Old fashioned' traditions and values

It use to be being old fashion, whan a man had date,even just for coffee he would help the lady in the car by opening the car door.Or in a Restaurant help her with her jacket. This afternoon
as we were about to leave the Restaurant,I went to help her with her spring jacket.She said she was vary capable putting on her own jacket, it was like she was embarrassed. My times has changed
So here is my question: Is being old fashion out dated and misplaced in today's culture.Or is it not appropriate for the modern era.
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In fairness to the women, there are plenty of men that DO ruin it for those men that are polite. If I was a woman, I would be very cautious of men too!
Jana28 so true, it is a shame we can't communicate in real life, have we lost our way of communicating
with each otherconfused
@No_Heart: you have a good point, if i were a women i would be as cautious of men too!
Some old fashioned things are nice,but others I can completely do without.

As for holding doors,chairs and helping someone with their jacket,well that's just good manners for someone of either gender.I always hold the door if someone is going in the same place right behind me.How rude to just slam it in their face!
Haha, No Heart :) You can be a gentleman with me anytime! Have a nice day!
I go to bed, and we don't work till Tuesday yay
like i told bear earlier things get lost over time i was taught to hold a chair for a lady but never taught about helping with her jacket but would do it both ways if the lady was open to the help
Yes women are opened to that.. well real women :))
But actually I'm not here, I'm sleeping already yawn sleep
Same to you 10k! :)
goodnite jana been fun
10k have a good one im off tocheers
@terbear
good morningwave
I did not involve into commenting and discussion last night...( for me night), I have just read your blog and I can say just one, if a lot of men were like you and kept basic rules of politness this world would be a nicer place.wine
@no heart scold scold scold
I guess i am just one of those old fashioned women that look for that value in a man! this generation is all wrong!
I love to be treated a lady always especially on a date:)Cannot forget my first date with someone who did that to me, quite surprising but I was glad about it.Hhhmmnnn not all the time we have that:)heart wings
@ lana123456
Reasons very
some fine it easy to talk to others online then in real life.
By our very nature, humans love to communicate.It is our way of expressing ourselves.
your reason verys from mine, have a nice weekendhandshake
@Aswina
Good afternoon,thank you i appreciate that, have a great weekend
lipsee; i bet that was a big surprise, thats great
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