Q:How do I Crop my photo?
Answer
In the top nav bar, click on the "Profile"
dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "My Profile". It will expand.
Then click on Upload Photos in the list of links.
You will see a list of the photos you have already uploaded.
Find the photo you want to crop, and click the " Crop Thumnail" button. You will be taken to a new page where you can crop your photo.
IMPORTANT: You must rotate your photo FIRST, before cropping it. (otherwise you will be cropping an upside down photo).
To Crop:
A rectangle will appear over your photo.
Click inside this rectangle, hold down, and drag the rectangle around on your photo.
To resize this rectangle, click on one of the corners and drag.
Whatever appears in this rectangle will be the cropped version of your thumbnail photo.
Once you have have the rectangle where you want it, click on the "Save Crop" button.
IMPORTANT: Rotate your photo first, BEFORE you crop it.
Next Up:
How to rotate your photo »
Updated May 25, 2020|
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Q:How do I do an Advanced Search?
Answer
In the top nav bar, click on the "People" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "People". It will expand.
Then click on Advanced Search in the list of links.
Then fill in the form with your search criteria, and click on the "Search" button at the bottom of the page.
Alternate Advanced Search Page:
NOTE: to shorten the "Advanced Search" page, we've hidden a lot of the content into dropdowns (like hair color, eye color, etc.).
If you prefer that all this information is visible, you can use our Alternate Advanced Search page.
You can get to this alternate page, by clicking on Advanced Search 2
in the right sidebar of the
at the bottom of the
Advanced Search page.
Updated May 25, 2020|
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Q:How do I do a Username Search?
Answer
In the top nav bar, click on the "People" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "People". It will expand.
Then click on Username Search in the list of links.
Then type in the username you want to search for, and click on the "Search" button at the bottom of the page.
The "Exact" radio button is used for when you know the user's exact username.
The "Similar" radio button is used for when you have an idea of their username, but don't know it exactly.
The "Similar" radio button is also used if you want to find all users with a word in their username (like "tennis" or something like that).
When using the "Similar" radio button, you can also specify the gender that you are looking for.
Updated May 25, 2020|
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Q:How do I see Who's Viewed Me?
Answer
In the top nav bar, click on the "Inbox"
dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "Inbox". It will expand.
Then click on Who's Viewed Me in the list of links.
A list of your members that have viewed your profile will appear.
Updated May 25, 2020|
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Q:How do I delete someone from my Who's Viewed me List?
Answer
In the top nav bar, click on the "Inbox"
dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "Inbox". It will expand.
Then click on Who's Viewed Me in the list of links.
A list of your members that have viewed your profile will appear.
Then click the checkbox in the right column of the Users you want to delete from your list.
Then click the " Delete Checked" button at the bottom of the page.
Then click on the "Trash ()" icon to the right of the Users you want to delete from your list.
Updated May 25, 2020|
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Q:Can I delete someone I've viewed (from my list of people I have viewed)
Answer
Yes you can:
In the top nav bar, click on the "Inbox"
dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "Inbox". It will expand.
Then click on Who's Viewed Me in the list of links.
A list of your members that have viewed your profile will appear.
Then click on the tab that says I Viewed Them at the top of the page.
A list of members that you have viewed will appear.
Then click the checkbox in the right column of the Members you want to delete from your list.
Then click the " Delete Checked" button at the bottom of the page.
Then click on the "Trash ()" icon to the right of the Members you want to delete from your list.
Updated May 25, 2020|
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Q:How do I view my eCard Outbox? (eCards I have sent)
Answer
In the top nav bar, click on the "Inbox"
dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "Inbox". It will expand.
Then click on eCards Inbox in the list of links.
A list of your incoming eCards will appear.
Then click on the tab that says eCard
Outbox at the top of the page.
A list of your Sent eCards will appear.
To view an eCard you sent, click on the subject of the eCard.
The eCards that have been opened by the recipients, will have
a checkmark to the left of them.
the word opened next to them.
