I love to argue my point philosophically. Sometimes I find some engaging topics that compels me to have my say. However at times there are those who are hell bent on trying to create mischief. I really regret that fact but it is a part of what life is about. You just have to take the good with the bad.
I have to disagree on the grounds that it is not the same for a lot of men. I personally have a lot more love and respect for my lady than I have for my mother and I know of people who do the same (That is not to say I don't love and respect my mother). Likewise I have a friend who hold his mothers in such high esteem that he will prefer his mother to his wife. On the other hand I have a family member who treats his mother well and abuses his woman verbally and physically. I think it is an individual rather than a general trait with men.
PS I am not a lady but I just thought I would say my piece.
I think you are absolutely beautiful even for your age. You look younger than your profile states. You have fantastic shape and I personally would no problem in dating you or anyone that is a bit overweight. I draw the line however at someone who is obese.
I learned that I should be very careful in choosing as even the ones who seem to be Gods gift to men can turn out to be the devil in disguise. That experienced has not dampened my spirit however I still have hope that there are good women for me. I just need to take the time to know who they really are. I need to look into their background, look carefully into who they grew up with and the influence their environment has on their lives.
I was living with for a few months before she began acting up. I knew for over a year before she came to live with me and my daughter really needed some one who could be a mother figure in her life as her biological mother was not giving the care and attention she required and it was good while it lasted.
I met this young lady I thought was a gift from God. She was good to my daughter helping her with her homework, taking her out, buying her gifts etc. She was equally good to me and the first time I felt I had found the love of my life. This delusion lasted for a few months before her true colours came to the fore. She did some crazy things to me that caused even her friends to resent and criticize her behaviour. She went to my workplace and tried to embarrass me. She initiated frequent arguments and when I tried to walk out of an argument she walked behind me hurling insults. She called me derogatory names and threatened me. When I told her it was over she refused to move out until I considered moving out myself as I could not continue to live in the hell house. Things got so bad that I dreamed I was single and happy then woke up and wished I could go on dreaming. Living with her was the nightmare. Eventually she left after a few heated arguments and fights that left us both injured after she tried to attack me with a weapon - the same weapon that injured her when I tried to disarm her. The police got involved and I got arrested. The charges were eventually dropped. Even then she refused to leave. Eventually she said she hated me packed both our stuffs and left. I celebrated that day and vowed not to hitch up with another crazy woman. Months later she calls me telling me she wanted forgiveness for her deeds. Having been forgiven she now calls me very often telling me that there are a lot of people including her family and exs who are out to get her with the use of black magic............. Just want to share this tale with you.
Thank you all for your advice. I also had problems with bullies at school. Even though it did no permanent harm I still wished I could see some of those to give them a sound thrashing. In fact bulies were the reason I took up self defence. Now its affecting my daughter. There may be as some of you said some other underkying problems that needs to be deakt with as soon as possible. Thank you all for your kind words of advice.
She is ten and claims that students pick on her, she wants to go to school with me (I go to school). She fears punishment for wrongdoing, she has problems with her friends....
My daughter keeps saying she does not want to go to school citing varied reasons. I try to motivate her but it continues. I would like some suggestions.
I would have to say a nice personality. A good personality would of course makes a person easier to live with. Even if things don't work out between both parties the personality will enable them to separate on amicable terms and continue as friends.
Sounds like you are giving up on love. Remember a positive attitude is paramount for success. With your attitude you have given up the fight so you have already lost. Do you want to leave this world as a loser.
well said, you should not waste your time with such people. I think we all have our turn offs, but we should respect a person for their sense of freedom in expressing themselves even if it is through body art. If we are turned off by tattoos we should find someone without them.
well said, we cannot allow a tattoo to detract from that which is important. We should be more focused on the values character and attitudes of the individual
Not everybody's perfect and we should learn to be tolerant and not demean others because of inaccurate spelling. We should know that the way we express ourselves is more important than the way we spell.
Keep up the fight But remember that the child is innocent and did not ask to be brought into the world. We as parents need to put our differences aside for the sake of the child. Sometimes that means we have to give up our rights for the sake of the child.
I really like the way you expressed your concerns. I am a single father and really have a problem with the absence of a mother. It is very challenging and I realizing the importance of a female figure in my daughters life. I know I can never replace a woman no matter how I try. This is the reason God instituted the family with two parents, each has a irreplaceable place within the family. I hope I can find a suitable woman to be a part of her life before it is too late.
That is not all true. You seem to have the expectation that all persons you come in contact with will be mature which is not necessarily the case. Some will disappoint you, but you should be encouraged that there are a lot of sincere individuals available.
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RE: How many use this site solely for the purpose of arguing w/ others just for the fun of it?
I love to argue my point philosophically. Sometimes I find some engaging topics that compels me to have my say. However at times there are those who are hell bent on trying to create mischief. I really regret that fact but it is a part of what life is about. You just have to take the good with the bad.