Thanks Sugga my son's wedding was wonderful. The prist's speech was not boring and the party was great. I am still kind of sleepy and my feet are death from dancing all night long. Hope you are fine!
Gracias nuevamente Abram the wedding was yesterday and yes Love has reunited them and everyone in the family and family of friends. I am very happy for my son and my new daughter and I hope to be a "mother to her" much more than a mother-in-law
Rule Nine - Your answers lie inside of you. Trust your instincts and your innermost feelings, whether you hear them as a little voice or a flash of inspiration. Listen to feelings as well as sounds. Look, listen, and trust. Draw on your natural inspiration.
Rule Ten - You will forget all this at birth. We are all born with all of these capabilities - our early experiences lead us into a physical world, away from our spiritual selves, so that we become doubtful, cynical and lacking belief and confidence. The ten Rules are not commandments, they are universal truths that apply to us all. When you lose your way, call upon them. Have faith in the strength of your spirit. Aspire to be wise - wisdom the ultimate path of your life, and it knows no limits other than those you impose on yourself.
IF LIVE IS A GAME THESE ARE THE RULES. Part 1 by Cherie Scott
Rule One - You will receive a body. Whether you love it or hate it, it's yours for life, so accept it. What counts is what's inside.
Rule Two - You will be presented with lessons. Life is a constant learning experience, which every day provides opportunities for you to learn more. These lessons specific to you, and learning them 'is the key to discovering and fulfilling the meaning and relevance of your own life'.
Rule Three - There are no mistakes, only lessons. Your development towards wisdom is a process of experimentation, trial and error, so it's inevitable things will not always go to plan or turn out how you'd want. Compassion is the remedy for harsh judgement - of ourselves and others. Forgiveness is not only divine - it's also 'the act of erasing an emotional debt'. Behaving ethically, with integrity, and with humour - especially the ability to laugh at yourself and your own mishaps - are central to the perspective that 'mistakes' are simply lessons we must learn.
Rule Four - The lesson is repeated until learned. Lessons repeat until learned. What manifest as problems and challenges, irritations and frustrations are more lessons - they will repeat until you see them as such and learn from them. Your own awareness and your ability to change are requisites of executing this rule. Also fundamental is the acceptance that you are not a victim of fate or circumstance - 'causality' must be acknowledged; that is to say: things happen to you because of how you are and what you do. To blame anyone or anything else for your misfortunes is an escape and a denial; you yourself are responsible for you, and what happens to you. Patience is required - change doesn't happen overnight, so give change time to happen.
Rule Five - Learning does not end. While you are alive there are always lessons to be learned. Surrender to the 'rhythm of life', don't struggle against it. Commit to the process of constant learning and change - be humble enough to always acknowledge your own weaknesses, and be flexible enough to adapt from what you may be accustomed to, because rigidity will deny you the freedom of new possibilities.
Rule Six - "There" is no better than "here". The other side of the hill may be greener than your own, but being there is not the key to endless happiness. Be grateful for and enjoy what you have, and where you are on your journey. Appreciate the abundance of what's good in your life, rather than measure and amass things that do not actually lead to happiness. Living in the present helps you attain peace.
Rule Seven - Others are only mirrors of you. You love or hate something about another person according to what love or hate about yourself. Be tolerant; accept others as they are, and strive for clarity of self-awareness; strive to truly understand and have an objective perception of your own self, your thoughts and feelings. Negative experiences are opportunities to heal the wounds that you carry. Support others, and by doing so you support yourself. Where you are unable to support others it is a sign that you are not adequately attending to your own needs.
Rule Eight - What you make of your life is up to you. You have all the tools and resources you need. What you do with them is up to you. Take responsibility for yourself. Learn to let go when you cannot change things. Don't get angry about things - bitter memories clutter your mind. Courage resides in all of us - use it when you need to do what's right for you. We all possess a strong natural power and adventurous spirit, which you should draw on to embrace what lies ahead.
If love is a game, these are the rules. by Cherie Carter S. 1. You must love yourself first. Your relationship with yourself is the central template from which all others are formed. Loving yourself is a prerequisite to creating a successful and authentic union with another.
2. Partnering is a choice. The choice to be in a relationship is up to you. You have the ability to attract your beloved and cause the realtionship you desire to happen.
3. Creating love is a process. Moving from "I" to "we" requires a shift in perspective and energy. Being an authentic couple is an evolution.
4. Relationships provide oppertunity to grow. Your relationship will serve as an unofficial "lifeshop" in which you will learn about yourself and how you can grow on your personal path.
5. Communication is essential. The open exchange of thoughts and feelings is the lifeblood of your relationship.
6. Negotiatian will be required. There will be times when you and your partner must work through impasses. If you do this consciously and with respect, you will learn to create win-win outcomes.
7. Your relationship will be challenged by change. Life will present turns in the road. How you maneuver those twists and turns determines the success of your relationship.
8. You must nurture the relationship for it to thrive. Treasure your beloved and your relationship will flourish.
9. Renewal is the key to longevity. Happily ever after means the ability to keep the relationship fresh and vital.
10. You will forget all this the moment you fall in love. You know all these rules inherently. The challenge is to remember them when you fall under the enchanting spell of love.
Gracias Abram! It was a very lovely wedding the mass was not that boring The prist gave a nice and funny speech I even enjoy it was about love, he said something about:
what do I need properties if I have no love. What do I need life if I have no love. .......... It was a very profound message to follow!
Thankful I am for: My parents and the life they gave to me, for my brothers for my famuily. The friends that I have enjoyed and for the ones that still remain close and the ones to come (real an virtual life). The teachers that I have had and the ones that I am going to have (teachers in school and teachers in life).
And of course I am thankful for the love that I have had in life so wonderful and I have learn to live it and enjoy it when this event happens!
I am specially thankful for the children's that I have as my children as my responsability to see them grow and be happy and to see them become good persons. It has been a wonderful journey along with them, my only trasure their hearts.
Thank you Dear Fairy! Yhe party went on until very early this sunday but I left around 4 am and it was a nice party. I have a photo of the wedding at the church with the new couple and the parents of both (as my primary photo I hope you will see it). It is still a bit unconfortable for me to be by my children's father but I did behave (he is still alive ).
Thank you Dear Cherry!
Thank you PRETTY Amity! and it is good we have you picture back
My son's wedding church was held because of the bride's (my new daughter) family. They are catholic myself I am more spititual than religious and I could go to any temple of any religion just for the cultural side. Had I decided to choose between the religious wedding (party included) OR traveling, I would have chosen traveling!!!
And yes here in Mexico too, the legal wedding is important. Thank you dear Equiya for your kind words!
Thank you dear Sugga and you are form one party to another!!!
thank you so much dear Amppy and yes I have a new daughter now!
Thank you so much Equiya! That is very kind of you. The new husband and wife are already married by the law and they love each other as "Romeo and Julieta" What a memories.
Please remember church (catholic) first then party
I have to go to get my dress it had to be fixed and later going to get my hair done and I will even wear make up (which I do not like it) but just for today.
8 pm at the church and after the party will be! See you!
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I am sorry I will not be able to atend butthank you!I am sending my wedding present in advance