soundartist Forum Posts (61)

Photo ratings - for women only!

what about: you're beautiful and your pictures are great!

Photo ratings - for women only!

It would be an honour to be your friend. It's a pleasure to read your posts. I wish you live somewhere closer to me.

Photo ratings - for women only!

what I said to you was wrong and I apologize ... your picture with the cat deserves 10 - in my eyes!

RE: Age issue for women

totally true!

RE: Age issue for women

don't people get married out of love any more?

RE: Boycott

Don't be silly! wait a bit longer, there could still be one woman out there who may agree to marry you

RE: A good man?

altruism is a tricky thing - most of the time while doing things for others all we care for is our own personal image

Photo ratings - for women only!

I noticed you did turn off your rating and overall you right. Without a comment from the 'rater' these numbers do not mean anything. I love your pictures, as I'm sure many other people do, and wanted to show my appreciation.

I think that these ratings could be very informative as each one communicates a hidden message, that could be decoded. I suspect that younger men - there was a forum threat going on on this topic awhile ago-searching for an older women to take care of their needs. Just the same way that younger women are looking for older men to have these needs met. I don't mean 'financial' needs. I think more in terms of emotional security, comfort of having someone to make decisions, etc.

There are ways to make picture rating worthwhile but until then it's more useless than it's useful.

Photo ratings - for women only!

well, I wanted to hear from the women about their experience. I'm sure I wouldn't shoot a man, at least not today.... yesterday? tomorrow? who knows.

Photo ratings - for women only!

sorry about your misery I was there all day yesterday .... well, not because of the picture rates
I hope that tomorrow will be a better day for you.

Photo ratings - for women only!

I asked one guy what he considered while rating my picture, he didn't have a clue why he rated the way he did.
When I rate someone's picture it's because either the owner or the pic got my attention. I consider the uniqueness of the surroundings, animals - owner with a dog or a cat on the pic would always warm my heart and 10 you go. Some people have amazing eyes or smile ... or the way they seem to look straight at me from the picture - it's beautiful. I don't rate to judge, I rate because I like the picture. Why would anybody give anybody else 1? I got few of these rates, hmn?

Photo ratings - for women only!

I couldn't help but noticed that young and handsome men rate my photos very high. The older men (41+) rates are much lower and less attractive men (in my eyes as a beauty beholder) votes are the lowest. I'm wondering if you have the same or a different experience.

RE: I realy ned help ,,,pls

since the category is:travel, monetary help for a ticket somewhere is what she is asking for.... too bad she is totally not my type

RE: I realy ned help ,,,pls

good guess! welcome back, or is it an old post????

RE: I'm Nearly 57 and Most CS Women Don't Love or Desire Me. Are They Crazy or...?

I'm wondering why the woman you've found after nearly a month of searching is still with you? something must be horribly wrong with her; low self-esteem maybe?
Man! with your attitude to find one person who would accept and tolerate you it's a fricken miracle. Are you sure she'd still be with you after reading your post?

RE: What would you DO to to the person above you?

ask her to take the dogs out and get some boys

RE: Care to help with a research project?

Please take under consideration: my second child was adopted and he was a special needs child.

RE: What is the Philosophy of suffering?

it's a choice like everything else, a gift believed not to be wanted, a place around the corner

How much time do you spend on dating site each day?

First, and for most you need to have a clear picture in your mind about who is it you're looking for. As important is to stress your expectations, realistic ones, in most positive terms you can think off. And the last thing: never, ever copy the same message to different people. It's so disrespectful and it kills instead of opening a chance for communication.
It's too bad I'm already married. I like you and your honesty. That could be a good start for any relationship.

RE: Silicone. A life saver or what ?

yes, in the moment of weakness (emotionally down, hurt ego, etc) but the surgeon I went to see, nice guy in Guelph ON, looked at them, and then looked again, and then touched ... and then looked again.... it took him awhile ....
they are perfect! he said. what do you want me to do?
my contemplation was done; it never crossed my mind again.

I always use it, thou around my bath tub and shower - it works and it's easy to use

RE: Silicone. A life saver or what ?

bigger is very seldom better, but I agree with the windows - bigger=better

RE: Silicone. A life saver or what ?

once upon a time i've worked with a young, very beautiful woman; with time I learned she had twenty + plastic surgeries, some of these were dangerous - knees, cheek bones, jaw. She was contemplating suicide and was quite preoccupied with figuring out the way she could kill herself without causing any damage to her beautiful body.
silicone - a life saver? or what

RE: during your life has it happened to you?

have you ever consider giving private lessons on 'kindness' or 'diplomacy' or 'social skills'? you're absolutely awesome! I can learn slowly, by reading your posts .... but that takes time. Would you at least consider????

RE: during your life has it happened to you?

many suicides committed by teenage kids are for that very purpose - I kill myself and then watch how much they suffer. unfortunately, they never have their wish fulfilled - when you dead you just that .... and don't care how successful your revenge turned out to be.

RE: during your life has it happened to you?

Rodney Dangerfield was a coward! It takes much more courage to live your live than it's to waste it via suicide.

RE: during your life has it happened to you?

yes they may, for many reasons.

RE: during your life has it happened to you?

I'm wondering why have you asked, do you want to talk about it? what was your reason for asking this question?
There are times when I think about the purpose of my life; there are times when I struggle with myself or others; there are times that existence for the sake of just being alive doesn't make much sense - but these are not suicidal thoughts. When one is contemplating suicide one feels hopeless and this is something that needs intervention. A friend, crisis line - just someone to talk to. The dating line it's not a best place to unveil such a personal feelings and needs but e-mail, a message could be. There are many kind people on this site that are kind, I know that from personal experience. you may try that and could be pleasantly surprised.

RE: WHAT DO YOU THINK?MAY BE CONJOR SHOULD SIGN OUT NOW?

this statement needs a personal response; what the heck are you talking about?

RE: WHAT DO YOU THINK?MAY BE CONJOR SHOULD SIGN OUT NOW?

How long have you been here?
what prompted you to ask this question?
and, what are you really asking for? do you want to create a poll: say yes if you want me to leave or no if you don't.
I think you enjoy 'socializing' here and you really don't want to leave; OK, I don't want you to leave.
As someone said: one person's wreck could be another person's ship. I'm not behind the one who said that but I'm yet another one who happens to love Don Quixote.

RE: Money Grabbers .....

neat thinking! i thought the truth was somewhere in the middle