What happened to the people interested in serious

I think people have been hurt so much that they don't want anything serious. I know men my age have gone through bad divorces and have financially been devasted; so they certainly don't want anything serious and really who can blame them.

I recently did a compatability quiz, even although it was for a 20 something. On looking at the scores afterwards I noticed from the 12+ folk that completed the quiz all the high scores were from over 40's with the highest scores from the over 50's.

Does this tell us something?

virgo that is so cynical!

If I was being cynical I would have just put it down to years of marriage giving us the ability to know the right answers....

who is talking Zand???

watch it??? how you can be serious, with your ex still loves you around you, friendship with a zimbabwaine and false relationsip with my friend.


If you live your ex because you do not love her anymore ho you can love someone?

You are looking for serious relationship?

What you say on your profile 30years married now is free where are your respects values like you do not care of the past??? is like never existing...

You are living in past,present and future you don't want to miss a thing???

You said that you would always be there for my friend.
But you weren’t.
When something happened she depended on you to be there.
But you were fishing.
she needed to talk to you.
But you were "busy".
Why when ever why needed you,
you were just gone

Now trying to hurt another one who turst in you

Good morning to you to Val.

Think you are needing to amend your profile from "Sweet and Romantic" to "Bitter and Twisted" Spoke to C last night - we do still talk you know. She is happy now and that is good.

Move on Val and stop your malicious stories.

imlost29,
keep trying,don't lose faith,as single4ever said people (men/women)got hurt and they need time to heal themselves,anyway you can't find the perfect one.

Imlost29

A friend who likes boys, had the same problem, he opted for an extreme solution, change some of their activities and their circle of friends, you now have a stable partner and a good relationship!

Many times, we are looking in the wrong place, I'm not saying that you become a bookworm, but look different from the usual activities.

Not always the rest of the world is wrong from time to time, we must acknowledge the remote possibility that the fault may be ours!

Hi Imlost!

I often ask myself this question, too. Then I ask myself if I am a woman and not a girl (in the sense you meant). So God (or the fate) knows the right time for us. Sometime we think we are ready for something but we actually aren't. Good if we don't mislead ourselves and the others...

Good luck and don't think bad of men or of yourself! No guilty ones in this "game", only people searching for happiness

Val

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.....

Didn't you know it's against the rules to make personal attacks?

But rules don't mean to much to you - do they?

You that uses a 25 year old profile photo and are actually Slovakian and not Scottish and Largs is not really where you stay either...

Have a nice day Val

ps. whats the point in blocking me - a bit late isn't it? Since you were blocked by me.

imlost29,

I too often wonder what is going on today. It seems like relationships have become disposable like so many of the things we buy at the store. It's like if it becomes a little dull or not working exactly the way the want, into the trash can with it and on to finding a new one, without trying to talk or figure out what is going on.

And there's like what some have mentioned. Some people have been burned and hurt so badly by one or many in their lives, and they put up walls as a defense mechanism and do not let anyone get too close to them. Some of them figure if they hurt the other person first they won't be the one who gets hurt this time. Some have lost faith in there being long term meaningful relationships anymore, or never believed in them in the first place.

There are people out there who want them, it's just you have to look hard to find them. You can't get discouraged or lose hope, and that can be tough and more easier said than done sometimes.

Ha Ha


Your ex accept you to have friends with her and trust you and you going to leave her because you don't love her.


my friend trusting you and you was still contact your black friend from London and still do and social with your ex.

How can she trust you

Bye Bye

Have to go now Val. So if you want to continue your on your own.

You say I lie - thats interesting?

I'm not the one coming out with all these new details. Have you changed your profile accordingly?

Isn't it also true that C had you remove some malicious blogs you wrote.

If you care so little for me and so much for your friend - let it go. You are starting to look silly.

Yes buck you are right
.
It's happened to my friend she been hurt from first time she cannot be thesame she lost faith in being long term relationships anymore, or never believed in them in the first place.

But she hurt more the second time from a Zan that pretened or make her belive that he is serious...and what to be with her forever and use her..want her to accept his ex with them.

You know how I feel if you are still in separation don't look for relationship until you are divorse free.not to write on your profile you are free when you still live with your ex and share the house, and socialise, whilsth you are in planning for relationship.... she tried to trusting him living with his wife , but his ex always complaning of something when they where together...

You know Now she decide it to close for good, she find a partner from her country and they start a friendship, with any ex involved in there life.

ha ha lier why don't you try to contact her is on recording line

all my friend are happy with my profile and see me in real
but I want give my mail to you.

I am strong heart and Proud to be Romanian. I my husband scotish like you stupid.

Byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee eat your heart smoke your sigarets ha ha ha happy Sunday good conversation byeeeeeeeeee

it's so typical, we run into wrong people all the time
I am not serious myself, but get a lot of serious contacts

Imlost, who posted the original blog, must be truly lost now.

NObody else knew about the Black Arrow!?