Q:How do I un-join a Group?
Answer
Click on
More in the top nav, then click on
Groups, then Click on the
My Groups button. Then find the group you want to un-join and click on the un-join button next to that group.
Updated Feb 7, 2020|
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Q:How do I delete comments other members have made to my Blog?
Answer
Click on
Blogs in the top nav, then click on
My Blogs, this will take you to a list of your Blogs. Click the Comment button next to the desired Blog. Then you will be taken to a list of Comments for that Blog. Click on the Arrow in the upper right corner of the comment you want to delete and then press the "Delete this Comment" button.
Updated Nov 6, 2018|
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Q:What does "It's Mutual" mean?
Answer
"It's Mutual" means that you sent the other person a like, and they sent you a like. It is a 2 way like.. you both like each other.
You may have sent the other person a like sometime in the past. And now when they send you a like, it will say "it's mutual".
Or they may have sent you a like in the past, and now when you send them a like, it will say "it's mutual".
Oct 22, 2018|
326 Views
Q:How do I delete a Quiz Score for a Quiz I have taken?
Answer
You can delete your quiz scores using these 2 pages:
My Quiz Scores
My Quiz Scores for (Compatibility Quizzes)
Once you get to these 2 pages, you can click the "Delete My Score" button next to the Quiz Scores you want to delete.
NOTE: There are 2 ways to get to these 2 pages:
1) Click on Profile in the top nav, and then click on
My Account, then click on
My Quiz Scores.
2) Click on
Quizzes in the top nav, then click on
My Quizzes, then click on the tab that says
Taken.
Updated Oct 22, 2018|
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Q:When I play a Puzzle why isn't my score recorded?
Answer
1) First make sure you are logged in when you are playing the Puzzle, so that we can record the score with your username.
(we CANNOT record your score if you're not logged in).
2) After you are done playing the puzzles, click the
View All Scores button at the bottom of the
High Scores table (in the right sidebar). You will go to a page where you will see a list of all players of this puzzle ordered by most recent. Your score should be on the top of the list.
Updated Jan 8, 2018|
273 Views
Q:Top 26 Scammer Excuses to get your email address?
Answer
These are the top 25 Scammer Excuses to get your email address:
"Send me your email address because":
- mail here is too slow
- I don't come here often
- Too many scammers write me here
- Can get to know you better
- I don't give out my address, but I trust YOU
- I have urgent business info for you
- Site won't let me upload a photo
- I can't add photo due to my job
- I will send my photos on email
- I will send you nude photos
- I'm canceling today but want to know you
- I want to send you flowers or gift
- My friend wants to meet you
- If you love me you don't need site
- I want us to be exclusive
- I want to write only to you
- Age is just a number
- Distance is no problem when there's love
- I'm new and site is hard for me
- I'm serious about us
- Send me passport copy to prove you're real
- Been scammed before, prove you're real
- Prove you trust me
- for info to send you money
- for info to hire you for a job
Updated Dec 15, 2017|
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Q:How do I find the Forum Categories Page?
Answer
Click on
Forums in the top nav, then click on the tab with the
icon to get the
Forum Categories page. You will see a list of Forum Categories. Find the one you want and click on it.
Updated Nov 29, 2017|
314 Views
Q:How do I refresh my browser?
Answer
The simplest way is that you can just press "F5" on your keyboard, or press the
button on your browser.
If that doesn't work, try pressing the Ctrl key at the same time while pressing your browser's
button.
If this doesn't work then you need to clear your cookies.
Clear your Cookies in Chrome:
- Press the icon in the upper right corner. Press "More Tools", and then choose "Clear Browsing Data..."
- Make sure that "Cached Images and Files" is checked (everything else can be unchecked) and press the blue "Clear Browsing Data" button
Updated Nov 13, 2017|
369 Views
Q:When I play a Game why isn't my score recorded?
Answer
1) First make sure you are logged in when you are playing the game, so that we can record the score with your username.
(we CANNOT record your score if you're not logged in).
2) After you are done playing the game, click the
View All Scores button at the bottom of the
High Scores table (in the right sidebar). You will go to a page where you will see a list of all players of this game ordered by most recent. Your score should be on the top of the list.
Updated Nov 10, 2017|
270 Views
Q:Why can't I delete Maybe's and No's
Answer
The reason you can't delete Maybe's and No's is that the system uses those in order to keep track of who NOT to show you in
Meet Me. If you deleted them, they would keep appearing on the
Meet Me page.
