Should I risk rejection and ask out the guy I like?! (164)
What do you have to lose..maybe he fears the same thing as you do....
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Orla2010: Why can't asking someone out be pain free?! I want to .... but I can't!!!
Go for it....he can say two things..yes or no, and at least you will know for sure instead of worrying and fretting if he likes you or not.------ This poll is Archived ------
I APOLOGISE, I'M WASTING SPACE TODAY!
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Amity: Go for it....he can say two things..yes or no, and at least you will know for sure instead of worrying and fretting if he likes you or not.
What she said
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Go for it! You`ll get over a "NO", "What ifs" leave snail-trails for a long time 
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Amity: Go for it....he can say two things..yes or no, and at least you will know for sure instead of worrying and fretting if he likes you or not.
Always a wise word on such young shoulders....
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Yes, take a deep breath and do it.....good luck
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Orla2010: Why can't asking someone out be pain free?! I want to .... but I can't!!!
I don't think you should, you might get hurt, you don't want to get hurt do you???
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It's just that if he says no I will have to face the torture of seeing him almost every day 
But I reeeeeeeeeeeeally like him. Get a funny feeling in my tummy as soon as I hear his voice
But I reeeeeeeeeeeeally like him. Get a funny feeling in my tummy as soon as I hear his voice
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Orla2010: It's just that if he says no I will have to face the torture of seeing him almost every day
But I reeeeeeeeeeeeally like him. Get a funny feeling in my tummy as soon as I hear his voice
But I reeeeeeeeeeeeally like him. Get a funny feeling in my tummy as soon as I hear his voice
Yea best not risk it, just incase love isn't worth it
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rejection is a big fear of mine , i can't even talk to women personally. But i voted YES for you! good luck 
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Alexei23: I don't think you should, you might get hurt, you don't want to get hurt do you???
No, I don't want to get hurt ... but I don't want to regret it either ....
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Orla2010: Why can't asking someone out be pain free?! I want to .... but I can't!!!
There's only one thing worse than a negative answer to your question and that's not knowing the answer at all, and it seems to me that you're already there...... So go ahead, ask him and either way you'll be better off.
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go for it nothing to lose
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Orla2010: It's just that if he says no I will have to face the torture of seeing him almost every day
But I reeeeeeeeeeeeally like him. Get a funny feeling in my tummy as soon as I hear his voice
But I reeeeeeeeeeeeally like him. Get a funny feeling in my tummy as soon as I hear his voice
That might just be something you ate!
Go for it, we guy's have to...why not you too?
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Andy_2528: rejection is a big fear of mine , i can't even talk to women personally. But i voted YES for you! good luck
Cheers
Maybe if I have a small whiskey or two first ...
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Orla2010: Why can't asking someone out be pain free?! I want to .... but I can't!!!
life is short
go for it
best of luck
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Orla2010: It's just that if he says no I will have to face the torture of seeing him almost every day
But I reeeeeeeeeeeeally like him. Get a funny feeling in my tummy as soon as I hear his voice
But I reeeeeeeeeeeeally like him. Get a funny feeling in my tummy as soon as I hear his voice
It's ok to be afraid, But feel the fear and do it anyway. Everyone and I mean everyone( how're not so full of themselves) feels the "FEAR" in these situations... and thats fine... don't let that fear stop you from living your life... Trust me on this
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Orla2010: Cheers
Maybe if I have a small whiskey or two first ...
Maybe if I have a small whiskey or two first ...
Right, I'm ready!!
Go ahead, ask me then!
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Orla2010: Cheers
Maybe if I have a small whiskey or two first ...
Yeah,Maybe if I have a small whiskey or two first ...
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bjk68: Jees, those pills are effecting your brain too
What brain?????
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Go for it, it will be yes or no,,now you know.
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To ask or not to ask, that is the question.
We humans are emotional creatures. We have an unlimited supply of fears. One of our biggest fear is the fear of rejection. That is why people post old photos of themselves, lie about their age, weight, height, income, job status, etc. It is because we are afraid that we will be rejected.
