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too many things have happened
too soon
too many wants and needs,
too fast
changes here, changes there
and more changes everywhere

New year, new start, new relationship.
New love
A brand new life?

happiness...yes...contentment...yes
Excited yet anxious nervous...yes
To last? That is the question.

Forgivess...forgiveness for...
What...

Today everything is ok...

Have you ever been with someone and your mind when totally blank? No thoughts, no worries,
No nothing. You feel absolutely nothing but pure joy of being with THAT someone. It's like the
World halted for a moment (or a day) and there's nowhere else you'd rather be but there, right at
that very place where he's seated across you - nervous, excited, smiling at you. You keep on
talking and responding but you can hardly hear your voice... It's as if you're not there, but your
soul went to outer space or something. It's not you who's talking it's like you're on autopilot or
watchamacaliit. You want time to take it's time and day to drag itself painstakingly slow. Right
at that very instance you know that no war won't end, no ills will be left uncured, no thirst will
will remain not satiated and no sin is every unforgiveable.

Changes...be positive...life has always a new meaning.

Woke up to a beautiful beautiful Monday morning here

I posted these quite some time ago and thought I'd do it again because we all need a reminder or two once in awhile

Well, my dear CS peeps, have a lovely lovely week ahead because I know I will

Not too long ago, I hated myself, hated the situation I was caught in, hated my looks, hated everything about me.....

Miraculously, I snapped out from my depression and self-pitying. Best feeling ever!

I now see myself worthy of love and attention. Most of all, I love what I see in the mirror




"Try"

Put your make up on
Get your nails done
Curl your hair
Run the extra mile
Keep it slim
So they like you. Do they like you?

Get your sexy on
Don't be shy, girl
Take it off
This is what you want, to belong
So they like you. Do you like you?

You don't have to try so hard
You don't have to give it all away
You just have to get up, get up, get up, get up
You don't have to change a single thing

You don't have to try, try, try, try
You don't have to try, try, try, try
You don't have to try, try, try, try
You don't have to try
You don't have to try

Oh

Get your shopping on,
At the mall,
Max your credit cards
You don't have to choose,
Buy it all
So they like you. Do they like you?

Wait a second,
Why should you care, what they think of you
When you're all alone, by yourself
Do you like you? Do you like you?

You don't have to try so hard
You don't have to give it all away
You just have to get up, get up, get up, get up
You don't have to change a single thing

You don't have to try so hard
You don't have to bend until you break
You just have to get up, get up, get up, get up
You don't have to change a single thing

You don't have to try, try, try, try
You don't have to try, try, try, try
You don't have to try, try, try, try
You don't have to try

You don't have to try, try, try, try
You don't have to try, try, try, try
You don't have to try, try, try, try
You don't have to try
You don't have to try

No
Oh

You don't have to try so hard
You don't have to give it all away
You just have to get up, get up, get up, get up
You don't have to change a single thing

You don't have to try, try, try, try
You don't have to try, try, try, try
You don't have to try
You don't have to try

Take your make up off
Let your hair down
Take a breath
Look into the mirror, at yourself
Don't you like you?
Cause I like you

Interesting statement.
She could have said this when she was 16 or 60.
I've started to notice the similarities between the two passageways.



But it's easy to get away with this when you are widely regarded as one of the greatest film actresses of all time.

After many years of struggling and being down more days then not I have realized the secret which has turned my life around and this might be worth you giving a try as well, in the past everything seemed to go wrong for me in so many ways. I was not a happy child living in abuse, then after a 20 year abusive marriage I suddenly found myself abandoned by my high school sweetheart, my ex decided she wanted to be single again she did not even have the decency to discuss this with me or tell me to my face she was moving on without me. One day I came home to a empty home, I mean empty she was gone and most of what we owned so I was all alone and starting over out of no choice of my own.

It has taken me more years then I wish to share to finally find the secret to happiness and being content with my life, finally one day after years of being depressed and negative I decided I am going to take control of my life instead of the negative things taking control of me. I started by researching self-improvement resources, what turned my life around was not so difficult to figure out but much harder to do. I started catching my negative thoughts and actions, stopped and focused on the positive side of every situation. After many months this started to become more natural for me, now many years later I see the positive things in my life much more then the negative things without even having to think about it. Oh I still am hit with many obstacles in my life even today, actually probably more now then ever but I can overcome them much quicker by just being more positive and dwelling less on them.

I truly urge you to give this system a try, it will not be easy at first for you by any means. As people most of us just seem to more naturally dwell on the negative things life throws at us, but once you program yourself to be more positive you will be amazed at how much happier and content you will be with your own life.

Have Faith In Yourself And Amazing Things Will Happen In Your Life In The Near Future.

human nature is very ugly.........

this world people......mostly like to share all good things

from their friends relations and what ever relations....

but....when you are sad lonely and crying ......you will have

no one by your side.....even to just say.....do not cry...

...I'm the living proof that mind is a terrible thing

Terribly good!

Cheers!

Are we really thankful this year? Or do we complain and complain about the most inane things....Are we a better person this year or are we the same? I am thankful for the very breath that I have, my children and grandchildren are all alive. I have a lovely home ion the river...horses and pets...Family......What are you thankful this year for???

Unfolding Strength within how loving and forgiving you are; is showing how strong you are as a person.

Cleaning Lady

"During my second month of university,our professor gave us a pop quiz.
I was a conscientious student and had breezed through the questions until I read the Last one: "What is the first name of the women who cleans the school?"
Surely this was some kind of a joke. I had seen the cleaning women several times. She was tall, dark-haired and in her 50's, but how would I know her name?
I handed in the paper, leaving the last question blank. Just before class ended, one student asked if the last question would count our quiz grade.
"Absolutely," said the professor. "In your careers, you will meet many people. All are significant. They deserve your attention and care, even if all you do is smile and say "hello"
I've never forgotten that lesson. I also learned her name was Susan."