Updated Nov 5, 2017|
322 Views
Q:How do I change the look of the Poem (Background color, Text-color, Border-color, Font, Font-size, etc)?
Answer
When you
Create a Poem or
Edit a Poem, click the tab labeled "Design Your Poem". On that page you can change the Background color, Text-color, Border-color, Font-Family, Font-size, etc. of the Poem. And you will see a preview of what the poem will look like. When you are done making changes, click the "Save Changes" button.
Updated Nov 5, 2017|
389 Views
Q:I want to contact a member, but I do not meet their Block Settings?
Answer
Members filter their mail based on criteria that is important to them. It could be Location, Age Range, Marital Status, or Relationship Type that blocks mail from you.
To view a member's contact requirements:
-On their profile page, scroll down and click on the MORE button.
-Then click on CONTACT REQUIREMENTS in the dropdown list.
That will show the reason, that you are blocked from contacting them.
If they are in your area, there will be a "Like" button on their profile. You can click this button, and then they may decide to write back, even if you don't meet their Block Settings.
Updated Nov 3, 2017|
4,472 Views
Q:How do I get more views to my profile?
Answer
To get more views to your profile:
The features are all here for you. It's up to you to make the connections.
Also, see this great article we wrote about this called
How to get more views to your Profile
Updated Nov 3, 2017|
502 Views
Q:How often are the Views deleted?
Answer
The views are deleted every 70 days to save space and keep the views moving.
Updated Nov 3, 2017|
377 Views
Q:What happens when I Block someone?
Answer
When you block someone, they will no longer be able to send you Mails and eCards. If they try to send you a Message or eCard they will get a sign that they have been blocked – so they will know you don’t appreciate what they have previously sent.
The Mail and eCards they previously sent you will still remain, but you can delete them if you want.
They can still view your profile and send you a "Like". But each member can only send ONE Like, so they can only do this once.
Updated Nov 3, 2017|
1,255 Views
Q:Why do I have to enter a Captcha Code every time I login?
Q:How can I tell if a message is from CS Staff?
Answer
A staff message will always have a red stamp on it that says "CS Staff". Like this:
Updated Nov 2, 2017|
449 Views
Q:How do I add Books to my profile?
Answer
To Post a Book:
Click on
Books in the top nav, then click on the
Post Book button. Enter the Title, Author, Category and Description of the Book, and click the "Submit Book" button.
To Add a Book to your profile that is already on the site:
Click on
Books in the top nav, then find the desired Book and click on it, then click the "Add this Book to your profile" button on the bottom of the right sidebar.
Updated Nov 1, 2017|
287 Views
Q:How do I add Movies to my profile?
Answer
To Post a Movie:
Click on
Movies in the top nav, then click on the
Post Movie button. Enter the Title, Category, Year, and Description of the Movie, and click the "Submit Movie" button.
To Add a Movie to your profile that is already on the site:
Click on
Movies in the top nav, then find the desired Movie and click on it, then click the "Add this Movie to your profile" button on the bottom of the right sidebar.
Updated Nov 1, 2017|
320 Views
Q:How do I add Music to my profile?
Answer
To Post a Music:
Click on
Music in the top nav, then click on the
Post Music button. Enter the Title, Artist, Category, and Description of the Music, and click the "Submit Music" button.
To Add a Music to your profile that is already on the site:
Click on
Music in the top nav, then find the desired Music and click on it, then click the "Add this Music to your profile" button on the bottom of the right sidebar.
Updated Nov 1, 2017|
440 Views
Q:How do I add a question to the Question Pool?
Q:How do I use a question from the Question Pool on my Compatibility Quiz?
Answer
Click on
Quizzes in the top nav, then click on
Compatibility Quizzes. Then click on
Question Pool in the left sidebar. Find the question you want to add and click on the "Add to Quiz" link next to that question. Then make any changes you want to the wording of the question, pick which answer you want your match to choose, and click the "Save to Quiz" button.
Updated Nov 1, 2017|
316 Views
Q:What is the Question Pool?
Answer
The
Question Pool is a list of questions that members can choose to include in their Compatibility Quiz. It can be difficult to think of questions for a Compatibility Quiz. The Question Pool was designed to help, and to allow members to use questions from a list written by staff and members.
Updated Nov 1, 2017|
273 Views
Q:How do I take a Compatibility Quiz?
Answer
Click on
Quizzes in the top nav, then click on
Compatibility Quizzes. Find a Compatibility Quiz you want to take and click on it. Then fill out the quiz and click the "Give me the results" button.
Updated Nov 1, 2017|
315 Views
Q:How do I delete a Compatibility Quiz?
