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What I Think Is Wrong

What I think is wrong with relationships n marriages n families today is the complete disregard for vows... Whether u r married or not when u commit yourself to another person u have made an unspoken promise to the other. My 5 year relationship ended almost a year ago and I have come to understand that it wasn't just him....maybe this challenge was to test my commitment....my commitment to the good AND the bad the SICKNESS and the health. We were not married but engaged, house, son...might have just as well been and when he needed me most I failed him... I let the bad win and the sickness win. I should have not turned my back on him I should have been there when he needed someone to love him, understand him and help him. We all make mistakes and I understand that now more than ever! I didn't write this blog for comments, tho u r more than welcome to, but merely to get it out.... I just needed to get it out!
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itchywitch
itchywitch●galway, Galway Ireland
Sep 25, 2011●1 Blogs●3,435 Comments
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needed to beat yourself up alittle lookin4luv...
dont start doing that to yourself scold you can always rely on others to do that for you, trying going easy on yourself instead, its healthier comfort
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titsy
titsy●Medan, North Sumatra Indonesia
Sep 25, 2011●71 Blogs●1,604 Comments
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I agree with your opinion on vows. The comittment and vows we made in the beginning to each other should be able to tie the knot tightly in a marriage - that's also what I beleive in. Thanks for your blog. Now it's time for you to move on the leave the past behind...sending youhug heart wings teddybear
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bsooner
bsooner●Chattanooga, Tennessee USA
Sep 25, 2011●595 Comments
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I will not pretend to know your situation. I bet you tried to be there for him in the beginning. I doubt you gave up right away and walked out on him. It does take two to either make it work, or ruin it. Don't beat yourself up. hug
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particolor
particolor●Inverell, New South Wales Australia
Sep 26, 2011●9,376 Comments
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Do you feel better now ????dunno bouquet
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elgabalus
elgabalus●faro, Faro Portugal
Sep 26, 2011●21 Comments
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An honourable self-evaluation - and without honour there is truly nothing...
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HuggerMan4U
HuggerMan4U●Kent, Washington USA
Sep 28, 2011●85 Blogs●1,279 Comments
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Staying true to vows is not stupid at all, snd vows certainly do not depend on circumstances. I've never broken a marriage, no matter how good or bad they were. Women divorce ME, not the other way around. When I'm married, I hold true to my marriage vows, no matter what, because I believe in the sanctity of marriage and the importance of vows. At most marriage ceremonies, the minister says something like, "We come before you today to witness the marriage of ____and ____ before God and man. What God has put together, let no man put asunder." Exactly why I keep my marriage vows. That's a quote from the Bible, by the way.

Please understand, I am NOT judging anybody for what they do, nor am I trying to make anybody feel guilty. I'm just giving my personal opinion about the subject. There's an old Native American proverb: "Before judging another man, walk a mile in his moccasins." We can never truly know what another person is going through until we walk in their shoes.

Regarding LookinFurLuv's blog, I watched a true story movie once that happened right here in Seattle. A young woman was dying of cancer, and her equally-young boyfriend couldn't stand the pain of watching his girlfriend dying, so he took off. He eventually came back, but I don't remember whether he came back before or after she died. I would have stayed behind and looked after her as best I could, but that's me. That's who I am.
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Heavyhauler
Heavyhauler●Secunda Mpumalanga, Mpumalanga South Africa
Sep 28, 2011●2 Blogs●32 Comments
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My lady left me a week after i dad my heart attacks..now after a year she wants to come back nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnno!! i don't think so ...yes my dear i see you have your regrets nice keep the good things up... phone that way and say it it clears out a lot of holds wich both of you dont need in life byeangel
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