clothes and asked a man if he was saving the folding table he was leaning and reading the paper on and he looked at me like I cursed his mother and said "what"? I said will i be in your way if i fold here, he did`t say anything else just moved a few feet over I just wondered who did he allow to make him so mean, it is a choice

RE: Are we obliged,to look after,our elderly parents,when incapable looking after themselves??

of course you should not feel obliged to take care of your parents, It is something everyone will have to think about doing as seniors are living longer, I take care of my mother every 2 weeks for now but should she need special care in the future i will be there as my 3 other sister have been also, putting her in a nursing home was and is never a option we find a way to make it work thats all we know.

RE: The great drought of 2014

hey boongy you can Love a woman skinny,
if you start out with a proportionate lady its no guarantee she will stay that way especially after having children should you marry someone with out children already

if you want to be happy for the rest of your life you better make a ugly woman your wife just kidding ,its a song

give some of these pretty plus size woman a chance
just a suggestion

no hope for love

its found in Isaiah 4 verse 1

no hope for love

lol,,,yes it saids In that day 7 woman shall take hold of one(1) man ,my mistake 7 woman not 8 well i believe we are closer to that In that Day than we think,

it has always been more woman to men ,

I don`t understand how any man finds it hard to find a good woman
unless he is an insensitive selfish jerk

RE: Have you met a romantic interest from this site?

yessssssssssssss two from here ,one lasted 9mo and the other one date, and one from another site was 10mo,,,and than there were none

no hope for love

mmm yes Jeb80 right now I am here for the forums and blogs and game room , I am not ready to jump back in the dating waters ,I will let you in on a secret ,most of those "here for the forums only" women are hoping and waiting for someone to look-push pass all that ,someone thats willing to put in the time to win their trust and confidence ,however most men here won`t make that kind of time ,maybe they feel its not worth it.

RE: when to stop hoping?

oh i did not know this is about him cheating, what you should know that there is nothing you could have done that would have made him change ,women should not take men cheating so personal that they think it is something they did that made him look somewhere else, he had cheating in his heart before he met you, you were right about it being a choice

RE: when to stop hoping?

this is true 70X70 we are to forgive which means if you are thinking about weather to keep forgiving instead of Loving unconditionally in spite of what the other person has or is doing than maybe you no longer Love as you did in the beginning ,love is a choice and so is forgiving, you can already choose to forgive no matter what may come or go thats LOVE

no hope for love

well bulldog i am not searching anymore It is different when a woman gives up
there is about 8 women to one man ,all I can say is you are not looking in the right places , laundry-mets , grocery store after 10pm , parks where woman go to run and work out just stand next to a bench like you just finished
she is out there
waiting for you
keep looking

no hope for love

My last 2 relationships have cause me to lose hope in ever finding love again ,i have lost my faith to believe in anything anymore,


I `m justing venting ,this is one place i can come and no one will reply ,i can write whatever i feel

ok i`m done ,,,,i feel better

RE: RE:DIFFICULTIES MEETING BLACK/AFRICAN WOMEN

LoL its not that we are so so difficult its just , we wont let you control us, devalue us, talk to us anyway you feel and react with violent emotional out bursts to mole hill problems ,I love my sisters, and there is a lot of them that have been through hell and back with DIFFICULT BLACK/AFRICAN MEN,the pendulum swings both ways my brother

RE: Looking for Love in the times on War on all the wrong places including CS

Oh my goodness you are only 19 and you are worrying about not finding love, while you`re waiting finish school or go back, learn to cook or write a book ,travel, make your clothes, do something productive and when you least expect it your dream man will show up

RE: Looking for Love in the times on War on all the wrong places including CS

love happens to us all, don`t be in to much of a hurry you could get a frog