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“Lots of things can be fixed. Things can be fixed. But many times, relationships between people cannot be fixed, because they should not be fixed. You're aboard a ship setting sail, and the other person has joined the inland circus, or is boarding a different ship, and you just can't be with each other anymore. Because you shouldn't be.”

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The simple gifts of a little smile can make even the darkest days much brighter

surprises are always there to catch us off guard.
and one of those is the fact that my friend and i could be friends with the same guy in here unknowingly. fortunately, my friend was open enough to share who she met here. So luckily she has no idea regarding me befriending him. I gotta do the right thing to avoid any interference of whatever they've started before i ruin anything.


so happy knowing this before things could get messy between us.

coz reality is aside from gaining good friends here, i am also looking for a special friend who could someday be more than just special..

let's leave behind what had happened in 2014 and move forward for a brand new year. A year to conquer those vibes that held us back and see to it that the previous year's regret won't be entertained instead gain confidence and faith that what comes our way happens for a reason and it should be something to aim positively. In other words, let's learn from what had happened previously not linger with the what ifs..

Happy New Year CS!:)

What new year's "resolutions", if you truly kept them, would significantly change your life for the better? You can either keep floating on the boat you are now on, eat a bunch of chips and dip, and fall asleep listening to the year ring in, or sit down, take notes, and REALLY PLAN about how you can have a beautiful NEW year!!!



We all know the basic resolutions many people have but fail to keep during the new year: lose weight, exercise, go back to school, spend more time with friends and family, and so on. If some of these resolutions would significantly change 2015 for you, write it down, and plan on how you can make it work for you this time. The key is to take each goal, and write it down in small, manageable steps. You'd be surprised: even small changes, done faithfully, can have a major impact on your life.

Ask yourself what new year's resolutions, if you kept them, would truly make 2015 a better year for you? Or what did you do this year, you can do next year, better?

I'd love to hear your ideas!

For myself, here are just a few to start (a rough draft, if you will)!:

1. Pray every day for guidance and grace, at least fifteen minutes, preferably in the morning to start my day.
2. Stop eating junk food mindlessly.
3. Make sure everything I do is guided by love.
4. Continue my education in areas I need to grow.
5. Stop spending money mindlessly. (Remind you of the junk food resolution?)

When you have a completed a list of resolutions, sharpen them to maybe TEN major points...(your personal 10 commandments).

Don't write things you know you will never do. Keep it REAL so it can work!

Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow.

I love you all...you bring knowledge, friendship, and fun to my life. Have a wonderful new year, and count your blessings!!! You have many, you know!!!

You bought a house to live with your family member, but for many reasons, you don't happy to live in your house. You can't ask your family member moving out because the house is located at a location where is very convenience for your family member work.

You can't afford to buy the other house for moving out...

What should you do?

1. Staying in your house and bear the unhappy day after day and think it's your fate.
2. Moving out even have to rent a small room/apartment where you can afford.
3. Buying a small apartment even has to loan money from the bank for few years.
4. Asking someone who interested to share the cost to buy an apartment and start to try with that place with clear regulations for convenience for both and hope to have better life there.

Which option do you think will be good to make a choice?

Thanks,

not with any or whatever reason but the blog..^^
need to get something off my chest. ;)
I came across someone I was quite interested with. However I shied away and missed the precious chance. Gosh!missed the chances.
Jeez, after the incident, my friends who were with me, just laughed at how slow I was but esp. for not doing anything. Oh I wish I could turn back the time and deal with him with all the chances that was so at hand.
Now, I just smiled remembering of how I let those chances pass. But what can I do it's me...don't have a clue of how to deal with men when such circumstance arises..

I have this bamboo deck chair for more than 4 years, and the bamboo belt had been replaced the second time. It kept me in cool and comfortable while I leaned on it for afternoon nap in Summer. Actually, in the most time of year it was used. Further more,it is not taken up space when folded it.

But yesterday, one side of its joint had broken , as the bamboo belt is still new replace,I didn't want to give it up. Instead, so I tried to fix it by myself .

I took out dad 's tool box, picked up something I need; pliers, a piece of proper iron sheet( I found a copper one), handy drill, steel file, screw bolt, ( short one and long one),screw driver, monkey wrench( strange name, why using "monkey" here ? ). But I couldn't find a suitable long screw bolt. At last,I had to bought it from a hardware store.

It only cost me 1 yuan for had the chair repaired ... and more important, now I can go on my daily nap on this chair again, just wish it can available for another 2 years.

My poor old chair looks stable now.



Happy weekend to you all!

The mottoes of the 26 English letters show us how to live,and how to do in our life.

Avoid negative people, place, things and habits.
Believe in yourself.
Consider things from every angle.
Don't give up and don't give in.
Enrich your life today.Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is mystery.
Family and friends are hidden treasures.Seek them and enjoy their riches.
Give more than you planned to.

Hang on to your dreams.
Ignore those who try do discourage you.
Just do it.
Keep trying no matter how hard it seems. It will get easier.
Live well, love lots, and laugh often.
Make it happen.
Never lie, cheat or steal. Always strike a fair deal.

Open your eyes and see things as they really are.
Practice makes perfect.
Quitters never win and winners never quit.
Read, study and learn about everything important in your life.
Stop procrastinating.
Take control of your own destiny.

Understand yourself in order to better understand others.
Visualize it.
Want it more than anything.
Xcellerate (accelerate) your efforts.
You are unique.Nothing can replace YOU.
Zero in your target, and go for it!

Today is World Book Day!I read them again and share them here.

A great day to you all!