Again i think it all depends on the maturity of the couple as when the proverbial hits the fan some dig their heels in and go for the jugular, to get whatever they can, making it difficult, when it could be sorted fairly ,with no courts involved.
That is another perspective and can't be overlooked i suppose, as it is real in some peoples lives, i'm glad you pointed it out as something natural. as it is usually considered wrong, destructive, again it is wrong to judge!
I was thinking of the former, nice guy, good father , genuinely good person. Why would anyone make his life more difficult , by being nasty . I wouldn't .
There is that,,, my take on it would be,,, something went wrong, to hold on to it would bring me bitterness and stress , and bad for my health so in time forgive and forget, move on . But i couldn't bring a family into this world, without trying my very best to keep it in tact in so far as i could,,, so to be civil/friendly to someone i had them with would come natural to me.
This will give you a laugh, a couple of weeks ago ,going through Heathrow, my bag was taken aside and scanned for drugs, i guess i will always think of you , when going through security now Oh and , that was the second time it happened,, little do they know how law abiding (boring) i am!
I have never cheated, and never would,, no need to cheat in my opinion just be honest about how you feel and ,let them know before starting to look for someone new!
I am tattooless,, i always thought i would like a discreet one on my shoulder, Like a butterfly or something like that, but never had the courage. Now i know i don't want one. Recently while visiting my grandchildren in UK,they put two on my shoulder of a unicorn and a rose, they have washed out now.
Just saw this now, i agree, i did loan before to same man, and because it was a larger amount ,i asked him for it after quite a while,, this time it is the price i will pay to learn my lesson, and he wont get another cent from me.
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RE: Say Anything
I was just in the garden, chatting to a robin!