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Aug 2011

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The pain of disappointment

How many times have you found someone you really like, you get on well, the mail is fun to read everyday then one day the person you are talking too either says something or does something that hurts you and that is the end you stop writing.

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virgosingle●greymouth, West Coast New Zealand

Aug 27, 2011●409 Blogs●8,106 Comments

you just have to get use to it , or get off the net

and go and cry about it you big baby

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particolor●Inverell, New South Wales Australia

Aug 27, 2011●9,376 Comments

Never mind the writers cramp wont last long..

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feelinglostOP●Marooned on a rock, Canary Islands Spain

Aug 27, 2011●18 Blogs●196 Comments

@The two above
As usual your really useful comments are appreciated.

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Aswina●Nitra, Slovakia

Aug 27, 2011●12 Blogs●970 Comments

I cannot change people, I can just change my approach to them.
It helps me to get over disappointments.

Take it easy, we are given so much great things in our life,music, arts, books, films... we are rather healthy, we all have somebody we like and somebody likes us.... let´s enjoy a bit.

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Jana28●Sofia, Sofia Province Bulgaria

Aug 27, 2011●1,803 Comments

It has happened a couple of times... I'm glad if I haven't lost too much time until I find out something that turns me off...

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maryrachelle●Bathurst, New Brunswick Canada

Aug 27, 2011●2 Blogs●507 Comments

You haven't even met these people yet so at the most you should feel is minor disappointment not actual hurt.You're letting yourself get way to involved way too soon with complete strangers.

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feelinglostOP●Marooned on a rock, Canary Islands Spain

Aug 27, 2011●18 Blogs●196 Comments

@mary
You mis-read the blog...... it says "How many times HAVE YOU".

I am not stating whether this happened to me or not

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freesparrow●Harlingen, Texas USA

Aug 27, 2011●12 Comments

If you are the one that stops writing, maybe you give up too easily on people. When you are "talking" online, it is very easy to misunderstand-you should always try to clarify what the other person meant to say when they hurt you. One of my very close friends stopped writing to me and it does hurt because we had shared so much and he never gave me a real reason to end the friendship- I will never know the reason.

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maryrachelle●Bathurst, New Brunswick Canada

Aug 27, 2011●2 Blogs●507 Comments

Sorry but it really looked to me as if you were speaking from personal experience.My apologies.

How many times has this happened to me? Never.

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virgosingle●greymouth, West Coast New Zealand

Aug 27, 2011●409 Blogs●8,106 Comments

#10

I've lost count , how many times , but I find it can take minutes to fall in love where my heart is beating madly for the next word , and then my sences kick in and ,its all over ,when reality sinks in

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feelinglostOP●Marooned on a rock, Canary Islands Spain

Aug 27, 2011●18 Blogs●196 Comments

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@frees
Thank you for that…. My heart goes out to you to ease your pain.

@mary
Pleased to hear it …. I hope you never have to experience this

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a44dreamer●Nicosia, Cyprus

Aug 27, 2011●1 Blogs●55 Comments

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freesparrow - I agree people do give up too easy and it's easy to misunderstand what is being written. Maybe they had a disagreement but had the basis for friendship.

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heavensmile●Jakarta, Indonesia

Aug 27, 2011●23 Comments

#13

Dont hope too much, so the dissapointed also will not too much. People go and come, life must going on. If one go, mean the better one will come.

never give up .... see the wave on beach, never tired to always try touch your feet.

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freya55●huntly, Waikato New Zealand

Aug 27, 2011●34 Comments

#14

yes it has.but dissappointed no i wasnt,because i had no expections of what it could have been.it was their loss,

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Rusha●kolkata, West Bengal India

Aug 27, 2011●13 Blogs●168 Comments

#15

it happened to me lot of time:) but sometimes its disappointing when you get that feeling!!!but dnt bother i am sure you will find the right one

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robertino●acqualagna, Marche Italy

Aug 27, 2011●2 Blogs●146 Comments

#16

Only once,when i first came here,she wanted friendship and we mailed a lot,after tells me she is going and says goodbye,yes i was hurt,i even wanted to visit, then she comes back with another foto for 3 days!and closed again

just have to accept that we are all different.

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ItzStarrz●Birmingham, West Midlands, England UK

Aug 27, 2011●5 Comments

#17

Not many times, well once to be exact. But enough to know how it feels.

It happens pal, for a reason or whatever you see it as.

We just move on and get stronger!

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feelinglostOP●Marooned on a rock, Canary Islands Spain

Aug 27, 2011●18 Blogs●196 Comments

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@itz
I hear where you're coming from!!

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JulesLove●Jakarta, Indonesia

Aug 27, 2011●6 Blogs●310 Comments

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it was happening to me long time ago. often gets hurts by this. they were saying they love me and wanted to keep writing me until we grow old. but then, they just suddenly gone and I never heard from them anymore.

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Aeterna●Tokyo, Kanto Japan

Aug 27, 2011●2 Blogs●41 Comments

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Never

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steveinswmi●niles, Michigan USA

Aug 27, 2011●11 Blogs●167 Comments

#21

I've had it happen enough to know its infatuation with an idea or a hope. But if you really care enough you will push forward and keep striving to actually meet in person. Someone has to take the next step forward or its all in vain.

Its a big risk especially if they live a good distance. Talking online is just that, talk.

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HuggerMan4U●Kent, Washington USA

Aug 28, 2011●85 Blogs●1,279 Comments

#22

It's happened to me. Not on this site, but on other sites.

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