There is healthy anger and there is unhealthy anger. I don't mind if someone shouts when they're angry because I shout when i'm angry. I find it better than silent angry ones. Those types you have to watch out for.
you expressed my sentiment about the subject more clearly bell. I understand people can go through tough times, but it's the nondisclosure that bothers me first and foremost, and then the attitude of just giving up. Mind i knew a man from CS who said he's been on the dole for 3 years and yet he has the audacity to announce his many hobbies and causes when he's not doing anything about his own cause. I suppose it's all about priorities
i asked someone about this dole thing a few weeks back after reading an article about it and what i was told took me by surprise. See, this dole is not available in my country so i had no idea what it was. So if i'm wrong in my idea of how it works, i'd gladly listen. It was explained to me that if someone is unemployed he or she can file for unemployment in a certain office and collect a subsidy from the government which is just about enough for one person to live by. Also that it's more difficult for people who have dependents and contractual employees who are paid little don't get the benefit of a dole. The person also said that a lot of people just refuse to get a job and declare unemployment because they get more from the dole than if they're working and so they choose to be unemployed and just receive money form the govt. For me that is unacceptable. Now if taking into consideration that the person has kids too, i'd be really worried if i'm not told about this from the start. It's a sensitive topic but important nonetheless. I try to earn my own living for the needs and comfort i have, and a person who chooses to do swindle the govt with taxes that i pay when he can well work is not very appealing. Sounds (or is already) a free loader.
plainlyjune Forum Posts (8,175)
I find it better than silent angry ones. Those types you have to watch out for. 
RE: Should you back away from your married love even if he doesn't love his wife
controversial subject with very interesting comments.what if the OP was a man? i wonder how the opinions would be different.
LIAD, i like that line "routine is stronger than love", it's so true.