Hi all (men and women),
I need help in reporting 50+ NEW scammers (= fakes) on CS.
The more reporting, the better. When you report you can put them on your "blocked list", then you see them gone when they are deleted.
Waiting for you to message me.
3 hrs later - all gone! all 39!
Why am I not getting an email from CS when someone writes to me? Have I done something wrong?
How much truth is written in a profile?
Here are a few untruths I have found.
One guy, seems to unage with time. When I first spoke to him on cam, his age on CS was 76.
Looking at him, he looked like 80 and I asked him, yes, he was 80 but “felt” younger!
At the moment, a few years later – he is now 74 (!)
Another one, I think he got his age right, but not his marital status. The profile is not a new one and marital status is given as divorced. Just before we were supposed to meet, I get a whatsapp from him saying his wife has just arrived at their house so he wished to postpone are first meeting. I blocked him, only forgot to block “telegram” too. A few weeks later he begs to continue our getting to know each other and that they are in the process of divorcing (she is 82!).
Finally, we arrange a meeting for a few days later, get a whatapp saying sorry, met another woman on CS and will not be meeting me.
Poor her – lucky me!
Thinking about all strange profiles on CS - the, mostly younger guys, showing the most hideous profile photos.
To me it shows their "intelligence" nothing more. A good "start" on CS- or not?
I was told, that if I go to a pay dating portal, the men (in my case) are really serious, so not like here, where only a small percent are looking for a partner
I was also told on the pay-portal there are no scammer. I registered with one.
NOW LISTEN TO THIS !
I hope I can give the name of the portal (to shame). It is 121Seniordating and works from GB.
As I started by put in my data, just finished and per mail was already getting chat requests from men near me. Within 5 minutes I had over 10 (in my area that is a lot). So I thought I will try it and see what it has to offer.
This is how this portal (OK, I am not going to swear)* works. They send a short note for every guy near the new victim (me in this case).
So I became a member with a short months payment. Answered each of these guys -
AND DID NOT GET ONE ANSWER back from them. Now I know why. The whole portal is a trick, the chat notes from each guy was not sent by them, but from the (smart) owner of this portal. Then they use MY answer as if I wrote to each of these guys and hope they would put in a payment to contact me. I know that now because on this portal no one is online for more then a few minutes as there is nothing to read.
I goes further. I looked to see who has paid, a few had (new ones like me) so decided to ask there experience and can confirm they were tricked too.
Anyway I was writing to a few new ones and asked for an email as writing here was awkward as you had to wait for an email for each answer.
The owner, workers of this portal READ whatever you write AND change whatever they want to so that you do not get the correct mail. The same happened with trying to get their mobile number.
There was a survey asking how many dates you have had, 85% ticked NON! How can you meet if any information you gave was changed! I never went that far.
By the way I saw several scammers on these pages too, bet they were disappointed .
I like writing just for fun, it may not be someone suitable as a future partner but it can still be nice getting “post” and nowadays, you don’t have to wait till the postman comes (he’s probably is not your type anyway), the computer goes “click” and hey presto, you have your answer.
Today I saw a profile (Spain Torrevieja) and thought, OK he is not suitable for me, he is looking for a Thai young woman to make him happy, but I liked the style he wrote on his profile and thought, well why not write to him as while he is waiting for his “Thai wonder woman” to come his way.
Now this is the catch – all nicely written with a lot of humour, as least I thought it was, copied it to my mouse, ready to downpour it right into his email, letter box and, now guess what happens – well, you have probably guessed, I am blocked! I am not good enough to his high grade of requirements, well I knew that, but words, mails don’t need an age, or maybe I am just bothering him, expecting him to READ my mail, but maybe the pensioned man is just too busy, as he writes he has a few friends but still, he has been on CS for 2 years, maybe it is time to think about what you want.
I know what I want: first to write to nice people, male and FEMALE, just for the fun of it. For anything else, I think it just comes, and in most cases it doesn’t, but that’s life.
I would like to send you a WARNING, but 1/3 of you have the wrong settings and a woman can not write to you. PLEASE contact me here if you are in a new connection which seems OK but you have not met this person. I will explain per post
Once upon a time, I was thinking, why are dogs adored by the dog owner, but a partner maybe isn't.
So what is the difference between a dog and a partner....
I GOT IT !!!! Dogs don't TALK !
So..........being me, I decided to behave like a dog, so partner would adore me too.
I omitted the licking part though and did not sit, kneel in front of him either.
I just used face, body language to get to him.
Did it work, NO !!!!
He just got angrier and angrier.
Now I know why dogs never get divorced from their owners but people do.
We talk, no good
We shut up, no good
Doesn't matter what we do, dogs are just the better partners.
Whats wrong with you guys. What are you looking for?
After being married most of my life and now single, I find men are ugly, inside and out. OK I am not expecting men to look better than they did than in younger years, but just letting yourselves go does not help either. Who likes an enormous pot belly in front of you?
Forgetting the looks, now to your character, did I just have a great husband and forgot that all the other guys are just not nice, or am I just meeting up with the wrong ones? How do I difference between someone who wants to try them all the available ones out and those that really want a relationship?
Also to finances, some, mostly divorced, find themseves with a very low pension and now expect the woman to keep them, while keeping their meager income to themselves.
Have I tried all sorts that are available, or there those that are really ready, just to be happy in a comfortable relationship, where each puts in the best they can. I think men are afraid of commitment.
One day it will be too late for you, and you will be sitting there slobbering.
My biggest problem, there are not a lot of suitable men near me, so I am very limited .
I am experiencing a lot of unrealistic daydreamers on CS. I think the most sane ones seem to be those that read/write here on BLOGS.
No wonder some are looking for years. I don't think the word "Compromise" is part of their vocabulary.
Of course some things have to fit in like, smoker with smoker, drinker with drinker ect. but other things can be sorted out.
Looks like some have to bake their own gingerbread man/woman as that counterpart just does'nt exist.
I know, blogs are written by bloggers, the only reasonable guys about, so just enjoy reading and commenting my dear Bloggers
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