Well said friend, I've certainly learnt my lesson and agree with what you say 100%. I'm not going to change for anyone but myself in future. Thats not to say i'm going to be arrogant or selfish, just being me instead of trying to be someone i'm not. Big lesson learned.
There's certainly a lot of this about. How am i supposed to live up to someones idea of a 'dream' man? We all have fantasies about 'the one' but its just so unrealistic to expect a person to abide by some dreamt up list of criteria. We are who we are. Me - i cook, great at DIY(as an engineer i should be), loving father, good job, nice car, look after myself as in ironing washing etc, have a fantastic sense of humour, i'm loyal, trusting and trustworthy. very affectionate and loving, very good lover(yes i really am !). i could go on and on but somehow it isn't enough. I think a lot of women need to come into the real world instead of the fairytale princess world they've been led to believe in. Who wants to be perfect anyway ? For 7 years i tried to live up to someone's idea of her perfect man. i failed, not because i wasn't good enough but because her list of 'demands' got bigger and bigger. The more you give the more they take. Selfish if you ask me. I'll run a mile from a big list in a profile. I just want someone i find attractive to love me and thats it.
Near the beach so i could hear the ocean at night, somewhere warm and sunny. I love being near the sea, its so calming on the mind and good for the soul
I find it infuriating that people have the power to manifest anything they desire and when they receive it they say God gave it me. What ? God didn't do anything. You did ! Religious mumbo jumbo has nothing to do with the infinite power of the human psyche.
power of meditation, thought and control of energy :
The mind is a powerful thing and capable of great things. Reality is produced by the mind, given by the universe, behaving as the universe does. We aren't what we think we are but what we think, we are.
Never missed an England game in over 20 years and that was the worst performance i've ever seen. I think the time has come for common sense. Me and English football are pretty much finished. Another beer landlord............
Tomorrow will see me buying a Holland shirt. You've gotta love the dutch
Being in nature is top of the list - I've just come back from walking up Pendle Hill, Lancashire (google it) near where i live. It was beautiful there today.
Sounds like a good plan to me. Well its booked and paid for so i'll be waiting with a rose in my mouth, dancing shoes on and my tickling fingers at the ready
I'm on my good friends stag do. Last weekend in september. Should be a good weekend. 80 mins it is. I don't come cheap though, it'll cost you a beer and a boogie
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RE: And now what?? I'd never thought It'd happen here!
Oh you'll see me dancing. I can boogie all night longWhat have i let myself in for?