My recent online experiences

I don't know if this is the proper place to introduce oneself. Though I haven't met anyone who I think is right for me, I like this place. Even if I don't find the "boyfriend" here its nice to read others posts. And I like that there are people from all over the world. Makes things more interesting I think. I love to chat and write. I think someone else said something I agree with. Sometimes I won't reply either which is a bummer but I hate to give someone false hope if I don't find them physically attractive. If its any consolation, I get rejected by guys I find attractive and sometimes they are attracted to me physically as well but they just want something casual. So in any event it just doesn't work out.
Other times I'll get guys who view love as a business transaction! This Indian guy said I was perfect for him because I looked like marriage material and would make a good wife! He said I was pleasant-looking(how romantic!). But LOL I've never been a wife so how would I know if I'm cut out for it? I'm not particularly domestic and don't like to cook. I'm opinionated and not at all submissive. I would hardly be his "ideal."
Just some of my recent experiences online!
Wish I could read all posts and blogs. There are so many!
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Hope to find what you are searshing for , and welcome here
Regardscheers
Welcome. If you ever do meet the right one & if he eventually proposes to you, please, please tell him what you stated at the end of your blog from "LOL" to "ideal," to save his time, $, & sanity.
things are tuff all over lol.
it's nice to have you on board enjoy the ride .
don't worry about posting in the wrong place i just post whatever i'm thinking wherever nobody has complained so far .
To Mr. Thad Smith:
What do you mean by that? I don't want to jump to conclusions but at least to me it doesn't sound very nice. If and when I meet the right guy? You are obviously (not that I'm interested) would ever be the right guy for me. Just to answer your ridiculous post. What right do you have to judge me?

To the other people who commented, thank you very much for your welcome. I really appreciate it.
Theres nothing ridiculous at all about what I posted in reference to what YOUtyped. Its obvious you're another person that likes to hide behind the phrase of "don't judge me." You basically showed that you don't have a clue on how to be a wife. Do you think that every current successful wife in the world only knows how to be one now because they had to be a wife from another marriage? I didn't judge you at all. All I'm saying is, if your right man comes & happens to propose to you, tell'em you don't know how to be an ideal wife so he's not being set up for an expensive divorce later.
No worries, Bronte. No matter what you would have written, Thaddeus would take issue with it somehow.

It seems to me that posting a blog that can be read by thousands of people is about as up front as one can be.

It has been my most pleasurable experience that there are many men out there these days that love to cook! And cleaning services are just the ticket for non domestic types. So all in all I think that part of your blog is a non issue.

An ideal wife is a woman who knows herself and loves herself so that she is not needy or clingy or dependent emotionally. A woman who fits that bill will care so much about herself that she will attract the ideal husband (for her).

