new world

i feel your pain i have simular story and feelings one thing that has helped me are the people on this site i try to read all the blogs and i do write some of my own and i have always recieved positive results whether it was from advice or humor things are getting a little better for me each day my advice is to share your story and to give any advice you can to help others

know this, you are not the only one going through this. I am sorry that you had to go through this, it is tough to go through it, but nothing last forever not even the bad times; so know that this feeling will pass and you will be able to look back on this moment without a tear. With each lesson that life teaches us we grow from it.

I can only speak from my experience so yes, I have been there, and now I am here stronger than before and starting over.

Take time for you now, do exactly what you want to do, find new activities that you enjoy and live life.

It would be safe to say that many of us have been in the situation.
I think it's better to start over then to stay with someone who is a player. You put all you have into it and get nothing back. You may be past the hurt stage and are now in the anger stage. This will pass as you heal. Things come one day at a time. Get busy, take time away from trying to date anyone until you feel ready to give again. When the time is right you will meet someone who completes you. Been there, done that, and have moved on.

Hi Babes. There are lots of fish out there. I have just gone through divorce after 36 years - a bachelor at 62 - scary. It's all about attitude.

dont judge your future by past events,everyday comes with different blessing i believe everything happens for a reason.people change so that you learn to go,sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.

good luck.

Newjululi..Sorry to hear you are hurt but there is life after divorce.
Embrace the chance to meet the right one next time and get to know them real well before giving your heart to them.
Sometimes we allow a man to chose us and stick with him even though there are warning signs it might not work out, simply because we feel lonely.
Try to get some counceling help if you feel your having a difficult time getting over it.