Updated May 25, 2020|
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Q:How do I view my outbox? (mail I have sent)
Answer
In the top nav bar, click on the "Inbox"
dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "Inbox". It will expand.
Then click on Outbox in the list of links.
A list of your sent messages will appear.
To view a message, click on the subject of the message.
The Messages that have been opened by the recipients, will have
a checkmark to the left of them.
the word opened next to them.
Updated May 25, 2020|
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Q:How do I delete an eCard from my inbox?
Answer
In the top nav bar, click on the "Inbox"
dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "Inbox". It will expand.
Then click on eCards Inbox in the list of links.
A list of your incoming eCards will appear.
Then click the checkbox in the right column of the eCards you want to delete from your inbox.
Then click the " Delete Checked" button at the bottom of the page.
Then click on the "Trash ()" icon to the right of the eCards you want to delete from your list.
Updated May 25, 2020|
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Q:How do I use the Meet Me Feature?
Answer
In the top nav bar, click on the Meet Me link.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the link that says Meet Me.
We will show you profiles in your area, one at a time.
- Click the " Yes" button, if you are interested in them.
- Click the " No" button, if you are NOT interested in them.
- Click the "Maybe" button, if you are not sure.
After you press one of the 3 buttons, you will advance to the next profile. And repeat the process with the next user.
If you click on "Yes", they will receive a "Like" from you in their Likes Inbox, and they will be notified that they have received a "Like".
If you click on "No" or "Maybe", they will NOT know, and they will not be notified. But they will show up in your No's and Maybe's lists for you to re-visit later (and possibly re-consider your choice).
Updated May 25, 2020|
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Q:How do I UN-hide my profile?
Answer
In the top nav bar, click on the "Profile" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "My Profile". It will expand.
Then click on Edit Settings in the list of links.
Then click the Hide Profile link in the list of links.
Then click the radio button that says "Show my profile on the site", and click the "Save Changes" button.
Updated May 25, 2020|
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Q:How do I hide my profile?
Answer
In the top nav bar, click on the "Profile" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "My Profile". It will expand.
Then click on Edit Settings in the list of links.
Then click the Hide Profile link in the list of links..
Then click the radio button that says "Hide my profile on the site", and click the "Save Changes" button.
Updated May 25, 2020|
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Q:How do I UN-block a member once I've blocked them?
Answer
In the top nav bar, click on the "Profile" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "My Profile". It will expand.
Then click on Edit Settings in the list of links.
Then click the Blocked List link in the list of links.
A list of the people you have Blocked will appear.
Then click the checkbox in the right column of the Members you want to UN-BLOCK.
Then click the " Unblock Checked" button at the bottom of the page.
Then click on the "Trash ()" icon to the right of the Members you want to UN-BLOCK.
This will delete them from your Blocked List, and they WILL be able to contact you again.
Updated May 25, 2020|
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Q:How do I view my Blocked List?
Answer
In the top nav bar, click on the "Profile" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "My Profile". It will expand.
Then click on Edit Settings in the list of links.
Then click the Blocked List link in the list of links.
A list of the people you have Blocked will appear.
Updated May 25, 2020|
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Q:How do I view my inbox? (mail I have received)
Answer
In the top nav bar, click on the "Inbox"
dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "Inbox". It will expand.
Then click on Mailbox in the list of links.
A list of your incoming messages will appear.
To view a message, click on the subject of the message.
A NEW message (that you have not opened yet) will have a yellow background, and will have a icon to the left of it
A message you have OPENED will have a white/gray background.
A staff message will always have a red stamp on it that says "CS Staff". Like this:
Updated May 25, 2020|
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Q:How do I view my eCard Inbox? (eCards I have received)
Answer
In the top nav bar, click on the "Inbox"
dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "Inbox". It will expand.
Then click on eCards Inbox in the list of links.
A list of your incoming eCards will appear.
To view an eCard, click on the subject of the eCard.
