Seriously?
So I'm talking to a guy and I'm not sure what the hell is problem is but we are just talking and nothing important and then he randomly is like jen I can't handle this commitment and I'm like what commitment? I like do emotional ties or anything with this guy and he made it sound like we had something. It was a little surprising. Anyways he's like jen I can't let this go on any further! It just seems so stupid because what the hell was going on? I don't know. I was just having a nice chat buddy. I wasn't thinking even any type of dating with this guy at the time. So why spend time getting to know me if all you are going to do is leave like a freakin baby especially when your not even telling me what he heck is the problem in the first place? You spend days getting to know me and then you act freaking ridiculous. Anyways maybe this shouldn't be a big deal but I seriously don't want to waste my time getting to know any men if they are just gonna be a wimp and back out like a little babe. Why do people play with you anyways? I don't know but they need to stop. I don't get online just to get all excited cause someone likes me and then get screwed over. Men you wonder women don't have faith in you even if you are a great guy is because of all the damn losers out there who mess with their hearts and minds. That's why you get to deal with women not trusting men and crap. Anyways, I'm done now. This is absolutely frustrating and stupid.jen
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Lol. Hmmmm, cant be easy being a yougster theese days.
Well. Talking u said? Face to face? No screens?
Or...ehhh..was it maybe ...i dont know ehh online.. maybe kinda, and stuff like. Like u know.
Like..maybe kinda like u should try like ask like the dude like kinda like meet or sth like that sort of stuff. Or sth.
And if not u might like drop him or sth like that or sth kinda
like u know.
Well, atleast here is a flower for you Jen,
u deserve that!
I can say that I totally understand you...wish I could say something to make you feel better.
I have been there and know what this feels like but I will say this, I believe in karma and when someone plays with some one else's heart in such a cruel way it will return to them one day . Know this and be good to yourself.
NEVER trust what people say until you have met them their agenda will no doubt be different to yours
Rule number 2…
If a person whom you have never met tells you that they are feeling emotional towards you then they have relationship issues… stay well clear
Rule number 3…
Remember… words cost nothing… commitment is everything.
53 minutes ago
Rule number 1…
NEVER trust what people say until you have met them their agenda will no doubt be different to yours
Rule number 2…
If a person whom you have never met tells you that they are feeling emotional towards you then they have relationship issues… stay well clear
Rule number 3…
Remember… words cost nothing… commitment is everything.
I disagree with your comments because to consider that another is not "truthful" in their intentions? Why? Words can mean much or they can mean little - it really comes down to the two people involved. To discount another simply because they are unable to be together doesn't mean that they are not serious in their intent. Its about getting to know someone.
To the OP: If you want to find someone sincere, it may take time, but I believe its possible. Ask the right questions, and truly don't waste time if you feel its going no where. Trust your instincts and use your mind/guard your heart ...... reality is a good place to have both feet on the ground, but there is always room for a hopeful heart.
There are going to be many who are flakey here for sure, but there is the odd one that will stand out in the crowd. That's a gem worth waiting for. I'm panning for gold myself and I think I've found a keeper.
I will hold on to that thought