Fall out of love. . . .

Why do people just fall out of love?
How can something that used to be there just disappeared?
Can it be found again if we choose to do so?
Or its there just covered by ones life problems and pain and we refused to see through those pain and problems?

U see, i know a very dear friend who's marriage is falling appart.
As one think that its just a matter of time that the marriage will ends as their bridge will come trumbling down.
And the other one think that they should live an empty marriage for the sake of their 2 kids.

Can we actually judge which opinion is the right one?
Would children grow happily among quarelling parents all the time?
And would children be broken if a marriage is ended for the sake of the sanity of their parents and harmony for the whole family?

It has always been a dillema. .
Both opinion are considered to be the right one under its own point of view.

But, how to decide which action to take?
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I am saddened by that fact. However it is a part of life. That is why it is important to take the time to know your before you fall in love or get married. A person who seems too good to be true usually is not and with time the true person will be revealed. Do not think the person will they usually don't and don't even think you can change them. A person who changes for you will revert to their former selves as soon as the motivation is gone (you) or given time, it not lasting. On the other couples need to be vigilant re their relationships. As soon as there is a problem they need to deal with it and not leave it to fester and haunt them at a later date. Problems left unresolved will only get worst eventually and might threaten a relationship.
Thats Scarey if you think about it...! Thats why one should become creative..Find ways to Re-light that fire.I think A large part of it is, psychological .If she finds some-one who makes her happy Then thats usually the time he want to come home and claim whats his,She starts to look better to him while shes in the arms of another these games are sick but humon-nature.some people get A rise out of that stuff.
I don't think people just "fall out of love" quickly. It often happens over time when small (or large!) hurts or annoyances tend to build up and are unresolved; when more faults of the person you idealized begin to surface, when they make funny noises in the bedroom and then it doesn't smell good (just an example!). Falling out of love happens most when the love was more infatuation and not a deep appreciation and caring that you hold for someone who is also your best friend.
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