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hi honey! It's very hard to solve this problem, because I've never married before But I have a little advice give more times to GOD and you'll know the best way that you suppose to take. God bless you, honey!

Right or wrong get over it, nobody is perfect

Wished I could give you a big . I've been there where you're right now except that I knew God would always love me. God IS love and nothing else. (Religion wants to control and manipulate you with the lye that there's an angry God who punishes).
Your children are the real victims if you stayed in the marriage unhappy and suffering. I wow you for having the courage in this culture to end an dysfunctional marriage. To me you're selfish in a very good and healthy way. I'm a Bule and left my Balinese husband with our son years ago. I wasn't prepared who people would treat me as a single mother but I learned quickly to not let it bother me. I feel most of them were jealous because I walked away from my marriage and they wished they could/would do the same. The low divorce rate here sure has nothing to do with functional marriages. Please stop questioning and beating yourself up and focus on your new life with your children. Wishing you all the best for your new start

thanks a lot to four of you. Thank you for your concern, it's very mean full and soothing my feeling, I'm very appreciate it. God always bless you all!

PLEASE, WE ONLY HAVE ONE LIFE....SO WHY WASTE IT ON A LOSER.

Staying in a relationship that is not healthy, does not serve a purpose for anyone involved. Especially the children. They learn about relationships from what they see at home.

I havent looked back not once.. No regrets.

Socalboatguy, you're absolutely right. Thanks for your comment, I appreciate it. God bless you.