On a business trip to jedburgh once, for a training day, I met with a welder to learn to weld bandsaw blade. The company sent an interpreter with me as the welder was from central glasgow... Good god I couldn't understand one word he said. It was like another, very difficult to understand, language.
That said the scots are a great people, living in a beautiful country.
I found that the realisation and acceptance of my and others imperfections, has helped greatly. To accept that we'll make mistakes and to forgive ourselves and others for these. I have found that my life has become happier since this. We all need to take some time out for ourselves as if we're not settled within, we'll never be settled with others.
To keep this state I walk, meditate and When i have them, enjoy and love my kids with all my heart.... they keep me balanced... or as balanced as i require.
I believe also that the materialistic society in which we live, brings with it so many problems and worries..... That our possessions end up possessing us.
It amazing what some people are capable of, In my case doors of the house locked, keys thrown away.....and alot more i won't get into here. Many men in my situation stay for their kids sake and safety...
Eventually I left when i had enough information to secure access to my kids on a wekly basis......
When people meet up and start dating it should always be remembered that people have a past that you know nothing about. Take your time getting to know someone really well... not just what they say, but that their action support these word spoken..
I agree with the OP that a man shouldn't hit a woman, but also that on occassion that, that can be a difficult standard to live up to....
That could end up being a bit of a grudge game then... Spain haven't turned up yet.... but if they do... could be fireworks display... Are both games on wednesday??
bjk68 Forum Posts (890)
And if not, why the hangover????
RE: Have you ever get somebody here for marriage or at least common life?
Well maybe you need to get a sense of houour then.In answer to your question many have met and are in long term relationships or for that matter married.