Someone is not
Come tell us, who do u think is hot here on Cs.
And if u think that someone is not hot or somebody is hotter than the other...please keep it to urself
This day just started very positive, lets keep it on :)
Ps.. dont feel any obliged to tell any compliments to Op, she's quite alright with that
but if u really mean it, u are very welcome
I am still speculating over a situation that happened last weekend, of how things might get odd sometimes depending on the situation.
We were invited to a birthday party of a kid of our friends. There were not many guests invited just close family & friends. So it happened that mother of our friend came to visit them from overseas and that his father who divorced his mother long ago was also there. Then the second father's wife who our friends stay with very close and who helps them a lot was also there. It would be all okay if that was all fathers former women at that party, because the two sort of found common ground for conversation (they are of about same age) and maybe because neither of them felt disadvantaged in front of the other ( he divorced two of them).
But no... he did not come alone, he took his new girlfriend with him, who is somewhat 20ish, somewhat 30-40 years younger!
She is asian, that made me thinking that I might be wrong about the age, but as she is a uni student means I should be about right.
She looked and felt very lonely in that company, because after realising how weird he looked, the 'father' left her on her own too.
I tried to keep her company, because honestly I hate when someone is being left out like that, so we spent almost all evening together...
Talking with her was not bad at all, she's smart, very determined, and what is the most important she is absolutely honest with the 'father' about her feelings towards him - which is pure business relationship - living with him while studying in uni ( and him paying for it).
I understand that is not really someone else's business, and that we should not judge the age difference as we cannot know 100% what is happening there etc... but when people themselves make you a part of it, it's really hard not to.
As to me the only thing of how to make it all better was not to bring his new girlfriend to the party...
What are your thoughts?
.....and still looking...
Have you ever considered going gay or lesbian instead of sitting here and covering with dust?
Just out curiosity to check it out if you can fetch more on a different market, especially if you are too old or too ugly or maybe too tall or too short, too big foot to wear heals, too fine to rare hair & other disadvantages that makes you uncompetitive
Life is too short to be wasted it's better to sell you cheap than not to sell at all!
Wtf! What's going on with this world!! Don't you have absolutely no feelings at all about other people whether they are in healthy mind or not??!!!
Why starting a conversation with a person who will disappoint you with their mentality in 99% of chances? Just to check it out if your case falls in that 1%?!!! that absolutely makes no sense!
Regretfully Cs doesn't make any Iq or mental health check before admitting members to blogs, but with our own caution shouldn't we set a grid for others to sort them all before reaching to us?
I mean, come on people wake up!!
Why so many people on here look so old in their profile pictures? Looks to me that they are lying about the age, but whats the point? Who goes for numbers rather than looks?
just come across a photo of a 50 year old guy, looks like he's grand grand pa already and if he was wealthy I would definitely marry him for his money and become rich in couple of days!
Lately I see so many blogs from guys offering or asking very private questions about sex.
No way I find them offensive or something, just wondering do they get any positive emails from women shy but ready to start communication and further on?
Come on guys dont be shy, please share with us what the world behind curtains of blogs is up to....
Out of such sort of situation where you
Like met a guy, with whom your interests click really well,
Whom you love to spend time with, share things, some very special thoughts, like about your plans for future, family problems, men, career, universe - everything! And he seems to be very understanding, sometimes gives very good advice, sometimes asks you for fresh ideas.
Problems is what our life is all about, but two of you can fight everything together, laughing at yourselves in an awkward situation, or making fun of people who make you sad.
He feels comfortable to talk about his relationship with women, former partners and current ones.... and you are okay with all that, cos he's really not your type! Lol. I mean he's good but, too many buts.. age and distance, lifestyle, children from different women, who's now sucking money from him like a bunch of vampires. You are very good together like as you are - as friends!
Then after a while he makes a go at you, and you are like no! Don't spoil everything hun!
And he's like WHAT???!!! I have wasted so much time on you! And turns out to be an absolutely different character, like somebody has just removed that funny guy, and put this sad and vulnerable man on his place!
Well, this happened to me not just once, this usually puts me off such guys, and even if I still feel a bit of attachment (as to a friend) successfully kill it forget and forgive.
Now, I am wondering, is this just me? Has anyone of you had similar experience? What do you usually do in such situations? Is there any other way to retrieve such 'friendship' or this is a dead end?
They have a way too high expectations of a woman.
A young super model, who cleans and cooks, makes same money or more( otherwise she is a gold digger), doesn't have kids but wont mind to raise kids of somebody else, always positive about everything, has sense of humour, but isn't sarcastic, loves travelling, but doesn't spend much money on herself, always looks great, but again doesn't spend money, very sociable, but knows when to keep her mouth shut, doesn't have girlfriends who hate you, but again if you ask her to disappear somewhere she will eagerly agree...
Well, now, can you please name at least one movie where you have seen all this?
I honestly don't understand why men post their photos next to a supper new Ferrari or on a Harley Davidson bike, on supper shiny yacht. All that can be lie or borrowed!
Why not to take their photo with their bank account statement on the background with name and $ amount, that would bring more clarity!
I wonder how many of you face same problem? Believe, this doesn't depend much on our personality or age or the way we live.
It just happens as a rule of nature, sometimes, but sometimes it doesn't .How often do you change your mind about which dress to wear this night?
This has recently become a regularity for myself, and honestly got me a little worried until I noticed one very funny thing. Today I found myself again in the same dress which I wore more than 10 times to all kind of different events and have so many photos of it as if it would become my second skin
Seriously, 32 my Facebook photo from about 200 are in this dress!
Then having a good laugh I suddenly realised that I'm in similar situation with men. No matter how much I focus myself on searching classy&successful, 7-10 years older, kind and generous always fall for pretty face & bunch of jokes.
That's saddened me a little, does that mean I have no chances for upgrading my life a bit?
Than a man in the gym!
It seems they loose all human features once they reach that place.
Why have shower before gym if you need to have it after anyway?!!- show me at least 2 guys in a gym who don't follow this custom?
99 percent of men who wear more or less decent clothes (not pyjamas), don't stink and wear smiley&friendly faces are gay!
To all women who believe that they can meet their soulmate in a gym, I can honestly say, never heard of worse idea than this. To meet someone who will stare at your posture, undress you with their eyes and help with heavy lifting exercises ? Well, all those things seem to be lost in the past, times of no protein, creatine, anabolic's and such.
Now what you can find there is a crowd of aggressive, red faced monsters, who look through you with eyes full of pain and sometime anger if you happen to take their place right before he decided to move there!
Nah, so called healthy life doesn't look very healthy nowadays!
well it was something very different!
A guy of quite respectable ages invited me to a birthday party of one of his friends.
The thing was that his ex was also there showing out her new boyfriend which was supposed to be 10 times as handsome as my new friend. Well, he is quite a nice guy, bunch of jokes & muscules - he's a gym coach, but that's a different story.....
My part is that I've got $300 for new dress&shoes, had a very nice dinner with a very interesting company, then a driver brought me back home without any stupid intentions to get into my bed and other BS.
All in all I'm feeling qiute happy with this little adventure and open for any more of this kind.
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