my own stand up, I told this guy who has been asking to meet me that i have one i am doing. Now he has asked to come to it. I am not so sure it is the best way to meet though

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MiguelUknow●Santiago de Queretaro, Queretaro Mexico

Mar 6, 2019●8 Blogs●316 Comments

It's surely no worse than having someone read their blogs first.

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daniela777●Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain

Mar 6, 2019●2,126 Comments

I don't know about that Miguel??

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Bluesky60●Marysville, Washington USA

Mar 6, 2019●12 Blogs●683 Comments

Leave it for a 2nd or third date.

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EXRED●Northumberland, England UK

Mar 6, 2019●1,466 Comments

I would wait and get to know each other first

good luck.

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Crazyheart38●Amman, Jordan

Mar 6, 2019●191 Blogs●5,807 Comments

Marlin,

It could work out. Why don't you write something funny about the guy ?

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marlindapOP●Clearwater, British Columbia Canada

Mar 6, 2019●3 Blogs●226 Comments

maybe i'll end up lucky and he will chicken out of meeting me.

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chatillion●Boca Raton, Florida USA

Mar 6, 2019●1,879 Blogs●5,023 Comments

#10

I met a woman online who was an amateur singer and invited me to see her in a Broadway style show that she did for a community event. She was commanding and very entertaining to see. Impressed that I showed up, she was too busy to greet me after the performance. I later invited her to dinner and it was her call which restaurant.
Off stage she was meek and totally different than the woman onstage.
Oddly, I found out she lived 2 blocks from me and we shopped at the same grocery store but we didn't recognized each other. As far as the date, I didn't have any interest in her and never asked her out again.
A few years later I saw her photo in a local newspaper, she was engaged to be married.

My opinion is to do the date as normal. Should it work out, then suggest the stand-up.

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LaFonda●Irving, Texas USA

Mar 6, 2019●1 Blogs●931 Comments

#11

Nit for the first date.

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marlindapOP●Clearwater, British Columbia Canada

Mar 6, 2019●3 Blogs●226 Comments

#12

I really do not know what to do, if i tell him no, it could hurt his feelings. If he sees how obsessed i am with Finland and Norway it could do the same :) I guess i will have to just see if he shows up, darn dating is harder than doing stand up. I have not been on a date in 12 years.

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lshtar●Here, Andalusia Spain

Mar 6, 2019●42 Blogs●1,464 Comments

#13

I think he must be a nice guy if he is interested in watching you do what you like. Quite pleasant that he shows interest.
Have a great time , I hope he finds you funny and enjoys the show.

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marlindapOP●Clearwater, British Columbia Canada

Mar 6, 2019●3 Blogs●226 Comments

#14

thank you all, i guess I will just have to see how it goes.

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Palmfrond●Easton, Pennsylvania USA

Mar 6, 2019●156 Blogs●1,206 Comments

#15

I have been giving this some thought. If the dude expresses sincere interest in what you're passionate about, go for it. If he laughs, he gets you and if he doesnt, you'll be spared a bunch of wasted time and energy.

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itchywitch●galway, Galway Ireland

Mar 6, 2019●1 Blogs●3,435 Comments

#16

I wasn't aware being a stand up comic was your profession

soooo its your job then?
The way I'm inclined to view it is, would you bring a man to work with you for/on a date?
That being said, I know its kind of different .. do whats comfortable for you and g'luck with the date

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itchywitch●galway, Galway Ireland

Mar 6, 2019●1 Blogs●3,435 Comments

#17

Marli, I made that comment without reading you replies to other members

Be kind to yourself by doing yourself a favour and date elsewhere.

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Bekard●St.Johns, Saint Philip Antigua and Barbuda

Mar 6, 2019●275 Comments

#18

Marlin,
just go for it......if it is meant to happen, it is going to work......if he don't accept you in what you are doing or who you are in the beginning.....he is not going to accept it later either......just be naturally your self, it is for sure the best way

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marlindapOP●Clearwater, British Columbia Canada

Mar 6, 2019●3 Blogs●226 Comments

#19

doing stand up is not my job, I have a job. It is a goal of mine though. so it is a big part of my life.

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itchywitch●galway, Galway Ireland

Mar 6, 2019●1 Blogs●3,435 Comments

#20

Right you are then Marli and g'luck with in the near future

and the date also what ever you decide.

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namaron●Seekonk, Massachusetts USA

Mar 6, 2019●1,658 Blogs●20,975 Comments

#21

"Why Not Put More Of Your Shows Up On Here?".....................

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Bekard●St.Johns, Saint Philip Antigua and Barbuda

Mar 6, 2019●275 Comments

#22

Yes Nam, I think she should do that

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Bekard●St.Johns, Saint Philip Antigua and Barbuda

Mar 6, 2019●275 Comments

#23

Marlin,

obsessed with Finland.........I'm a Finn, with a double passport.....have still 6 ha of land there, inherited from my parents.......do you have some blood connections there???

My two Sons live in Canada.....one of them with the Inuits and he has 3 passports....Finland, Antigua and Canada.

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loulou77●Vancouver, British Columbia Canada

Mar 6, 2019●71 Blogs●5,968 Comments

#24

Mar

If you are comfortable with him in the audience...go for it...otherwise it could affect your performance...just a thought...

Best of luck Canuck...lol...

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marlindapOP●Clearwater, British Columbia Canada

Mar 6, 2019●3 Blogs●226 Comments

#25

I just really like the Finnish language and music, and the people seem loyal and polite

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