Unfortunately, various media outlets tell us what beauty is supposed to look like and it's usually a model thin female and a guy with a full head of hair and six pack abs. We can't all fit into those two packages.
Not trying to hijack your thread, but someone asked on another thread just why are so many dateable looking people on a dating site and not actually dating someone. It's usually because(and some of you would rather have your right arm chopped off than admit)the majority of people want eye candy. Oh, people say they want personality over looks because looks fade, etc., but the reality is that the guys want to show off their "model" girlfriend to the fellas. The ladies want to show off that "hunk" to their girlfriends.
So, to the OP...we can offer opinions, but it is ultimately up to you. Hopefully, you are either a ravishing 90lb ex-beauty queen and if you're not, hopefully, the guy in question is not shallow and will except you just the way you are. Good luck!!
We humans are emotional creatures. We have an unlimited supply of fears. One of our biggest fear is the fear of rejection. That is why people post old photos of themselves, lie about their age, weight, height, income, job status, etc. It is because we are afraid that we will be rejected.
Unfortunately, various media outlets tell us what beauty is supposed to look like and it's usually a model thin female and a guy with a full head of hair and six pack abs. We can't all fit into those two packages.
Not trying to hijack your thread, but someone asked on another thread just why are so many dateable looking people on a dating site and not actually dating someone. It's usually because(and some of you would rather have your right arm chopped off than admit)the majority of people want eye candy. Oh, people say they want personality over looks because looks fade, etc., but the reality is that the guys want to show off their "model" girlfriend to the fellas. The ladies want to show off that "hunk" to their girlfriends.
So, to the OP...we can offer opinions, but it is ultimately up to you. Hopefully, you are either a ravishing 90lb ex-beauty queen and if you're not, hopefully, the guy in question is not shallow and will except you just the way you are. Good luck!!
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Do it!!
Best of luck to you...
Best of luck to you...
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Restless_Rebel: To ask or not to ask, that is the question.
We humans are emotional creatures. We have an unlimited supply of fears. One of our biggest fear is the fear of rejection. That is why people post old photos of themselves, lie about their age, weight, height, income, job status, etc. It is because we are afraid that we will be rejected.
Unfortunately, various media outlets tell us what beauty is supposed to look like and it's usually a model thin female and a guy with a full head of hair and six pack abs. We can't all fit into those two packages.
Not trying to hijack your thread, but someone asked on another thread just why are so many dateable looking people on a dating site and not actually dating someone. It's usually because(and some of you would rather have your right arm chopped off than admit)the majority of people want eye candy. Oh, people say they want personality over looks because looks fade, etc., but the reality is that the guys want to show off their "model" girlfriend to the fellas. The ladies want to show off that "hunk" to their girlfriends.
So, to the OP...we can offer opinions, but it is ultimately up to you. Hopefully, you are either a ravishing 90lb ex-beauty queen and if you're not, hopefully, the guy in question is not shallow and will except you just the way you are. Good luck!!
We humans are emotional creatures. We have an unlimited supply of fears. One of our biggest fear is the fear of rejection. That is why people post old photos of themselves, lie about their age, weight, height, income, job status, etc. It is because we are afraid that we will be rejected.
Unfortunately, various media outlets tell us what beauty is supposed to look like and it's usually a model thin female and a guy with a full head of hair and six pack abs. We can't all fit into those two packages.
Not trying to hijack your thread, but someone asked on another thread just why are so many dateable looking people on a dating site and not actually dating someone. It's usually because(and some of you would rather have your right arm chopped off than admit)the majority of people want eye candy. Oh, people say they want personality over looks because looks fade, etc., but the reality is that the guys want to show off their "model" girlfriend to the fellas. The ladies want to show off that "hunk" to their girlfriends.
So, to the OP...we can offer opinions, but it is ultimately up to you. Hopefully, you are either a ravishing 90lb ex-beauty queen and if you're not, hopefully, the guy in question is not shallow and will except you just the way you are. Good luck!!
Well, I'm definitely not a 90lb ex-beauty queen
I guess we are all looking for someone that finds us ravishing 
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Created: Jul 2010
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Should I risk rejection and ask out the guy I like?!(Vote Below)