Again, you didn't really read the thread, or maybe you didn't pay attention. The OP stated as a fact that men prefer blondes with blue eyes, and was ridiculed for that by both men and women.
My first handle was deadnlovely; I had posted a blog with a controversial discussion about Freedom Flotilla. After a week or so I was kicked out, no reasons given, and I know for sure that I was very courteous throughout.
Apart from that, I do feel that often enough, the mods can't tell the difference between the letter and the spirit of the law.
I disagree... I am here to interact with intelligent and interesting people and I don't wanna see them get banned for nothing, while dumb and vengeful people stay. I think that keeping smart people on board, and aiming higher than the lowest common denominator, is aligned with CS objectives.
For most men the ideal woman to come home to would be a pretty 5ft 8in blue-eyed blonde - who is good in bed and doesn't earn too much.
An astonishing 54 per cent of men say they won't date anyone who earns more than £25,000 a year. Intelligence wasn't particularly important either but a wacky, entertaining personality and an optimistic outlook on life would help.
The perfect woman doesn't even need to be a good at cooking or housework, but she must be a non-smoker who loves pets.
Only 15 per cent of men would date a woman who had a pessimistic or cynical outlook on life. And while gentlemen prefer blondes, a further 35 per cent like red heads.
For me, there is a qualitative difference between judgement and acceptance. Judgement is based on knowledge of some sort; acceptance is based on understanding. In that sense I don't see them as contradictory.
For example, the case of a p*dophile was mentioned... knowledge of the harm done to the child informs my judgement against pedophilia. On the other hand, especially on particular cases, I can understand how the history of an individual, from his childhood on, including forces that were beyond his control, may have contributed in his current behavior.
Ideally, we acquire knowledge to eventually form understanding. Understanding is what makes change for the better possible.
RE: Your History
I know we all came from the monkeys