The eCards you have NOT opened yet, will have a yellow background, and will have a icon to the left of it.
An eCard you have OPENED will have a white/gray background.
Updated May 25, 2020|
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Q:How do I send my photos to CS by MAIL?
Answer
NOTE: The directions for this are on the Upload Photos page, on the bottom of the page.
In the top nav bar, click on the "Profile"
dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "My Profile". It will expand.
Then click on Upload Photos in the list of links.
Scroll down to the bottom of the page where it says "Mail your photos to us", and follow the instructions there.
We will scan your photos for you and upload them to your profile. We provide this service FREE of charge to our members!
Updated May 25, 2020|
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Q:How do I send my photos to CS by EMAIL?
Answer
NOTE: The directions for this are on the Upload Photos page, on the bottom of the page.
In the top nav bar, click on the "Profile"
dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "My Profile". It will expand.
Then click on Upload Photos in the list of links.
Scroll down to the bottom of the page where it says "Email your photos to us", and follow the instructions there.
Updated May 25, 2020|
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Q:I took photos at an Event, how do I post them on the site?
Answer
If you've gone to a ConnectingSingles Event or Get-Together... and you took photos at the event, you can post them in the Forums.
Click here to post your Event Photos »
Updated May 23, 2020|
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Q:I am having trouble uploading or emailing my photo.
Answer
Large photos take a long time to upload. They may time out. If you have trouble uploading or emailing your photo, the photo file is probably too large or it was not in the right file format (must be .jpg format).
If possible, reduce the size or resolution of your photos and try them again. Photos must be in a .jpg format. 300-600 pixels in width is best.
Send your photos to us by Email or Snail Mail:
If you still have trouble, you can email your photos to us or send them in the mail and we will add them to your profile for you.
Directions for sending your photos are on the bottom of your
Upload Photos page.
Updated May 21, 2020|
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Q:What happens when I hide my profile?
Answer
When you hide your profile, the following will happen:
- Your profile will not be NOT visible on site.
- Your profile will not be NOT displayed in search results.
- A search for your username will result in 'Profile Not Found'.
- Your Forum posts show your username only. Whether you are cancelled, hidden or deleted, reason is not noted.
- Other members CANNOT send you Emails and Likes. (And they cannot reply to Emails you've sent.)
- You CANNOT send Emails and Likes to other members.
- You CANNOT post to the Forums, Blogs, eCards, Polls, Videos, etc. (and other public areas of the site)
- Messages/Likes you've exchanged with other members will remain, but will state that your profile is not available.
Updated May 21, 2020|
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Q:Can I block someone from viewing my Profile?
Answer
No, you cannot block people from viewing your profile.
You can block people from sending you Email and eCards.
You can also block groups of people from specific locations, ages, etc. from sending you Email and eCards.
It's best to take the Views lightly and ignore those in whom you have no interest.
Each person that views your profile, can only show up in your Who's Viewed Me List ONE TIME.... no matter how many times they view your profile.
Updated May 18, 2020|
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Q:I blocked a location (or age range), but someone from there was still able to contact me. How is this possible?
Answer
You can block members by gender, location, marital status, or age range. But once in a while, you may want to contact someone outside your location or age range.
If you do email someone that you have blocked, then they won't be able to contact you back.
So we have designed an "override" where if you contact them first, then they can contact you back.
Sometimes members get likes and respond with an email that says "I'm not interested". This email will trigger the "override" and allow them to email you.
Click here to learn how to block members by age range or location »
Updated May 17, 2020|
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Q:Is Connecting Singles really FREE? If so, why?
Answer
Yes! Connecting Singles is 100% FREE to use! ALL features are free and always will be. This site is funded by advertising, so members are not charged for anything.
We're not going to sneak up on you after you join and surprise you with fees, credits, premium memberships, gold stars, or coupons, or make you recruit members from other sites just to get in. There are no costs and no credit cards needed here. NO catches, NO fees, NO gimmicks, NO kidding!
