First Dates Part Two

Here's what we all need to remember about that special, and very desirable someone fellas.

* Never where a white shirt to an Italian or Mexican restaurant
* For that matter, never have a first date, go Mexican. Bad juju
* Get her to talk about herself!
* It's not a good idea to spend the night speaking of your ex,
no matter how much you dislike her!
* If you forget your mind and in turn, the will to be chivalrous
you'll pretty much get the cold shoulder that you deserve!!
* Open her doors, pull the chair out for her, ask if she'd mind
you ordering for her...not your idea of what she should eat,
rather her choice as you present it.
* Look into her eyes men, I know she's beautiful but if you're
caught doing that thing you do, then you deserve that whippin
you get!
* When you walk with her, put yourself between the busy street
or for that matter, any perceive danger, and your lovely date.
* Ask open ended questions. Those requiring something more than
a shoulder shrug or, yes or no response.
* Comment on the way she looks, but if you're leering, that
polite excuse from the table might very well be your walking
papers.
* Be Interested! Not interesting. Your idea of interesting is
likely a far piece off, from hers!
* Never be late! It's considered rude. That's her job.
* Never, be early! You'll be waiting a while as again, it's her
job to be fashionably late. Just own it guys.
* When all else fails refer to rule three!

I could go on and on, because, well...that's what I do. But, in closing these thoughts should envelop you. If you're truly interested in getting somewhere with the woman of this first date, then, think about getting to the fifth date, and beyond! You don't get to play the game if you're not IN the game. You have zero chance to make a connection if you fail to do so, on your first! It's not like you get do over's for that initial impression, although, I have had second dates that were reprieves, of a sort. If you drop the handle on that first night, there is good news! If you've done a good job then, all that conversation which leads up to getting that first date, you may quite likely, find her throwing you a bone, so to speak. That is, if you remember but a few of these simple rules about first dates.

Here's hoping that those memories you foster are not outlined with the recall of her car, speeding away! Happy trails, all.