Why do men seam to have a dim view of women that already have children ? (149)
some of us don't have a problem with it
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Never understood why people call children "baggage". 
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I know baggage terrible word to refer to children isn't it 
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and also i know isn't all men , thankfully 
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A woman's kids will always and forever be the first priority in her life. And that includes school, homework, holidays, weekend activities, mealtimes and family budget. And that's quite right so. But some men will see that as a disadvantage. That's just the way it is.
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Of course children come first no matter what 
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shameg: Of course children come first no matter what
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If people can't accept our kids, block em and forget em. Who cares how 'nice' they seem to be.
They aren't worth knowing if they can't see how beautiful and precious a soul my child is.
They aren't worth knowing if they can't see how beautiful and precious a soul my child is.
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I do get that sence of men viewing me in someway as being disadvantaged , which i find very frustrating , i work i support myself and my daughter, men seam to think you want someone to leach off 
which i find ridiculous 
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Personaly, I don't mind dating a woman with kids, as long as she doesn't want me to add to the brood!
Also if the father is still around, that can be a bit difficult, not on my part I hasten to add, but he may think that I will take over his father role.
Seen it before, and it can become messy!!
IMO.
Also if the father is still around, that can be a bit difficult, not on my part I hasten to add, but he may think that I will take over his father role.
Seen it before, and it can become messy!!
IMO.
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estate: Personaly, I don't mind dating a woman with kids, as long as she doesn't want me to add to the brood!
Also if the father is still around, that can be a bit difficult, not on my part I hasten to add, but he may think that I will take over his father role.
Seen it before, and it can become messy!!
IMO.
Also if the father is still around, that can be a bit difficult, not on my part I hasten to add, but he may think that I will take over his father role.
Seen it before, and it can become messy!!
IMO.
Yeah, You just like eating children... Ya hairy arsed, skirt wearing scot
Het buddy
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estate: Personaly, I don't mind dating a woman with kids, as long as she doesn't want me to add to the brood!
Also if the father is still around, that can be a bit difficult, not on my part I hasten to add, but he may think that I will take over his father role.
Seen it before, and it can become messy!!
IMO.
Also if the father is still around, that can be a bit difficult, not on my part I hasten to add, but he may think that I will take over his father role.
Seen it before, and it can become messy!!
IMO.
Yeah, You just like eating children... Ya hairy arsed, skirt wearing scot
Het buddy
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A women with children are much more mature and knows about a lot more, I think they are high points. And children are really the best gift from God. So women with children are ATTRACTIVE 
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leonjs49: if i'm fortunate enough to fall in love with someome that has children, her children would be loved, protected & cared for as they we my own
Spot on.
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Well I'm just guessing but I'd have to say... they want one of their own and the woman already has too many orrrr they just don't want the responsibility. They want the benefit but not the work.
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Veritaas: Spot on.
Like you K i don't the idea of children being baggage, Like so many other parents my kids are my world, so precious and full of love, joy and humour... who wouldn't want something like that in their lives???------ This poll is Archived ------
bittersweet28467: Well I'm just guessing but I'd have to say... they want one of their own and the woman already has too many orrrr they just don't want the responsibility. They want the benefit but not the work.
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I believe its all down to personal choice...some people are just not ready to become a ready made family..
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My last two long term partners had children. I didn't have a problem with it at all. Quite the opposite in fact, i love being a father.
My last partner didn't like me having a child to another woman at all. She never fully accepted the situation and was quite jealous of my father-daughter bond. I fully accepted her son but it wasn't reciprocated. She made my daughter feel uneasy in her own home. Why i stuck it out for 7 years i'll never know. Won't happen again thats for sure.
Just goes to show that some women can be like that too
My last partner didn't like me having a child to another woman at all. She never fully accepted the situation and was quite jealous of my father-daughter bond. I fully accepted her son but it wasn't reciprocated. She made my daughter feel uneasy in her own home. Why i stuck it out for 7 years i'll never know. Won't happen again thats for sure.
Just goes to show that some women can be like that too
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shameg: I have noticed some comments when i have received mail regarding me being a single parent.
So what do you do apart from child rearing ?
How old were you when you had your daughter ?
So do you work ?
this puts me straight off someone. Can someone give me an insight of such negitivity towards single parents ?
So what do you do apart from child rearing ?
How old were you when you had your daughter ?
So do you work ?
this puts me straight off someone. Can someone give me an insight of such negitivity towards single parents ?
not all men are this way,i have just met a lovely lady who has a 12yr old daughter and i could not be happier,if a man his not happy to take on a child you know what to do.... move on till you find a man who is willing to commit fully good luck we are out their just got to find us
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potter1: not all men are this way,i have just met a lovely lady who has a 12yr old daughter and i could not be happier,if a man his not happy to take on a child you know what to do.... move on till you find a man who is willing to commit fully good luck we are out their just got to find us
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jeffc320: My last two long term partners had children. I didn't have a problem with it at all. Quite the opposite in fact, i love being a father.
My last partner didn't like me having a child to another woman at all. She never fully accepted the situation and was quite jealous of my father-daughter bond. I fully accepted her son but it wasn't reciprocated. She made my daughter feel uneasy in her own home. Why i stuck it out for 7 years i'll never know. Won't happen again thats for sure.
Just goes to show that some women can be like that too
yea i have seen that happening , thats not nice My last partner didn't like me having a child to another woman at all. She never fully accepted the situation and was quite jealous of my father-daughter bond. I fully accepted her son but it wasn't reciprocated. She made my daughter feel uneasy in her own home. Why i stuck it out for 7 years i'll never know. Won't happen again thats for sure.
Just goes to show that some women can be like that too
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bjk68: Like you K i don't the idea of children being baggage, Like so many other parents my kids are my world, so precious and full of love, joy and humour... who wouldn't want something like that in their lives???
Exactly, if you have kids, they are simply part of you and your life, and there is no changing that.
No time for people calling or thinking they are baggage whatsoever. Makes them sound worthless when life is so special, and children are our future in everyway.
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shameg: yea i have seen that happening , thats not nice
It wasn't easy to live with or deal with. Thats why i'll find someone who has the same opinion as you next time around. People like that are best forgotten
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jeffc320: It wasn't easy to live with or deal with. Thats why i'll find someone who has the same opinion as you next time around. People like that are best forgotten
most definitely i wouldn't accept that , that's double standards 
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Kids are rewarding. I was a single dad for a short while and it was only a problem once and the solution was simple... .
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Created: Jul 2010
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Why do men seam to have a dim view of women that already have children ?(Vote Below)
So what do you do apart from child rearing ?
How old were you when you had your daughter ?
So do you work ?
this puts me straight off someone. Can someone give me an insight of such negitivity towards single parents ?