Answer
Click on
Quizzes in the top nav, then click on
Compatibility Quizzes. Click on
My Quizzes in the left nav, then find the Compatibility Quiz you want to delete, and check the box next to it, then press the "Delete Checked" button at the bottom of the page.
Updated Nov 1, 2017|
349 Views
Q:How do I edit a Compatibility Quiz?
Answer
Click on
Quizzes in the top nav, then click on
Compatibility Quizzes. Click on
My Quizzes in the left nav, then find the Compatibility Quiz you want to edit, and click one of the edit links depending on what you want to edit:
- edit basics - edit title, description, scoring text for your Compatibility Quiz
- edit questions - edit the questions on your Compatibility Quiz
- add questions - add new questions to your Compatibility Quiz
Updated Nov 1, 2017|
277 Views
Q:How do I create a Compatibility Quiz?
Answer
Click on
Quizzes in the top nav, then click on the
Create Quiz button, then click the
Create Now button under the "Compatibility Quiz" heading. Then fill out the 2-page form to create your Compatibility Quiz.
Updated Nov 1, 2017|
321 Views
Q:How do I post in a Group's Forums?
Answer
Create new thread:
Click on
Groups in the top nav, where you will see a list of Groups. Click on the desired Group, and then click on the "Post Comment" button.
Reply to existing thread:
Click on
Groups in the top nav, where you will see a list of Groups. Click on the desired Group, and scroll down to the page to the Group's Forums. Click on the desired Thread, and click the "Reply to this Thread" button.
Updated Nov 1, 2017|
275 Views
Q:How do I view a Group's Members?
Answer
Click on
Groups in the top nav, where you will see a list of Groups. Click on the desired Group and press the "Members" tab to view the members of the group.
Updated Nov 1, 2017|
327 Views
Q:How do I view a Group's Forums?
Answer
Click on
Groups in the top nav, where you will see a list of Groups. Click on the desired Group and the forums will load at the bottom of the page.
Updated Nov 1, 2017|
299 Views
Q:How do I watch Movies posted on the site?
Answer
Click on
Movies in the top nav, where you will see a list of Movies. Find the one you want to watch and click on it, then click the "Play" button on the youtube video that loads (you may have to click this "Play" button twice).
NOTE: Only the movies marked with the
icon can be watched.
Updated Nov 1, 2017|
275 Views
Q:How do I listen to Music posted on the site?
Answer
Click on
Music in the top nav, where you will see a list of Music. Find the one you want to listen to and click on it, then click the "Play" button on the youtube video that loads (you may have to click this "Play" button twice).
NOTE: Only the music marked with the
icon can be listened to
Updated Nov 1, 2017|
313 Views
Q:I received an email/flower from someone who is not on my "Who's Viewed Me List"...How is this possible?
Answer
This can mean several things:
- That member may have their "Who's Viewed Me" list turned off, so their view to your profile was not recorded
- You may have "Who's Viewed Me" turned off, so that views to your profile are not being recorded
- The member clicked on the Email/Flower button from a search results page without viewing your full profile.
Updated Nov 1, 2017|
371 Views
Q:Who appears on my 'Who's Viewed Me' List (and who doesn't appear)?
Answer
- Members who click on your full profile page will appear on your list.
- Multiple views are recorded only once. If they view your profile several times, the view appears ONLY ONE time on View Lists
- If you delete a person from your Who's Viewed Me List, and they view your profile again, they will reappear on your List.
- If they see your profile in search results, but don't click on your full profile, they will NOT appear on your "Who's Viewed Me" list.
- If a person clicks on your profile, but has their own "Who's View Me" list turned off, they will NOT show on your "Who's Viewed Me" list.
- If they do NOT match your desired Gender and Orientation they will not show. So if you are a woman seeking men and another woman looks at your profile, she will not be on your list.
To clarify this, if you are a:
- woman seeking a man: only men seeking women will appear on your "Who's Viewed Me" list.
- man seeking a woman: only women seeking men will appear on your "Who's Viewed Me" list.
- woman seeking a woman: only women seeking women will appear on your "Who's Viewed Me" list.
- man seeking a man: only men seeking men will appear on your "Who's Viewed Me" list.
Updated Nov 1, 2017|
576 Views
Q:How do I upload a Photo (or logo) for my Group?
Answer
Click on
Groups in the top nav, then click on
My Groups, then click the "Edit" link next to the desired group, then click the "Upload Photo" tab.
Updated Nov 1, 2017|
312 Views