Where are all the Real Gentlemen Gone??

they're extinct!

No place for 'em in today harsh world! Poor kids..

Skyblue, 10k is a real gentleman !
10k

have become of extras terestris

The extreme feminism is guilty too.. I know a case when a man opened the door for two women and they called him "a chauvinistic male pig". That happened in an American university.

I open doors for women and a lot women get upset with me for doing that.

If a guy slams a door in my face I usually make a face like " oh, really??" THEN I step back and purposely open the OTHER door as if the door that he touched had been contaminated

JOKING! (but not really)

Do you know what a gentleman is.? He doesnt pee in the bathtub he gets out and does it in the handbasin instead!!!.

viking...But close it in their face and watch the gratitude you get!!

viking.....keep doing it . There are still many of us who love and appreciate this kind romantic gesture

well im a tell you there are!!!I just think alot of people look in the wrong places for relations,and its sad but the way this world is today most of the men period are either already taken,incarcerated,cracked out or women are not on their menu..THAT IS SO SAD..With that being said its about 20 to 25 women per man.YOU WILL FIND HIM AND WHEN HE COMES YOU WILL NO

Adamisk is true what you say! When you're too nice, you're suspect. Dubious. A woman will immediately begin to believe that something is wrong and you become automatically suspected for lack of naturalness. Sometimes I seriously think that women generally dislike men with ambitions and character of a gentleman! Too much for them to cope !

There's a trick to the 'too nice' concern.

A woman may say she would like someone who is friendly and kind. She's likely met many men who are not. When she meets a nice gentleman she's not sure what to do. If he's too nice, is he 'manly' enough? If he's too friendly, will he be friendly with everyone (providing an opening for jealousy to develop)? Does she actually want someone who is nice with her and mean (stern) to others?

There are 'man as protector and provider' issues in here... thoughts of what others will think and how she will be judged for being with him... And there are trust issues --- If he's too nice... too kind to her... it's too good to be true so won't last ... it must be an act and not his genuine character. (She wants to see his flaws so she knows he's not just 'acting' when he is with her)

It can be quite confusing.

(lots of conversation needed if you want to resolve something like this in a relationship... few couples sit still long enough to have these conversations)

Being a gentleman doesn't make a man looking "not manly". For me the most important proof that the man is "manly" is to protect me when it's needed. I know it will sound rude, but many men are cowards. I don't mean that the man has to fight for me, but that he has to be courageous, determined, reliable, and always to be there for me

women want the bad boy now havent you heard.

Are you any kind of parapligic?
Any "gentelman" who is going to date you is looking for extra homework, what is the next step, honeydo?