THE DATING SCENE ONLINE & HIGH<LOWS>ALL PLACES IN BETWEEN!

HA, I AM GOING TO START THE DAY WITH A REAL EYE OPENER; I WENT ON THE DATING SITE LAST NIGHT AND LOOKED THROUGH THE "GREEN LIGHTS THAT SIGNIFY IF SOMEONE IS UP AND "AVAILABLE" TO LIVE CHAT AND SAW ONE AND SENT A NICE ONE LINE EMAIL,AFTER 20 MINS THE "LADY" REPLIED AND WHAT I INITIALLY THOUGHT WAS GOING TO BE AT LEAST A CORDIAL CHAT TURNED INTO SOMETHING ELSE ENTIRELY! OUT OF DECENCY I AM NOT GOING TO DIVULGE HER IDENTITY! AS RUDE AS I FELT SHE WAS TO ME THE POINT I WOULD LIKE TO MAKRE HERE IS I WAS ,I GUESS,MISTAKENLY UNDER THE IMPRESSION THAT IF A WOMANS' PROFILE IS ON THE DATING SITE AS ACTIVE THEN DOESN'T THAT SIGNIFY SHE WISHES TO BE CONTACTED BY INTERESTED MEN? APPARENTLY NOT,ACCORDING TO HER,WHO I JUST OPENED HER EMAIL IN WHICH SHE RESPONDED TO THE EFFECT THAT SHE IS UNDER NO OBLIGATION TO 'DATE' WHICH,OF COURSE IS TRUE,BUT I AM SUPPOSED TO KNOW THAT ……..HOW/ WITHOUT BEING TOLD VERY RUDELY BY HER? THIS IS WHAT MYSTIFY'S ME ABOUT TODAYS WOMEN! THEY,I GUESS,EXPECT THE MAN TO 'TELEPATHICALLY' DISCERN THIS?????? I WILL LEAVE IT UP TO HER IF SHE WANTS TO DIVULGE HER IDENTITY ON HERE AND,i GUESS I9F WE ARE ALL VERY LUCKY THIS "LIVERPOOL PRINCESS" WILL GRACE US ALL WITH HER MUCH SUPERIOR INTELLECT AND WHERWITHAL ON THE ENTIRE SUBJECT OF MEN&WOMEN,DATINGT AND WHATEVER ELSE SHE SEES FIT TO SHARE WITH US MERE MORTALS!

CS is only good for the blogs and forums.

I find men on here don't want to talk.

Some of them look at my profile over and over, but never send a note.

So CS are for "peeping Tom's."

La Fonda? you had some very pointed things to say earlier......I guess if no one else is going to jump in.....anything else to share?

I think once you get to blogs and forums you've tried and got nowhere. thousands of people on cs who do not touch the blogs or forums.

We all have bad luck searching for someone special, even when married it can turn sour

EXRED 10 hrs ago; "We have bad luck...……….? So, does anyone on here know who coined the phrase "All is fair in Love &War? If one of you research geeks know ……..? feel free to share? As John Wayne so famously quipped in HONDO, "They were getting along fine.....until one day she picked up a gun and blew a hole through him., she was MAD! "The apaches are MAD!

athought I can tell you its more like 20 odd years for me.

1 takes a couple of years to be you again, yep as we roll into each other to make good team. Sometimes it works sometimes not. Then yes you find out who you have become, all life happenings changes one


2 then you go on the hunt and it happens all over again.

3 Now you could become bitter and twisted Or may still do for awhile but in the end you make yourself happy hug a tree or three and be at peace with the world, yours that is.


4Ah you may find life is good being free

5Then the time comes when you cant imagine someone in your life 24 7. A friend will do benefits or not a friend is a friend.

6Last of all cs and blogging, forums, poetry, friends on the internet HAPPOY LIFE

Oh sorry to here that, yes you will take long time to become a separate identity again it does take time

Many a mans profile stage women without baggage I,m presuming they mean no thoughts of life with someone, no children and no clothes

La Fonda has a point here..about the "peeping Toms"....viewing your profile over and over again but can't even be bothered to write!

Worse still...if a woman makes the first move with some intelligent and/or witty message...they don't even have the decency to reply But...still continue to view her profile!!!

Wtf is wrong with people these days ? ???

No wonder why the more I deal with the human race the more I love my dog/cat/ horse etc. !!!!
At least they like personal contact..affection..caring etc..

DANIELA777 YOU DO HAVE A POINT ABOUT NOT REPLYING BUT,AS WITH EVERYTHING BETWEEN THE CRAZILY FACSINATING DYNAMIC BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN IT IS A REVOLVING DOOR,I CONTACT PROBABLY AN AVERAGE OF 3-4 A NIGHT DEPENDING ON WHO IS ON ,FACE ,PROFILE ETC AND AT LEAST ALMOST HALF OF THEM DO NOT EVEN RESPPOND WITH AN EMOTICON OF THE HELD UP MIDDLE FINGER! AND HALF OF THESE SWEETHEARTS I WILL ONLY "LIKE" BECAUSE SOME HAVE THAT BLOCK THING BUT...….IF WE HELD OUR HEART ON OUR SLEEVE IT IS GOING TO GET BRUISED! COME ON YOU RESEARCH GEEKS, FIND OUT WHO COINED THE PHRASE "ALL IS FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR" BECAUSE THE OLDER I GET AND THE MORE 'SUPPOSED WISDOM GOD REVEALS TO ME' I THINK IT HAS A LOT OF BEARING!

such talk on a Sunday ....

Lets keep it clean if you pls