Just a bit of fun !
Why does it not sit well if asked, What are you looking for and we say "A bit of fun" opposed to if we say a long term relationship. There is a wide range of things it can mean when saying "a bit of fun! I mean who comes on dating sites ruling out "A bit of fun" and while your profile says your looking for a long term relationship does this mean you can't have both in mind. How does someone look for a long term relationship ha ha keep searching it might be around somewhere. Isn't that why its called long term because it comes after, later and whilst it was the early days what is wrong with calling it just a bit of fun. your comments please !
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We do have both in mind
The problem is, the people looking for "a bit of fun" aren't also looking for a relationship.
We want to have fun during a relationship
They want the fun only.
"Go on enjoy yourself have a bit of fun your hard working you deserve it" !
Theres nothing wrong in that sentence if you ask me not for male or female alike.
People looking for marriage or long term relationships...really !!!!
At least call a spade a spade.
If a man says on his profile, they are only looking for "A bit of fun", we all know he isn't talking about going to a roller derby.
Did you ever go out looking for a long term relationship or marriage if I met a woman in a club I could dance and laugh the night away and go home afterwards with or without her phone number and that's what id see as having a good time or a bit of fun...well isn't it ? on the flip side if I met a woman who said shes only looking for a long term relationship even marriage id probably struggle thinking wow that's forward and id run a mile.
I do wanna have fun but I seek for something more. Should a man say to me he just want to have fun I'd know what his intentions are spot on but maybe it has alot to do with where one is from and how they were socialized.
To many it sounds as if she was lieing when she sung that song I actually believed her.
By the looks of some of the comments I think that's detrimental to women who believe in equal rights.
Most know exactly what "a bit of fun" means, especially on a dating site.
but if a man says it too hes flushed down the loo by the same
women who love that tune.
I wish you all good luck whether its marriage or fun you seek just try to be articulate in your views
before writing someone off who isn't the person you deem him to be.
I'm always looking for fun, after all...
girlswomen just wanna have fun, don't we?Generally people who put that they are looking for 'a bit of fun' or 'activity partner' have no intention of having a relationship.
They want short-term,end of.
Obviously, putting up that you want a long-term relationship doesn't guarantee that the relationship will last long term.
But the intention is there, that's the important part.
And if the sample works out and translates into a bit more, there's still the escape clause - babe, it's over, I did say I was only looking for a bit of fun.
So yep avoid the women wanting more, at least you're honest.
It would be very satisfying if you met someone who bowled you over, stepped over you and kept walking, throwing over her shoulder 'that WAS fun, bye!'
Hey guys, this is (?) and she is just a little bit of fun..
will put down hes looking for a long term relationship because hes out playing the field but whos the catch?