Click here to Join Now »
Updated May 17, 2020|
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Q:Every time I login, it says my email is invalid.
Answer
If your email is invalid, please Correct your Email Address ».
If your email is valid, and our system is wrong, then please Contact Us and let us know, and we will fix it, so that you don't keep getting that message.
Updated May 17, 2020|
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Q:How can I block a member and keep them from contacting me?
Answer
The best way to handle unwanted mail, is to Block the member that you do not want to communicate with.
The only way you can block someone, is if they send you an Email or an eCard. Otherwise there is no reason to preemptively block them and fill up your Blocked List.
To Block someone that has sent you an Email or eCard:
When you are viewing a Mail or eCard they sent you, click on the " Block this Member" button
in the right sidebar.
at the bottom of the page.
The next time they try to write to you, they will get a message saying they have been blocked - so they will know you don’t appreciate what they have previously sent.
If the member has displayed bad manners or bad taste, the Block feature is the best solution. However, you should report anyone who you suspect of scam or illegal activity to: Report Abuse.
Next Up: What happens when I block someone?
Updated May 17, 2020|
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Q:Someone I was chatting with, now it says they are hidden. What does this mean?
Answer
People on the site can hide their profile at anytime. When this happens, you will not be able to see them anywhere on the site.
If they are in your inbox, their photo will say "hidden" on it. And you will no longer be able to write to them.
Next Up:
How to hide or un-hide your profile »
Updated May 17, 2020|
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Q:Suggestions on what to write in my profile?
Answer
This Help Article requires Login
Updated May 17, 2020|
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Q:Do people know if I Click "Maybe" or "No"?
Answer
No they don't.
When you click "Maybe" or " No" for a profile on the Meet Me page, those members will never know.
The only people that will know, are the ones you click " Yes" for on the Meet Me page. They will receive it as a Like in their Likes Inbox.
No one will know who clicked "Maybe" or "No" on them.
Updated May 17, 2020|
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Q:Auto-Fill in Chrome
Answer
Chrome Auto-Fill is designed to save you time when filling out forms.
Otherwise known as Auto-Complete, it is designed to save you time from having to type in things that you've typed before.
As soon as you start typing your email address into one of our forms, you may get a dropdown from Chrome with your email address in it.
If you click on your email address in this dropdown, Chrome will fill in the rest of the boxes on the form with whatever info it has for you. The info they have for you could be full name, email address, mailing address, etc.
This information is obtained by Chrome, when you've filled out other forms in the past.
We do NOT have that info on you.
This can happen on our Report Abuse page. When you start to type in your email, and select it in the Chrome dropdown box, it may put your FULL NAME into the username box. Because Chrome thinks that box is asking for your Full Name.
There is likely a way to disable Auto-Fill in your browser, but you may want to keep it for convenience.
To stop that from happening on CS report forms, always type in your Email Address manually.. do NOT click the one in the drop down.
Updated May 17, 2020|
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Q:What does it mean for Who's Viewed me to be turned OFF or ON?
Answer
You can turn off Who's Viewed me, and people will NOT know when you view their profile. But, you will ALSO not know when people view your profile, which is incentive for most people to keep it on.
Who's Viewed me
TURNED OFF:
- You will not see who has viewed your profile
- Others will not see you have viewed them
- No views to your profile will be recorded while this feature is turned off - so you will not know who is viewing your profile while you have it turned off.
Who's Viewed me
TURNED ON:
- You will start seeing who has viewed your profile
- Others will see you have viewed them
- Multiple views on lists are recorded only once. If you view a profile or they view you several times, the view appears only one time on View Lists
Updated May 17, 2020|
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Q:What is Romance Scam?
Answer
A romance scam occurs when a stranger pretends romantic intentions, gains the affection of victims, and then uses that goodwill to gain access to their victims' money, bank accounts, credit cards, passports, email accounts, and/or national identification numbers or by getting the victims to commit financial fraud on their behalf.
