virgosign
virgosign
St. Julians, Majjistral, Malta
Nov 2009
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a million dollar question. .

people talk about love. to love ... to be loved... being in love... falling in, falling out... wow.
the big question is 'what is love ?'
obviously there are many kinds of love - parental, filial, selfish. anyhow, personally i think 'love is never having to say you're sorry'. that i think encompasses everything. yet to err is so human. i know, to forgive is divine, but to apologise is humble, honorable and if genuine, gives a cleansing feeling. full circle.
but i think the million dollar question is:
which would you rather: to love and to lose, or never having loved at all ?
many times i think the former. many other times i feel it is best the latter.
your views are most welcome.
peace.
xx virgosign
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moonlove
moonlove●chiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand
Nov 24, 2009●140 Blogs●778 Comments
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Yes there are many kinds of love,but after we inlove just try our best.....
sometimes could be selfish love coz we are not perfect...bouquet bouquet
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Rosie72
Rosie72●Thirroul, New South Wales Australia
Nov 24, 2009●1 Blogs●7 Comments
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Unconditional love is the true essence of love I believe. It's always forgiving and selfless. But, boy it can be tough to find sometimes. As unfortunately I feel it is sometimes found much later than sooner for some. PEACE =)
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virgosign
virgosignOP●St. Julians, Majjistral Malta
Nov 24, 2009●27 Blogs●23 Comments
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thank you ladies for your input. i would have thought many more people would have a view on this dunno
"love is never having to say sorry" in the sense that when you truly love somebody, you do nothing that warrents an apology. peace
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calmheartseeks
calmheartseeks●Somewhere, California USA
Nov 24, 2009●6 Blogs●1,531 Comments
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Yes, and then there is the old saying/song, "You always hurt the one you love"...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lNON36UIjCc


laugh just teasing ya!
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virgosign
virgosignOP●St. Julians, Majjistral Malta
Nov 26, 2009●27 Blogs●23 Comments
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mr how1e, it interested you enough to read and leave a comment. that's good enough for me. have a good day mate :)
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calmheartseeks
calmheartseeks●Somewhere, California USA
Nov 26, 2009●6 Blogs●1,531 Comments
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Well now How...people agree on some things, on others they don't...that's life. laugh

Lots of sayings about love. One everyone may agree with though: "love hurts". you know...like the song by Nazareth:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L2BjJbKQkgc


Anyway, Virgosign, your question, which is better, to love and to lose, or to never love? I would say it's better to love and to lose, because to never love would be a very cold existence, and if I were to never love, I could also never receive it.

cheers
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how1e
how1e●NRW, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany
Nov 26, 2009●7 Blogs●346 Comments
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Ms Calm, Mr Virgo....fair points well made!
cheers
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flamelily
flamelily●Guarda, Viana do Castelo Portugal
Jun 10, 2011●19 Comments
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I think that it's better to love and to lose. Love is what makes life worth living. And if only for a brief moment you loved and where loved then that made it worthwhile. love
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woopee_jonny
woopee_jonny●london, Greater London, England UK
Jun 10, 2011●23 Comments
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Flamelily, you commented on a blog which was last seen more than 18 months ago. Nothing so special about that I guess, except why are you reading all the old old blogs!? Jeez, you need to get a life!!
However that Howie guy sure was the brightest mind ever on this site I think.
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virgosign
virgosignOP●St. Julians, Majjistral Malta
Jun 13, 2011●27 Blogs●23 Comments
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yes sure woopee_jonny. you left a comment too. hahaha !!
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