Feeling vulnerable
Since I have been on CS I have learnt several things about women one of these is that many feel vulnerable a sentiment not common in men.Understanding the fact that women feel vulnerable goes a long way to explaining why women are the way they are, for example a woman may not tell you about her feelings, a woman may not tell you exactly what she is thinking this is not because they don’t want too it is because they do not like to leave themselves at risk to any form of assault either verbally or physically.
A woman’s vulnerability comes in several forms it maybe something as simple as not wanting to post a photo in their profile as this may lead to being harassed by mail, alternatively a woman may feel vulnerable after detailing or asked to detail events of a personal or semi personal nature... so the next time you wonder why your wife, girlfriend, partner or whatever is acting a little defensive then you may want to consider what you have done or said has left them feeling vulnerable.
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I want to say THANK YOU for understanding. I think that many men (NOT ALL) do not fully grasp the concept that some women have actually experienced some sort of threat whether physical or phsycological and are a bit leery in trusting or exposing themselves to any potential harmful or abusive situation again.