love happens in itself, but of course with the participation of two people. It just needs a little nudge to make people realize it and do something about it.
i know i'm scared. and i do get cold feet. For me it's easier if the other person has the courage to make the first move. But if it happens and i really like the person, i'd do anything to make him stay.
RE: Cold feet, sabatage or....
i guess it all boils down to anxieties... let's face it head on then