This brings to mind a conversation I had last weekend... or part of that conversation:
Is it important for people to put a tag/label/name on what they have with another person?
What I mean is: Say you started meeting up with someone and it became a regular thing. Is it important that this is called something? Be it 'relationship', 'casual' or whatever.
It's been there since the end of June (ish). Something to do with the 4th of July celebrations in the US. It changes coming up to Hallowe'en, Christmas, Easter.... different games.
I didn't say it was drugged, or being scared deliberately. That's not a young cat and it's terrified of a change in situation... meeting of the 5yr old. Give it a couple of hours and it will settle down and relax when the trust builds.
No choice has to be made as to which comes before the other, just some understanding.
With kids with special needs we call this 'Mind Blindness'. The kid assumes that just because he/she has a thought in their head, that we all know it's there too.
Yes, you're a bit taller than me and I feel the same way. I'll only wear them if I know I'm going to be with tall people. Which is why I have very few. Flats 90% of the time.
This is the reply by a MODERATOR on the "Who's Missing?" thread... the one you mentioned. It would appear that the posters on the International Forums are now a wee bit nervous of using the 'thumps-up/thumbs-down' feature for fear of a banning. No harm either.
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You're going to have to explain your train of thought that brought you from the content of my post, to the content of yours.
RE: Casual v One night stand
So it is important to you. Why though? Why not just let it be what it has the potential to be without sticking a label on it.