Leoma

Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa

Oct 2014

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confused

Okay I've been chatting to this south African guy for about 3 months
He doesn't live here infact he's in Europe so we haven't been on a proper date except Skype date lol

we Skype everyday and he tells me he loves me and I tell him he's inlove with the idea of me

Tonight he just proposed marriage to me . I'm really confused because I don't know him physically.

Though I must admit I do have a crush on him but would I feel the same when I meet him?

Am I ready to be someone wife again? I just got divorced a year ago

would it work out between him and I?

I really don't wanna mrs divorce lol

Am I paranoid

is it proper to accept his proposal?

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pedalguy59●Burlington, Ontario Canada

Oct 18, 2014●2,000 Comments

I second what Twazzy said

Only divorced a year,
give yourself time to catch your breath. You know it does not
actually hurt staying away from Men for awhile.

LeomaOP●Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa

Oct 18, 2014●12 Blogs●127 Comments

@ Cally my thoughts exactly darl thanks for the advice

LeomaOP●Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa

Oct 18, 2014●12 Blogs●127 Comments

@Twazzle he does sound strange really .I guess I'll have to meet up with him first

LeomaOP●Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa

Oct 18, 2014●12 Blogs●127 Comments

@Pedal you're right dear it certainly wouldn't hurt staying without a man

Catfoot●Around here, Western Cape South Africa

Oct 18, 2014●616 Blogs●16,678 Comments

Hi Leoma,
Give it time. Even in a face to face relationship 3 months is not enough. I was in an on-line relationship for six months and it petered out to nothing. She is still very dear to me but things will not work out. You only see the good when on line.

LeomaOP●Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa

Oct 18, 2014●12 Blogs●127 Comments

@Welela true hey I guess I'll give you guys a feedback when he comes back home on December so he says

Thanks darl for the advice

LeomaOP●Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa

Oct 18, 2014●12 Blogs●127 Comments

@Catfoot am very sorry to hear about that dear

That's what I told him also 3 months is very little . I guess we'll have to see on Dec

Ravensgold●Panchos Villas, Wexford Ireland

Oct 18, 2014●9 Blogs●1,131 Comments

Yes Leoma, I agree with all of the above, this online dating is gone crazy

...you cant possibly know someone until you meet and spend time with them

Ifruitloop●Riyadh, Ar Riyad Saudi Arabia

Oct 18, 2014●145 Comments

Hi Leoma! I\m also confused at the moment but not that confused to marry someone I haven't met yet...

Crisbrazil●belo horizonte, Minas Gerais Brazil

Oct 18, 2014●3 Comments

Be careful, just 3 months , you don´t know each other and does he love you? There are a lot unreal people on this site. Take care!

LeomaOP●Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa

Oct 19, 2014●12 Blogs●127 Comments

@Fruil lol I feel better knowing that I ain't the only one confused lol

@Cris he says he does love me but I don't know if it's true

LeomaOP●Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa

Oct 19, 2014●12 Blogs●127 Comments

@Ken yeah I'm aware that it may be that way . I gave him a benefit of the doubt since he's from here and we from the same tribe

Thanks for the advice maybe he just might be one of those hey

LeomaOP●Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa

Oct 19, 2014●12 Blogs●127 Comments

@Hans I'm really not ready to be someone's wife dear. That's one difficult task in life

LeomaOP●Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa

Oct 19, 2014●12 Blogs●127 Comments

@Raven thanks dear . At least now I've gotten the same thing I was thinking but I just had to confirm it with others just to be on the safe side

Nidifugous●Yap, Federated States of Micronesia

Oct 19, 2014●197 Comments

Oh dear... Europe is a big place and not all countries in europe are created equal. In some places, the people are extremely poor and I have seen people do pretty much anything to get a passport out of their country. These days, marriage is the only safe way out. If I were in your shoes, I'd be extremely careful and one word of advice: Let him travel to your place first. If he cannot afford to see you, take that as a big red flag.

PrettyPrescious●Renton, Washington USA

Oct 20, 2014●2 Blogs●145 Comments

You have every right to set the pace of the relationship

Tell him you are not ready and that you need to take your time. If that isn't okay with him, consider that suspicious

Don't let ever let someone push you into something

PrettyPrescious●Renton, Washington USA

Oct 20, 2014●2 Blogs●145 Comments

You have every right to set the pace of the relationship

Tell him you are not ready and that you need to take your time. If that isn't okay with him, consider that suspicious

Don't ever let someone push you into something

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