Yes, problem is there is sooo many of them around... I've never tried to condemn or convert anyone to lack of belief..... At least we'll all be warm in their fires of hell
I can only imagine that you have some personal vandetta against someone within the organisation, that being the Eamon you keep harping on about, Yet you have failed to state what your personal motivations are for your attack.
This in a voluntery group with NO public funding, with the only purpose of helping and aiding families through break up and Unmarried fathers gain access to their kids..
Any group has many individuals involved...... Your personal problems with one member, does not render the work done by the group bad or useless. Furthermore if the equality that has been afforded rightly to women in so many aspects of life were carried over to men within the area family law, there would be no such need for the group... However no such equality exists for fathers, either married or unmarried, at the moment.
You have made vague alligations with regard to an individual without the courage of your convictions to state what they are, but yet are willing to sully the name of the group in public, for the alledged actions of one person.
First there was an organisation called the USFI... there was asplit in that group and from that split the USPI was formed... with the aim of helping parents not just fathers. Eamon was in the origional group and left to form the new group.....
The info with regard to him being in the USFI is simply old data
So two groups still exist.... no conspiracy....
Your view is your view, but i assume that you have no dealings with the group... However the noumerous mothers and grandmothers who attend are testamount to an even handed approach
My belief that there is no GOD is as valid as your belief that there is
Further what evidence do you have of this GODS existence other than hearsay and mens world such as the bible, kor an and other such "HOLY" books.... Now not your belief that it exists... but hard fact of this deity
In one of the groups in dublin supporting parential breakdown, these services exist... All done by volunteers, where mediation is offered in tune with a inhouse counciller working together.
Failing a mediated settlement they also help prepare al the documents needed for seperation... All done without nasty solicitors and even nastier fees
Mostly the family law training given to the gardai in templemore has been from Women's Aid.........
Now soon very soon fathers groups will be there too.
The bottom line is that the gardai know that many of the alligations are trumped up if not completely false, Thats not to say that ther all are..... I know from family experience that violence is present in some homes
My sister had a violent husband... and like all bullies he was a coward... However now his 3 sons, two mow in their 20's despise him for the non-man that he is...
Kids see all thing in a home, and while they may chose not to talk of it ... they do see it..
Men who create children and then want nothing to do with them... sicken me to the core, whilst making it more difficult for the vast majority to get fairness..... This in many cases is not the mothers fault but the legal systems the upholds this inequality.
I've now gotten to this place with my ex. I help her out with things about her house. My kids are thriving in the atmosphere now they know that their mum and dad want whats best for them... Also they can't make up stories as we are in contact about them weekly.
My thanks to all who have joined in the thread, it's been and will hopefully continue to be an interesting thread.
When emotions are running high, it can be difficult for many to see things so clearly. I try to remind both parties, that they indeed did love eachother once and that as you say... the kids did nothing to breate the situation
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RE: narcs
Ah Conrad, you've given your game up.... Admit it you are really Ali and Legend...too