Paid vs Free Online Dating Membership Sites

Everyone loves free right? Why pay for something that you can get for free sometimes seems like the motto of the internet age when many things online carry an expectation of being free. And no doubt, in many cases there is good stuff that is free, but sometimes it isn’t and you get what you pay for. With all that being said, should you consider using paid dating sites and services when there are also free options available?The good news is that even the paid dating membership sites usually offer a free or trial membership option to new members. This allows someone to sign up and take a look around at some of the site’s features before making a decision to pay. What the site’s count on is that that people who are serious about getting results in their online dating will pay the small fee that is required to upgrade to full access so they can get the additional services and features that a paid membership offers them.

Paid memberships are often considered to offer the chance of having a considerably better success rate because assumptions about the type of people who pay for their memberships.One of these assumptions is that people who are serious enough to pay a small fee for access will be more serious about finding a relationship and will make more of an effort to contact others and strike up relationships with them. Not only will they make the effort but they also know that others in the paid memberships have the same desires and expectations and the chance of someone else making contact is also considerably better. With a free membership site, anyone can sign up and then just abandon their profile without being serious at all. In a paid membership site the user who is paying a fee is likely to use the service since they are paying for it.

So in a way with a paid membership site the members are somewhat screened by this process of payment into a group who is at least interested enough to spend a little money on the membership. Theoretically, this extra bit of investment in the process improves the quality of the available prospective dates and that could make a big difference when you are looking for a lasting relationship.Another difference that is often argued between free versus paid dating sites are that free sites are going to have a lower quality of customer support and service since they will have non paying members and the paid sites will need to be better at this since customers are paying and will expect more solid support. While not necessarily true, this argument has many supporters.

Also, the fee for a paid membership site is still usually far less than the cost of just going out for one dinner date or even just to the movies so if you are only looking at it from an economic point of view then it is quite possibly the best option you will get. With all of the positive possibilities this can be money well spent. Millions of people definitely think so and with several sites having success, there is a lot of social proof and success stories out there. It is a fact that most people always look at the cost before deciding whether they want to invest their money and online dating sites are going to be no exception to this. Even though there are free options to explore, some of the lack of self screening that will occur in the paid sites can make them a less effective option. Some of the most successful websites on the Internet are in the paid online dating area because they deliver extremely good value and results for the money spent.
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Hi Ray,

I don't have much experience on dating sites. I've been on a couple of ones that are partly paid. I paid for one month on one of them. My observations are that most of the people there don't pay using only the free options. They just hope to meet someone who has paid so they can communicate with him. All this seemed quite pathetic to me especially when men expect the woman to have paid and they to use it.

I've heard that the really expensive sites are the most successful ones but it's not my personal experience.
Belle, I also thought he owned a dating site rolling on the floor laughing Most of them are rubbish!
I was thinking it sounded like an ad as well.....hmmmmmblah
I was waiting for the website address
all the way at the bottom of this blog.
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Paid sites are the same as a free site. I don't think I want to really belong to one!
You have all said what I was going to say So I wont say anything OK !!??

UMMM!! PS...You Get SFA In the Cough Up Sites TOO !!!!
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Hey chicabonita its nice to know that someone feels the same way! So yeah I guess you can call them snobs!
Hi Bellewave That's lifesigh bouquet
Ray, thank you for sharing your point! I'm sure that many people here feel the same way, no matter where they live. I am really surprised to see that some people immediately attacked you for promoting paid sites! God, have we all became so judgmental, suspicious, cynical, and frustrated that we have to attack everything (everybody new) that moves here?

Don't give up, try different sites! Good luck and Merry Christmas! hug thumbs up
thank you Jana28, i appreciate that :) i been on here 4 months, if anyones bored i have lots of music videos on my profile i upload more each week, im on every free dating site, this site is the main one i get messages or use to anyways, i fell inlove with one girl on here a while back her name was ash4009, we wrote 4 hours straight the day we met then wrote often few days after then herd from her less got short replys, her excuse was she pushes nice guys away doesn't want to fall inlove get hurt again, i had few older ladys read her messages they said she wants me to fall for her, when i told her i loved her was inlove she said dont say that n she was offline for 8 days, while being offline for 8 days this guy left shout outs on her profile saying shes not mexican shes 15 n black, i dont care about race just the age worried me, i left her a message about what he said, when she came back she said hes lying n she even said that on her profile, she uploaded new pics n left for good the next day never came back, i asked him for her email wrote it 1 time no reply, everyday i would go on new members in hopes she returned but after 2 weeks i wrote her, telling her ill always be love her but im moving on she no longer controls me emotionally, 1 week after that 3 weeks of being gone she re pops back into my life again she told me i was right she was wrong, i told her after she played emotional games with me the 1st time that if were to keep writing then she needs to show me proof shes real n not a fake profile, i sent her a dvd-r with me on it long time ago so i told her u dont call u dont send me mail u dont take recent new pics, she argues saying i dont need this extra bs so to my point, am i in the wrong for asking her to show me proof shes real ?i mean i showed her proof its only fair right ? idk why shes making a big deal about it, the email that belongs to a 15 year old black girl on facebook she said she created that email for her ex's daughter when she dated him, she said thats why both last names are different, were kinda arguing so idk what to do somethings telling me to move on that why keep writing falling more inlove when it could be a possible fake profile, but im so inlove with her when she left CS it hurt me so bad, all this im saying she already knows, any advice people lol, thanks n sorry i didn't bottom line that, that other girl who lives far away that told me to keep searching shes been great to me from day one, when ash4009 left a few weeks later i told that other girl how i felt about her, she was cool about it but because of the distance u obviously know her story, when i told her ash4009 came back n were writing again then she wrote less saying her internets acting up, hmm really lol, i know she wants me to wait for her but it could take a year or longer, what a dilemma huh lol, ok thanks peacedoh sigh sad flower
I said that because it sounded like a promotion for paid dating sites. To the OP yes we would reason that if you are paying that the people would be more serious in a RATIONAL world. But I've used pay sites and from my experience that hasn't been the case.
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