Age 60+ Whats wrong with you guys?

Whats wrong with you guys. What are you looking for?
After being married most of my life and now single, I find men are ugly, inside and out. OK I am not expecting men to look better than they did than in younger years, but just letting yourselves go does not help either. Who likes an enormous pot belly in front of you?
Forgetting the looks, now to your character, did I just have a great husband and forgot that all the other guys are just not nice, or am I just meeting up with the wrong ones? How do I difference between someone who wants to try them all the available ones out and those that really want a relationship?
Also to finances, some, mostly divorced, find themseves with a very low pension and now expect the woman to keep them, while keeping their meager income to themselves.
Have I tried all sorts that are available, or there those that are really ready, just to be happy in a comfortable relationship, where each puts in the best they can. I think men are afraid of commitment.
One day it will be too late for you, and you will be sitting there slobbering.
My biggest problem, there are not a lot of suitable men near me, so I am very limited .
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"am critical, about myself, though less of others"

Perhaps you should remove this line from your profile or reword your blog rolling on the floor laughing
I'm still ware
Nice2meetyoutoo•57 mins ago•Kaitaia, Northland New Zealand
"am critical, about myself, though less of others"

Perhaps you should remove this line from your profile or reword your blog
Answer: being less critical does not mean everything is acceptable!
Men have feelings too
Short answer- You're looking in the wrong places.

It goes the other way too, lot of women let themselves go. Then they get the unrealistic idea prince charming will sweep them off their feet. But that's the internet for you, easy to pretend you're something you're not (both genders do this). Lot of people are just window shopping, on the off chance they'll strike it lucky.
You should "Open your mind."
You appear to have "Blinkered Vision"
Some overweight people are "Salt of the Earth"

professor
At over 60 we all have a story to tell,Some of us dont like going into a new realtionship < who knows what one might find there >

After reading this blog I went to your profile..

Take a good look at the picture you have painted of your-slef Then ask your slef what is wrong with this picture that is you ?:

Its very hard to trans-plant an old tree ..

cheers
FLYJAMES -Its very hard to trans-plant an old tree ..
I agree, very true!
I understand what your saying..It's men with bad tempers ect
Totally agree with you Respect handshake

A man/person that LET'S themselves go is not the same thing as one being helpless concerning any such matters.

JMO wine
My ex was a slob..I shudder when I think back..I must of been on drugs laugh
See page One header...
MEET BEAUTIFUL SINGLES...
If I was gonna date only cs norwegians i'd be limited to 4 to chose from.
One of them I tried to talk to actually, she just basically told me to p off right of the bat.

Probably many a man who would move to spain.
I know I would.

wine
Oh really Grand? Shall I reserve a hotel for you? Or do you prefer to rent a house?applause
I would prefer to sleep on your sofa.

cheers
Respect...I've stopped wondering long ago!! sigh

As for the comment "lower your expectations ".., which I keep hearing and reading quite often, that's absolute bs as far as people are concerned.

If you value yourself, you have the right to be selective.
Why should we settle for second or third best??
We deserve the best!
head banger
No he retired a few years back, so expect me alone.
Hmm will there be eggs n bacon each morning (hold the bacon)
and nice spanish bread rolls plus tomatoes from the local farmer?, ok then I'll camp in the dog house.
Oh it's only for a few days until I can got around to see what houses may be for sale.

drinking
Greetings Dan. , people are always building fences around themsleves at the end of the
these fance become so high that we can not jump over them Its like we make our jail

Being free all these yeas its too much work to jump over a fence and in no way a my going to jaij for pleateg skirt.

Grand ..sorry but no bacon here..only eggs.(local farm eggs laid by Spanish hens).

My dog won't mind a lodger if you can put up with his smells? laugh
Greetings to you James.
You don't have to jump any fence at all, it's too much hard work.

teddybear
Great answer LaFonda! teddybear
No it's not so great Daniela, it's the easy way out.
Call it plan B.

I hope R2020 shows up again to answer us tonight or maybe tomorrow.

Men that age group needs to step up their game is the message, and nomather what we say her message got across blogland atleast!

beer
Grandsiozzie What answer are you expecting, did I miss the question?
No, nothing. Wrong choice of words from my side.

I suppose I just wanted to see you back and that you don't feel the blog is being taked over by us bunch.


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Grand...you may like to read my other account, I can look after myself very well. Name agingUngraceful enjoy!
Ok. Best of luck in your search for a decent partner. You deserve a good gentleman no doubt.
HA" well I didn't see that one coming laugh
What CW?
There always was something about you Ozzie, seems there still is...

must be that smile of yours very happy wine
I like it the way it stand.

Thanks and the same to you.

lips
Perhaps you r too picky??? Someone said that to me once!! Lol
Should I instead congratulate you for outstanding use of stereotype?
edison324
I am going to send you an email,if your settings allow, then I expect an apology.
This will be fun
This is a wind up, people.

Just have a little think about who might be behind a profile used to create gender division.

It's designed to get you emotionally involved in negative behaviour, like a psychology experiment.

There's even the 'admission' of a 'second profile' to see how people will react.
I haven't been on this site long, just a couple years and I have never had any man be anything but nice to me.
Physical attraction is one thing but chemistry is important too.
I've noticed some have put on their profiles 'friends first...then see where it goes' that's a very good idea.
well folks two messages received ,,and no apology needed ,,the bloggers privacy will be adhered too,
as it is not my style to divulge the means or why,s ,,,draw your own conclusions ,,,,
That was even weller said Prometheus.
Talking to yourself is the first sign of madness, so I've heard. hmmm
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