Every year at Christmas time the wizard of oz comes on..ever since I were just a little lad I watch it every year
and still find myself humming and singing along now even though I'm not that young or that small anymore.
My question to you all is What would you ask the wizard for.. it must be something within yourself no asking for the ideal man / woman or a Ferrari ...
Usually when someone says my mate has a problem ...blah ..blah ..blah..can you help him ? there never was a mate or (pet) to begin with but after presenting oneself as a confident image they then deny themselves the right
to be honest therefore cannot speak about an insecurity they may well have as this isn't at all in fitting with their fake personality they've created for themselves otherwise known as "alter ego." It must be like splitting your personality and who you are in two. This site offers the perfect opportunity for that ,Ugly becomes hansome, too fat becomes Athletic a cripple can become a 100 metre sprinter, a poor man doesn't have to be poor anymore, a geeky little wimp can be the big man he never was and the man down on his luck with women becomes the womaniser who had more than his fair share I mean (a man changing into a woman as complicated as may be simply becomes the lady he never was.The list is endless and please don't let your imaginations run wild .This was just an awareness blog created from my own observations.
Why does it not sit well if asked, What are you looking for and we say "A bit of fun" opposed to if we say a long term relationship. There is a wide range of things it can mean when saying "a bit of fun! I mean who comes on dating sites ruling out "A bit of fun" and while your profile says your looking for a long term relationship does this mean you can't have both in mind. How does someone look for a long term relationship ha ha keep searching it might be around somewhere. Isn't that why its called long term because it comes after, later and whilst it was the early days what is wrong with calling it just a bit of fun. your comments please !
Whos looking for one take it from me you can look until the cows come home it will be a fruitless search simply because it cannot be found . A long term relationship is achieved by a couple who over a long time know one another just as they know themselves. Its when two becomes one. That is a process that is credited with high regard because it takes the utmost in honesty love respect and trust to get there. This cannot be found it is
everyones right have one but yourll never find it and if you have been there or you do eventually get there is when you too will say to those who search stop looking Long term relationships cannot be found !!!
Life is....What happens to you unexpectedly just when your plans were some where else.
This sayin' for myself definitely is true, I like to work out , keep fit ,eat healthy and have strict discipline rituals that will come to light in my next blog ...What do you do to look good , feel good !!
For myself and my own opinion you have male and you have men a Man thinks and acts as a man should do,a male may never make in a life time the grade that's required to be able to stand there and look himself in the mirror and know that he is a man. A coward isn't a man , a pervert isn't a man A man stands up for what is right and will hold his title as a man with his head held high... If you can agree with this then please give your own view on what makes a man a man and also what strips him from bein' worthy to wear this title with honour and pride, all sensible comments welcome however versatile.
When do we determine its over ? I mean...cheating or violence are two quick reasons that end relationships and if it survives
you may compare it to bein' resuscitated
or bein' brought back from the dead. What if it has nothin' to do with the obvious immediate reasons to breaking up such as those mentioned, what if its just a matter of falling out of love as falling in love, when does one or both determine its over, how are we supposed to know when weve been together for yrs and yrs and have worked through most things together. Yes I do speak from personal experience and splitting up can be a long and drawn out process as painstaking as watchin' an old person livin' out their natural life hangin' and clingin' on to the last draw of breath, when is it determined to just let go? People are not guaranteed to stay together forever as we are not meant to live forever too, I understand this however what we can do is cherish the time we had.
Lieing is bad , lieing to loved ones is worse, lieing to a loved one and swearing on their life is even worse still , is it wrong to ask some body to swear on your life, would you be more inclined (when theres doubt)to believe them if they did. As I under stand it if you swear on someones life and your lieing then that person should die which we all know isn't true its just another myth so is it an open door bein' offerered by someone... is it away out for someone else.. what do you think about "swearing on each others lives".
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