verylisa: Need to know the best way to kick my cheating ex out and move on......suggestions anyone?
Visit his new honey and wish her well with him. Get a new bed and sheets, covers etc. meet some new people, travel, spend time with family, have some fun.
galrads: Visit his new honey and wish her well with him. Get a new bed and sheets, covers etc. meet some new people, travel, spend time with family, have some fun.
That happened to me. An ex 20+ years ago called me and said "you have no idea what you're in for with him"
I thought she was just angry but boy was she right.
PrOwLeR__Mermaid Beach, Queensland Australia130 posts
verylisa: Need to know the best way to kick my cheating ex out and move on......suggestions anyone?
Broken Hearts never mend, its just time puts distance and other of life's obstacles between the then and now ... sometimes it can take years before we can even say their name without flinching ...
Unfortunately, you cannot heal it. It will naturally mend itself to some degree at some stage and to some degree. keep busy. get a new look. date. build you're confidence do not do a rebound relationship. use the gym. New hobbies. cry. then move on. Do not allow yourself to dwell. remove everything that reminds you of him. paint your house/room . change it. Make it new. love yourself
Only time will heal your heart but looking back one day it may all make sense. Sometimes we can't see the whole picture until a little distance is put between.
You never mend a broken heart. The Livings are sort of warriors, they learn to carry on. But you (I) can not forget,never ever, or you did not love, truly,deeply, passionately.
HappyValerie: You never mend a broken heart. The Livings are sort of warriors, they learn to carry on. But you (I) can not forget,never ever, or you did not love, truly,deeply, passionately.
Well said, it's about resilience and we don't get that until we are a wee bit battle-scarred
verylisa: Need to know the best way to kick my cheating ex out and move on......suggestions anyone?
Sometimes we already know what we need to do but we need some assurance that we are doing the right thing, start making a life for your self and move on ,men that lie and cause hurt by these actions will continue to do so it is their choice, so you should choose to do what makes you happy and bring peace
danieljosh: it not easy if anyone finds a cure please let me know
time ,time, time is a friend of the brokenhearted and when you think you will never get through another day of this pain keep moving ,keep working, keep getting out ,go see family treat your self, read ,read ,read ,,,,,,forgive them ,forgive yourself,,,,,,,you will survive and one day wonder how you got through it all and realize you are a better person for having the experience ,,life is a great teacher
verylisa: Need to know the best way to kick my cheating ex out and move on......suggestions anyone?
The Last time I thought I had a problem it was pointed out to me that I don't have to see her again. Well Problem solved stop seeing him. There are too many people on earth to worry about anyones feelings especially if things are not smooth.
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