Confused :/

So get this I have this guy friend that I have known since I was one (literally) we were the closest friends. We lost eachothers numbers awhile back so we hadnt spoken for a few years :/. Then just recently (about a month ago) we started talking again. We have both changed and grown up alot since last time we talked. But since we started talking we havent stopped haha from 7am till about 10pm every night we txt and of course a few phone calls. And now Im confused because I feel like a I have feelings for him but Im not completely sure and to make matters worse I have no clue as to whether he feels the same. I cant just ask him cause that could make things awkward :/, I am also unsure whether it would be the right decision to tell him anything about the way Im feeing cause I dnt wanna ruin our Great! friendship :/..

HELP!
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Dear Shelly

As you both didn't had any contact for 7 years, i guess that you should allow another...let's say 7 months, enough time to settle right what's going on. Unless you're not rushing into it. Soon you'll be able to see some relevant results ! Good luck !wave
There is nothing wrong if you tell him about your feelings to him , tell him everything that inside you cause trust me if you keep hiding your feelings it will bother you it will be like suffering from something , just be yourself and follow your heart , you will not lose his friendship
Don't be overly concerned about this dear.He may very well be thinking the samething.But do remember that you two have been friends almost since birth.He is just being a cool guy who respects this fact.He isn't hitting on you because it's about friendship and he is being a gentleman,and not crossing that line into something else.
Look,if you really like him then just be nice to him,understanding and supportive.Simply put,just make him want you.
Hey shelly,


I've been through that kind of thing and I personally believe that if I guy comes to have strong feelings for a girl trust me he will let her know and he will do whatever it takes to make her see how he feels about her.
For now its seems that the two of you have a great connection and a great friendship . Just enjoy it as it is and let things progress naturally as they will if it is meant to be.wine
@shelly ...

I SIMPLY LOVE YOUR CURVES.... STUNNING!

what's this blog about?


uh oh
prepare for the worst hope for the best ( my motto ) then tell him what's on your mind .
Hello dear Shelly,

I completely agree to the lady Lana commented above 3 of me.She says the right.I agree with her idea.I advise You to live this answer of your question to the time.Time will certainly answer your puzzle in your thoughts.

But if you want to see what will happen so quickly I advise You to ask him about if he has a recent relationship with any other ladies currently.I mean shortly Ask him Do oyu have a girlfriend? Than he will make some gossips about her girlfirend whom he date with nowadays.Okay Listen my advises.You will win.You will be the Mrs.Goodwin.

Take Care.Be Safe.Good Luck.Best Wishes.wave
Well don't keep hiding your feelings. Its all about the truth you're not lying to him. Tell him how you feel and that will bringing a healing into your heart. Even if he let you down just be honest with him and keep the friendship.
The truth can only be the truth and am sure there is a reason of you guys getting connected back again after those long years. If am were you I will tell him coz mybe he's feeling same you never know.
You didnt have them then !!blushing
{10k} Your kidding right? The girl is 18! confused
Hey springguy,I dont think 10K gives a rats how old they are ??dunno
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