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] A man complaining?!!,what is the rest of the society going to do if we don’t act and look like men.I’m never shy to unzip my trouser on street and relieve myself in a corner whenever my bladder is full,unlike women who can’t do the same......What’s a real man like,he doesn’t jump ontop of his couch or tables whenever he hears a sound of a braking glass that fell and hit the floor in a dark room,unlike women who do the same.....When he’s in a barbershop getting a haircut he talks of politics,talks about how he got used to his older car than his new one and when he leaves the story ends there,unlike women in salon getting their hair done, gossiping about their fellow friends and husbands,they bring all their dirt stuff including site trolls,how she commented and how others replied and doesn’t end there,when she leaves she picks everything along with her including what she got there.....A man moving into his girlfriend's house,he came with a bag of cloth and when they have differences over something after a period of time and the girl tells him to go find somewhere else to live,he takes his only bag of cloth even though he had bought some of the stuffs in that period of time while they were living together,some don’t even want to look behind or remember to take what they came with or left behind,unlike women when they have got differences and a man tells her to find another place to live,she takes not less that three suitcase when infact she first came into that house carrying only her pouch,sometimes a man would tell her take whatever that you can be able to carry or that looks good to you....He’s taking a walk with his girlfriend while holding hands together then suddenly on the way a stronger man than him provokes them and he can’t run away bcos his girlfriend is watching and depends on him to take care of her ,if he can’t beat him he’ll need to find a way to get him out of his way which is probably not physical whereby if he fail he fails his girlfriend,brakes himself psychologically and get humiliated infront of passersbys,unlike women who will depend on passerby or get cold feet and everything gets back to normal.There are many ways how we can define men including me,I’ve got my own principles and rules in my life but there are common things that puts me and other men in the same box in which one doesn’t need to add anything to himself in order to look like one and no man can avoid it,an innate feeling.So you wouldn’t be a man enough neither showing respect or giving them some dignity they deserve when trying to take part in some conversation, squeezing yourself among women trying to get some chance,I don’t probably know what’s that for,that’s their real identity buddy, that’s an innate feeling,a fact,how can you be categorized?.Can't change a reality can we?!!

Whos looking for one take it from me you can look until the cows come home it will be a fruitless search simply because it cannot be found . A long term relationship is achieved by a couple who over a long time know one another just as they know themselves. Its when two becomes one. That is a process that is credited with high regard because it takes the utmost in honesty love respect and trust to get there. This cannot be found it is
everyones right have one but yourll never find it and if you have been there or you do eventually get there is when you too will say to those who search stop looking Long term relationships cannot be found !!!

Early this morning, I discovered that I had no water. I did not want to look at the dirty dishes from last night's dinner and I had no way to flush the toilet. Not the kind of day anyone wants to wake up to. I won't bore you with the details of what happened to the water.

I don't know how many of you remember what it was like when you didn't have running water. Thankfully I did and knew what to do.

I took a medium sized bucket, one that was not too heavy for me to carry. I walked next door to my neighbor's yard and turned on the hose and filled the bucket. Then I brought it back to the house and dumped part of the water down the toilet. The rest of it I used to get the dishes washed.

I took a pot, dipped it into the bucket of water and set it on the stove to heat. When it was hot, I dumped it into the sink with the plug in place to stop the water from getting out. I added my dishes to it and some dishwashing liquid and when I finished washing the dishes, I set them in the other side of the sink and waited until some more water was hot and then poured it over all of the dishes at once. Then I moved them to the strainer to air dry.

It seemed like a daunting task at first with all of the dishes piled up, but once I got started, it was over with quickly and now I have a clean kitchen again!

Have a stress free and relaxing day!

Is there any particular condition when different voices in our head get us?

When I am dead and gone: It will be an honor if you say a little prayer for me. Talk about me good or bad, (I hope not my shortcomings and mistakes) but anything good that I have done to humanity if any. With thousands of students that I taught in many Universities, I am sure, I am not all that bad. I am not perfect. I have done so many mistakes and I apologize for all of them.

So,


Please remember me and talk as much as you want about me. That is our ways, we catholic of honoring our dead. We have our cemetery, our altars where we put the memories, ashes and or reminiscence of our dead love ones, just to remember them. Say a little prayer because we believe that through prayers, we are saved from our sins and I beleive I have a lot of them.

So for anyone who shares the same belief, you will not deface me, if I die, pass on and say a little bit about me, good or bad. That will be my way of knowing that you care, at least to think of me and remember me.

Thanks all for your reads and or comment if any.

Note: Life is unpredictable, I can die tomorrow, or now, if and when that happens. I instructed my children to at least log on for me and let you all know that I passed on.

For the atheist who don't share the same belief, it is okay. It will be a pleasure for me if you will talk about me even resurrecting some of my writes and talk about it.

NOTE: all the famous athors of this civilized world, most of them all dead, we still talk about them, discuss all their ideas, does that mean we deface them? Heck no.

So please feel free to share me your opinion.

Thank you all.

I am sorry if bringing back the writes of those who passed on is taken as a defamation or defacing them. I beg to disagree. Or we would be defacing Dante, Shakespear, Keats, Byron, etc. etc.

imagine how will it look like on a bigger piece of wood and bigger print!

I'm looking and looking, but can't find any instruction on here about how to use IM.Can someone educate me? Thanks.

I am a dummy, okay? I'm not smart enough to be in charge of a smart phone but I tell you what, neither are the people out there selling them

I went into a Virgin mobile shop to say listen, having problem downloading apps, what am I doing wrong? So a kid of about 9 looked pityingly at me and said I don't close apps properly when I finish with them, which would help space, but I should phone Virgin direct and upgrade.

So I phoned Virgin direct and they said £125 please. WHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAT? Turns out he thought I wanted to upgrade my phone. Took us about 20 minutes, with his English and very odd accent, for us to establish I wanted to upgrade my service. Naw, he said, ah doan theng yew node ta, yew doan yis it arl es it os.

I ran the translation through my head, then said but I can't download apps, there is insufficient space?

Elozabiff, he said patiently, yew node ah mimmory cad.

I asked where I get a 'mimmory cad' and he said back at the shop. So I went back to the shoponly 8 miles away and got a 12 year old who said oh but we don't sell them HERE.

Where, then?

She didn't know. Maybe Tesco, she said. I walked out, and 2 shops away was a shop selling mobile phone accessories. Including memory cards.

So I'm sorted but seriously, is it just me being thick, does anyone else have these problems with smart technology and the people who are supposed to explain it to dummies like me?

Its almost midnight lol. fk, sleep has been hard to get lately.

Hope they share it with all the other women around the world.