What's your most important plan for life currently
Today, one of my friend asked me this question and I said: “I am going to finish my studying and will apply for other level of education”. My friend screamed at me: “ARE YOU CRAZY??!! The most important plan for you is to marry with a man who has enough money for you to spend at least for your basic life!! Look at me!! I don’t need to study but I have a rich husband who able to supports me the money that I need, that is enough for me and I feel happy!!”I think, somehow, she is correct. But to me, I am still prefer to work even if in future I will marry with a rich man. There are several reasons for this.
1st, I don’t want to stay whole day in-house doing nothing, its will make me feel like I am useless.
2nd, I would like to earn money by myself at least enough for some of my basic personal needs so that I don’t have to ask money from my husband every single time when I need to spend for something.
How many ladies on CS are thinking the same as mine and how many ladies are thinking same as my friend?
How many men would like his wife stay home doing nothing and how may men would like his wife working as just for fun (I mean, don’t have to worry about family financial)?
Your posting opinions would be high appreciated!
Comments (11)
My subject was about current time/short term goal (present and within about less than 2 years).
Undine, thanks for your support.
hamy~~my current plan is to take that job successfully!
Linna
Hi, Linna, goodluck to you too!
here is an interesting phenomenon. why do i find that those girls who were born in a rich family have dozens of keen men who are after them, while girls in poor families, like me, has no following.
Linna
"marry a man who has enough money for me to spend at least for my basic life".. Well that is my goal..
in conclusion, i am a mercenary gold-digger.
Linna
BUT, what will happen if after married for years and you both have kids, one day for some reasons, your husband is not able to provide money to family anymore. I hope the serious answer is not "divorce to look for other rich man!", anyway, some women may doing so, but what will happen if by that time there is no rich man interested in her?? you can manage your life in whatever ways you want but I believe that you will not want to see your kids suffer because as same as your husband, you are also not able to earn money to support them in basic?? JMO.