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rough road trip...she was worth every mile

lol...YEH in the future im just gonna say im sightseeing
the custams lady did say if i passed through again to let her know how it
went...lol

RE: hi Im lillyrose

we may still have a position for you....:)
kidding...welcome to the forums miss rose...great ppl
here, your gonna love us
it could be worse you could have had girls

rough road trip...she was worth every mile

ok...to all those anxiously awaitong news on my trip to ontario....IM BACK!!!!
the drive up: first time in 25 yrs crossing the border i was ever held up in customs....just my lucky day....random check...so when asked about my purpose i explained...they then wanted to contact HER to verify it....jeese....for her protection i would assume...i must say they were very polite and friendly about it though....i hit montreal at rush hour...ugh...got lost in montreal...found my way...got to btockville...got lost AGAIN. finaly arrived at tim hortons where we were suposeed to meet...
I walked in...she didnt see me (she was reading a book) so i sat down opsite
her and simply said "excuse me miss..is this seat taken?"...she looked up smiled..we hugged..kissed and proceeded imedialty with conversation over coffee like we had been seeing each other all along, very natural...no un comfortable awkward moment or anything...very natural..we spent the weekend in kingston (availabliity of affordable hotel rooms) wandering around exploring a bit...went out to dinner one night...and spent alot of time in the room talking and enjoying each others company....there was no difference between our relationship on the phone and in person...no difference between the "phone amanda" and the "in person amanda"
So in short...this will continue...i can say honestly that this weekend has
seriously developed the feelings we were already starting to have for each other.....she is everything i thought and then some...FANTASTIC lady...alot of fun..open honest, very warm, very much herself and makes no apologies for it, and evev just the way she looks at me was so very special to me.
O the way home i got held up in snow for the day after leaving at 3 am this morning...finaly made it back in one piece....worth every agonizing mile....now we have mad plans for her to come here in a few weeks to meet my daughters who she has already developed a remarkable repitoir with
thank you to all of my friends for your well wishing kind thoughts and prayers. YAAAAAAAAAAAHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!

RE: How bout them

oh...and i do watch the superbowl if the pats are in it...gotta support the home team...good guys (even if they are flatlanders)

RE: To All My friends and Enemies alike

your much too kind :)

RE: How bout them

too late...lol...i already have it...just waiting for the first unsuspecting female to wander in
thanx for the compliments anyway....yer a decent guy too...true gentlmen like us (yes i really am one..lol) are
getting fewer and fewer

RE: To All My friends and Enemies alike

Im not sure whatthis refers to but it seems fairly serious....glad to hear things are ok and that you'll be around to pick on in the forums :)
blessed be to you

RE: To All My friends and Enemies alike

Im not sure whatthis refers to but it seems fairly serious....glad to hear things are ok na dthat you'll be around to pick on in the forums :)
blessed be to you

RE: where did you come up with your screenname?

pre amps....lol...i wish my set up was that sophisticated..just a pc running cakewalk and a boatload of other software here with an sb live card here.
ok...my name, damn this is a story so ill try to keep it short.
I started on "optichat" about 14 yrs ago, my wife was the first one one...her nick was "kay"....i didnt have one so her friends just refered to me as "xman" after gettin to know a few ppl in there, there was a running "rastafarian" themed joke so it became xmaHn.....later after getting on irc and endurring many jokes about the comic strip x-men and several times being asked if it meant FORMER MAN...i changed it to x-factor....i then re-introduced the caribian accent to it forming the now trademarked "xfahctor"
pffffffft 'eare mahn...smook dis ahn everytin be alree

RE: The winners circle - what makes you one?

wow....tough one for me as I am VERY hard o n myself.

I have a HUGE capacity for love to the right person, they will get unconditional devotion once they get by those initial barriers.

I am a gentleman, despite the fooling around I do in here I am honestly very polite and respectfull towards women.

I am very real, i dont pretend to be anything im not

I listen as well as talk, i feel communication in all forms is essential

I am very attentive to my partner, I may get a little lost from time to time but a little nudge is all thats needed

RE: HAS YOUR PAST RELATIONSHIPS MADE YOU WISER OR MORE SKEPTICAL WHEN ENTERING A NEW RELATIONSHIP?

WITHOUT DOUBT......i have already promised my daughters that no one will be living in our home as long as they're still there, I still have a number of walls up as well on a more personal level.

RE: How do you sleep at night?

I fall asleep on my back but almost always wake on my stomach, a little "recreational herbology" also helps if i cant fall asleep

RE: Quote for today !

Do unto others.....or is it do others.

RE: imma new one too

dont worry, its pretty easy and folks here are pretty helpfull....pleased to meet you miss...names GIl....welcome to cs....some great people in here your gonna love em

RE: STOP BEING HUNG-UP ON AGE

i was WONDERWOMAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

RE: why do smart people say dumb things?

obviously a case of a smart person saying smart things.....nicely said lil :)

RE: STOP BEING HUNG-UP ON AGE

im back to normal now...log off then log back on

RE: What Kind Of Animal Are You Most Like?

well curl up in my lap and purr away

RE: meeting someone for the 1st time........

YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
awsome hon, im glad it went well for you.
25 minutes away??....THATS IT?!?!?!?!?
id have met the same night i started talking if that was the case, but im not too aprehensive about that sort of thing

RE: something sweet

hey...waterbury huh...i remember waterbury, used to go to skateodesy all the time when i was younger

RE: Mardi Gras / Saint Patricks? New Hampshire meeting...

at leastits within driving distance for me thoug...i was hoping the next one wouldnt be in like the middle of the country or something

RE: I have but one question?

lol....except u that is....u have too many cloths on to be in a locker room

RE: Mardi Gras / Saint Patricks? New Hampshire meeting...

ill just pull u on top then....dont need a blanket

RE: Mardi Gras / Saint Patricks? New Hampshire meeting...

yer not a blanket hog are you?

RE: meeting someone for the 1st time........

R-E-L-A-X
if youve been talking a bit with them, then just go with the flow and let it come naturaly, like you've meeting all along. the first 3 minutes are the hardest, everything after that is absolutely grand

RE: anyone wanna chat

looks like you are already

RE: I have but one question?

yeh, behind u in the same rest room
kidding....was justa humorous observation is all :)

NEED LUCK....and good weather

ROFLMAO!!!!!
depending on how things go or waht transpired, you may get a full report (with some editing, i am after all a gentlman).Ill gladly let everyone know how it went
Hell, im even meeting her parents first thing (shudder)

RE: Good News.....Bad News

my grandchildren live over an hour away from me and I dont see them nearly enough, though i did have them for a while the other night, im not about to move myself but each has there own so best of luck

RE: love

yeh, its a common thought on the net that it is cold and impersonal...people who say that have never met someone special enough on it yet, after all, you dont fall in love with everyone you meet in a bar or on the street so nor are you going to on here. I was of the same opinion a while ago
untill I met someone....so now here I am again giving it another go, and once again, developing some very strong feelings for someone ive never met face to face, and from experience, that first meet is absolutely DELICIOUS when it does happen.

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