Age 60+ Whats wrong with you guys?

Whats wrong with you guys. What are you looking for?
After being married most of my life and now single, I find men are ugly, inside and out. OK I am not expecting men to look better than they did than in younger years, but just letting yourselves go does not help either. Who likes an enormous pot belly in front of you?
Forgetting the looks, now to your character, did I just have a great husband and forgot that all the other guys are just not nice, or am I just meeting up with the wrong ones? How do I difference between someone who wants to try them all the available ones out and those that really want a relationship?
Also to finances, some, mostly divorced, find themseves with a very low pension and now expect the woman to keep them, while keeping their meager income to themselves.
Have I tried all sorts that are available, or there those that are really ready, just to be happy in a comfortable relationship, where each puts in the best they can. I think men are afraid of commitment.
One day it will be too late for you, and you will be sitting there slobbering.
My biggest problem, there are not a lot of suitable men near me, so I am very limited .