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It is easy to blame others when many times it takes 2 to tango.
For me, it is helpful to look back and thoughtfully consider and analyze with an honest and critical mind, what went wrong and how I contribute to that.
In most cases, we were not compatible from the beginning, as I was looking at the wrong things to be attracted to, and I also was seeking out men who were just like me. For my personality type, that was not the right choice, but I didn't understand that simple concept for most of my adult life. Once I connected the dots, I believe I have a better understanding of what a good partnership looks like for me and I am quite selective. I prefer being single rather than being with someone that who is not the Yin to my Yang.
you learned a lot from your past. I agree with your thinking "being single rather than being with someone that who is not the Yin to my Yang". this is huge world and people find partner of same mentality.
I hope you will get one soon..