The majority of scammers are located in Africa especially West Africa: Nigeria (Lagos), Senegal, Ghana, Cote d'Ivoire; and Russia and Ukraine (for this reason, these areas are blocked from using ConnectingSingles, but some of them get around these blocks). This type of scam is very common on dating sites and you will likely receive email from a scammer on this site.
Fortunately, if you know the warning signs, then it is easy to spot the scammers.
Updated May 17, 2020|
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Q:Top 13 warning signs that a member is a Scammer?
Answer
Model Photos.
Scammers use photos of models from modeling sites or from magazines.
Far Younger
Scammers often contact people far older than they are. If the person contacting you is 20+ years younger than you are, it might be a scammer. Scammers often write flattering letters to people out of their age range, to those who have stated loneliness in their profile, or to recently widowed
Asks for your Email Address right away
Scammers often ask for your email address right away, or give you theirs. They want to communicate off site as soon as possible. Beware they may be building email lists.
Hard Luck Story
The member has a hard luck story, they make you feel sorry for them, and they ask for help or money, or get you to offer it because you are 'such a nice person'.
Offers you money
The member offers you money. They will do this to gain your trust. They will send counterfeit cashiers checks which will eventually bounce at your bank and get you into trouble.
Travels A lot
The member is from your country but travels for their job (working an oil rig, buying antiques, etc.). They have lost their ID and money and have been arrested or injured and urgently need money to get back home.
From Africa
The member is from Africa (especially West Africa, Lagos, Senegal, Ghana, Cote d'Ivoire). There are large banks of computers with people paid to sit at the computer all day and scam innocent hard working people. It is a $100 million dollar business!! Africa is not within the Connecting Singles membership area, but sometimes they slip through registration.
From Russia/Ukraine
The member is from Russia or Ukraine. There are agencies who enter large numbers of fake profiles on dating sites. They use good looking pictures of women to scam lovesick men into sending them money to come to their country or to help them with their personal or family problems. The scam could also include credit card fraud, excessive charges to an affiliated travel company, etc. The photo is a fake and is not the person you are writing to. The girls are not real and you will never see the person you are writing to. Russia and Ukraine etc. are not within the Connecting Singles membership area, but sometimes they slip through registration.
Broken English
The member speaks or writes in very broken English. A lot of scammers will run their profiles through automated translators, and their profiles and emails will sound very strange.
Here is an example:
"I rather nice girl. At me brown eyes, light hair. My growth of 170 centimeters. I like to carry sexual frank linen of a house. As I very strictly look at work. I like to vary. I can be strict, impudent as I can be very gentle and tender. I view your structure on this site and find it good"
NOTE: Many scammers copy their profiles from other real profiles so they will sound perfect. They use model photos or photos sent to them by past victims. But their emails to you might still give it away.
Gives First and Last Name
Scammers give you a lot of personal information right away making you comfortable and willing to share your own personal info with them. They will often make up a first and last name and put it in their profile, to make you feel safe. They will often use common names like "Greg Williams" or "Jane Smith" or "Kenneth Cole". If someone puts their first name and last name in a profile, it is probably a scammer!
Here's an example (taken from a profile out of Nigeria):
"I am Henry Elvis from Takoma Park, Maryland, USA. I am really from Mahe-Victoria, Seychelles. I am Graduade of Anglia Polytechnic University, Essex,UK and also a Diploma Holder in Graphics Design from Brooks College, Utah,USA. I am cool and Handsome, Nice to be with and I like Travelling, Swimming and Playing Football and at the same time like surfing Internet and Programming, as part of my Job."
Wants to go offsite with you right away
Scammers wants you to leave the site to use personal email or IM because “it's so much easier” – may actually state they will not accept responses through this dating site.
Mail is poetic and generic
Mail to you is often poetic, sing-songy, pretty words with no meaning, general flattery, generic, does not directly address questions or concerns you have voiced or remarks you have made, uses a lot of seductive or pet nicknames for you instead of your name. They keep things general so they can send the same letter to many people (mass mail).
