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Aug 5, 2018 5:12 AM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
Any opinions on this subject, some work , some don't , is their always an element of
distrust involved?

Would love to hear your comments on this possibly sensitive subject!
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Aug 5, 2018 5:14 AM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
Bnaughty
BnaughtyBnaughtyMálaga, Andalusia Spain43 Threads 2 Polls 4,685 Posts
Ex´s being part of my partners life? So my partner is cheating on me with my ex? What a slag!
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Aug 5, 2018 5:15 AM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia67 Threads 14 Polls 6,372 Posts
Depends on the level of involvement. Distrust is a red flag for me.
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Aug 5, 2018 5:17 AM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
Bnaughty: Ex´s being part of my partners life? So my partner is cheating on me with my ex? What a slag!
Being part of someones life doesn't equate to cheating!scold
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Aug 5, 2018 5:19 AM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
Bnaughty
BnaughtyBnaughtyMálaga, Andalusia Spain43 Threads 2 Polls 4,685 Posts
annaroach: Being part of someones life doesn't equate to cheating!
I bet she is cheating, probably listening to your advicescold
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Aug 5, 2018 5:19 AM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
If someone doesn't trust me, I shan't allow them to be part if my life.

Some people don't even want you to have friends of the other gender (or the same gender in extreme cases) and that level of possessiveness would be a total red flag to me.

If you happen to be lucky enough to have a good relationship with your ex, I see that in a much more positive light than someone who is bitter and hate-filled about exes.
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Aug 5, 2018 5:20 AM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
pat8lanips: Depends on the level of involvement. Distrust is a red flag for me.
Say if their are children involved and you meet up on certain occasions.

Or in a new relationship of a single couple, and one or other of them are still good friends
with their ex'es
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Aug 5, 2018 5:21 AM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
Limun
LimunLimunAbidos, Central Serbia Serbia6 Threads 1 Polls 1,923 Posts
annaroach: Any opinions on this subject, some work , some don't , is their always an element of
distrust involved?


Would love to hear your comments on this possibly sensitive subject!
yup
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Aug 5, 2018 5:24 AM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia67 Threads 14 Polls 6,372 Posts
Particularly at my age, a potential partner most likely has children. A functioning relationship is a must far as I'm concerned.
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Aug 5, 2018 5:24 AM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
Bnaughty: I bet she is cheating, probably listening to your advice
I have never cheated, and never would,, no need to cheat in my opinion
just be honest about how you feel and ,let them know before starting to look for someone new!innocent
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Aug 5, 2018 5:26 AM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
mollybaby: If someone doesn't trust me, I shan't allow them to be part if my life.

Some people don't even want you to have friends of the other gender (or the same gender in extreme cases) and that level of possessiveness would be a total red flag to me.

If you happen to be lucky enough to have a good relationship with your ex, I see that in a much more positive light than someone who is bitter and hate-filled about exes.
I go along with that thinking!cheers
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Aug 5, 2018 5:27 AM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
Bnaughty
BnaughtyBnaughtyMálaga, Andalusia Spain43 Threads 2 Polls 4,685 Posts
annaroach: I have never cheated, and never would,, no need to cheat in my opinion
just be honest about how you feel and ,let them know before starting to look for someone new!
Never mind, how´s the drug trafficking going?
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Aug 5, 2018 5:32 AM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
Limun
LimunLimunAbidos, Central Serbia Serbia6 Threads 1 Polls 1,923 Posts
mollybaby: If someone doesn't trust me, I shan't allow them to be part if my life.

Some people don't even want you to have friends of the other gender (or the same gender in extreme cases) and that level of possessiveness would be a total red flag to me.

If you happen to be lucky enough to have a good relationship with your ex, I see that in a much more positive light than someone who is bitter and hate-filled about exes.
can we put the shoe on the other foot ?
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Aug 5, 2018 5:33 AM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
Bnaughty: Never mind, how´s the drug trafficking going?
Let's just say ,i'm very happy !thumbs up angel
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Aug 5, 2018 5:33 AM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Limun: can we put the shoe on the other foot ?
I have dated men who have a cordial relationship with their exes.
But I trusted them, as they trusted me.
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Aug 5, 2018 5:35 AM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
Rachie14
Rachie14Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire, England UK1 Threads 2,330 Posts
No. Been there done that.
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Aug 5, 2018 5:38 AM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
Bnaughty: Never mind, how´s the drug trafficking going?
This will give you a laugh,
a couple of weeks ago ,going through Heathrow, my bag was taken aside
and scanned for drugs, i guess i will always think of you , when going through security now
Oh and , that was the second time it happened,, little do they know how law abiding (boring) i am!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 5, 2018 5:40 AM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
Rachie14: No. Been there done that.
It sure isn't for everyone!wave
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Aug 5, 2018 5:42 AM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
pat8lanips: Particularly at my age, a potential partner most likely has children. A functioning relationship is a must far as I'm concerned.
That goes for all of us i should imagine, do you think that it couldn't work ?
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Aug 5, 2018 5:43 AM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
Limun
LimunLimunAbidos, Central Serbia Serbia6 Threads 1 Polls 1,923 Posts
mollybaby: I have dated men who have a cordial relationship with their exes.
But I trusted them, as they trusted me.
very noble of you ,and im not question here your choice of Men you date , i believe you`re an excellent judge of character ,yet
Trust is something , in my personal opinion, that has to be built up, worked on ...
Are you honestly telling me that you wouldn't feel awkward if your partner prefers or gives more priority to the old relationship than the new one
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