Good luck and have FUN!!
teddybear
Trust me, with the way some of ya'll act, a woman being able to cook is the last thing we're concerned about. We're more concerned about commital ability & whose legs can stay closed to anybody but 1 man.
First of all, Mr. Smith I wouldn't propose to a guy. If he doesn't propose himself there must be a reason for it. And yes I believe in the Bible but where does it say that a woman cannot have her own opinion? I have spoken to many men who have this ridiculous notion that a woman must agree with them or simply be quiet. Doesn't work for me. I can be reasonable and will say I'm sorry if I was wrong. Some people can't do that especially men.
Thanks Venusruled. You are right about loving yourself and not being emotionally dependent. Thanx for the hugs. Yeah and not being domestic is a nonissue. I can clean, do laundry, etc. Just not cook too much except simple things, LOL!
Theres Lil "Venus" coming to the rescue...perfect timing. But the last paragraph in "Bronze's" blog is the WHOLE issue of importance to a man thats trying to protect his assests & sanity, prevent divorce, yet looking down the road to possibly marry & woman thats not lost in the sauce after 2 weeks of marriage be told this info too late.
Darling Thaddeus, I have a feeling Miss. Bronte is about the last woman on this site to need rescuing. I am so entertained every time you post something. You have a brilliant imagination!! The scenarios you play out are so dramatic!!! Maybe you should go write scripts for soap operas.
kiss kiss kiss
Whew! I'm so glad Sarah Palin wasn't voted into the Presidential office!
Wow guy I'm sorry things have gone so badly for you, honestly. But if you don't open your heart you won't let in that person who might be the "right" one for you. Your guard is way up. I can understand though but not every woman is out for your assets as you call them.
Oh "Venus," I'm glad I've fulfilled your entertainment. Theres no need for anymore script writers, the actors have taken over...just look around you & in society, you may have lived it & you will see or have seen that my imagination is reality. I'm a preventive person, not reactive. Thats why my status is on point with no allimony or child support payments.
"Venus," you know if we bicker more, "TOL" is gonna smell the smoke burning.....laugh
"Bronte," I've had bad experiences & very good ones, just some didn't meet up to par or decided to revert back to old habits & lifestyles. But I will always screen & closely listen to the words that come out of a woman of interest's mouth. I will then, think, respond, & act accordingly. You shold do the same but make sure you're not blaming men like me for being so called judgemental, when all I did was refer to somethings YOU typed & I took it for how it was written. If you typed something but had another meaning, thats on you not me or anyother reader. Nobody is telepathic!frustrated doh
lets just have some tacos and forget about the whole thing hmmm ?
ok..i have taco...applause my pupz ate the otherzz..moping

smitten
teddybear
"Smittens" mail the poodle to us!
in exsperiance comes more exsperiance its better to have friends first it is pretty hard to find maby love is right before you you just don't know it yet
"Venus" you are sadely mistakened. God requires faith, not proof. Did he physically write the Bible, no. But what he did do was spiritually guide his disciples while they wrote it. The Bible is a guide like no other ordinary book. God has been using people as tools & witnesses for decades now. Yes, the Bible is a weapon=against evil. I never said God didn't love his creations nor his people. It is sinful acts of people he is not satisfied with. No, everybody's lifestyle & choices are not acceptable.
And trust me women are disrepectful to themselves. Not me.
%$@#$% would it %$#@#^^$# kill everyone to just have some #%% %^&& tacos and #$%^%$# play nice ? *^%$#



frustrated
how a woman's blog can turn up into debate about God!!!!
well Bronte and Venus. if it helps. I can cook.
Oh.....my....GOD. rolling on the floor laughing

Ms. Bronte- I know what you mean, I think this is a fun place to network, if anything. Not really expecting to find true love here, but have found some valuable and some worthless insights.


Thad- For the love of GOD please stop preaching. And, she was right...you did judge her, and in the process, proved my previous point...the more religious, the more judgemental!

I thought I was a cynic, but you have blown me and my cynicism way out of the water! I really would love to hear the story about the woman/women who have given you such a jaded view...because everytime I bring it up..you continue to say you dont have to prove anything because "one can just go look out in the world and see it all taking place" well, thats not what I see when I go out into the world!

Let people be who they are....spread the love, not the cynical rage. kiss kiss hug
Hi welcome to CS where in Fl. are you talking about I know of Spring Hill in Volusia county about 15 so miles from where I move from I was close to Daytona. If your in Volusia Co. Hope you survived the brunt of the second Tornado that came thru after the Christmas Day one I fared pretty well but most my neighbors didn't.Good Luck to you on the site
Thad my dear...my Oh My God statement was a pun. Sorry if you didnt catch that.

I never preached anything about metaphysics, I just find it very interesting. I find many religions very interesting, but I would never force my beliefs on anyone.

I'm just saying, theres a time and place for everything....

Calm down now...hug
Dear "Drea," all you're motivating me to do is later put myself in a fenced cage & do my thang with a megaphone loudspeaker...at one of the busiest corners during a spring break party session.
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