Sends URL
Scammer gives you the name of another website and asks you to meet them there (ask yourself why when you are both here on a free site) or they will invite you to view them on a webcam or porn site. Be aware that some of these sites are setup only to gather personal info. You may be asked to enter your email address, credit card information or other personal info. You may end up with spyware or a virus on your computer.
Updated May 17, 2020|
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Q:Top 17 most Common Scams on a Dating Site?
Answer
Here are the most common scams:
Boss or Friend wants to meet you
Scammer says he/she got married on this site, and his friend or boss saw your profile and would like to your contact info. Once you send your contact info, you will never hear from them again. (this is just to get your contact info)
Asks you for intimate photos
Once you send the photos, the Scammer will use these photos to extort you for money (if you don't send money, he'll release your photos to the public or send them to your friends and family). Don't send photos that you want kept private.
Cam Girls
Scammer sends you a link to a website to view nude photos of them, when you get there, they will ask for your credit card and they will gather information about you or give you viruses.
Lottery Scam
Scammer tells you you've won a lottery and asks you to give your personal information and that you need to pay them for fees to collect your winnings.
Sending you gifts
Scammer wants to send you a gift but needs you to pay the fees to receive it. Once you pay the fees, you'll never hear from him again.
Check Fraud
Scammer asks you to cash a check and send the money. Two weeks later the check will bounce and you will have already sent the money, and you will owe your bank that much.
Stuck in a country, needs your help
Scammer is stuck in a country and needs your money/help to get them out. Once you send the money, you'll never hear from them again.
Needs money for airfare, gas, or bus
Scammer wants to fly or drive to meet you but needs money for plane ticket, train ride or gas. Once you send the money, you'll never hear from them again.
Needs your help to get out of trouble
Scammer is coming to see you. At the last minute something horrible happens, they get stuck and they need you to send them money to help them.
Any Hard Luck Story
Any hard luck story a scammer says to get you to send money is a scam.
Once you send the money, you'll never hear from them again.
Military Scam
Scammer is in the military and needs your money for some reason or another.
Scammers say they are in the Military because it helps them gain your trust.
Orphanage Scam
Scammer is running an orphanage and needs your donations.
Collecting Emails
Scammer asks for your email address right away or gives you theirs...they want to go offsite as soon as possible because eventually we will catch them and delete them from the site.
Translation website Scam
Scammer sends you a link to a translation site because they can't speak your language. They are in business with the transalation site and will try to keep you there as long as possible and it will cost you money.
Modeling Scam
Scammer tells you that you've been selected to be on a billboard or commercial, but needs all your personal information. (they just want your personal information, that is all)
Nanny Scam
Scammer wants to hire you to be their nanny and will pay you well. They find young women outside their country and will pay to fly them to their home. This may be a way to get your personal info, or if they do fly you there, they have other things in mind.
Sick Relative
Scammer has a sick relative that needs medical attention, and needs you to send money for the medical care. They say they will pay you back, but once you send the money, you'll never hear from them again.
One Ring Scam
Scammer gets you to call him, then keeps you on the phone for a long time, meanwhile you are racking up huge fees for the phone call. This scam is common in the Caribbean, especially Jamaica and Bermuda.
These types of scammers will leave their phone number on their profile, hoping you will call and rack up huge fees.
It's called One Ring Scam, because often the Scammer calls you on the phone from a number you don't recognize, letting it ring one time. You see it on your caller ID and call it back. The person who answers asks you to hold on, and while you are holding it racks up huge fees for the phone call.
Updated May 17, 2020|
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Q:Why would someone ask me to mail or IM them on another site, when mail & IM here is FREE?
Answer
Usually this means one of the following things:
- The person is only here to advertise for another site...usually a start up with no members.
- The person is a scammer who wants to get you off the site... away from scam reports by other members or site systems that will expose them.
- They want to take you to a site where they can charge you, collect personal information about you, or give you a computer virus.
Updated May 17, 2020|
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